February 23, 2009

Hello Again,

Thank you Abby! You are the best. How sweet of you to remember me on Valentines Day. I could not wait to use my special mug so I had hot chocolate tonight. I thought about how sweet you are the entire time! Thank you for the special gift but most especially for bringing a smile to my face. I'm sending big hugs and kisses your way. . . . . . Forever missing Avery. . . . . .Gene Ann

February 23, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was a great day! My first official day with Clinique. It was wonderful. Although it was mainly orientation I learned so much. I can't wait to start organizing the counter and helping customers. The products are awesome. There is just so much that needs to be done right now.

I ended up working an hour and a half over today. I just couldn't find a place to stop. I also didn't want to leave the counter without anyone there to help the customers. Everyone called out today.

On the way home I talked to Grandmother and Granddaddy for a few minutes then Janet beeped in. She dropped off dinner. It was wonderful having a home cooked meal that I didn't have to cook. I really enjoyed my dinner. Pilot was a good girl while I was at work.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with every ounce of my heart . . . . . . Gene Ann

****Don't forget to eat at IHOP tomorrow. It is National Pancake Day and the proceeds go to Children's Hospital. I think I might have to skip the diet and enjoy some pancakes. First in memory of Avery and second to help out any way I can. *****

February 22, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I am back home after a wonderful weekend! I will share a few stories of my weekend later. I will say that Avery was with me every step of the way. I found so many special things she left for me. I miss her so much but when she leaves me signs it makes me smile. I know then she is watching out for me now.

As for training I got a few miles in this weekend. I guess I will be going to a gym most every night this week. It really is depending on the weather. I am determined to get to over 10 miles by the end of the week. I am ready! The countdown is on two weeks from today.

This week is a really busy one. I officially start with Clinique tomorrow. Tuesday and Wednesday I will be in Birmingham for training (Counter Manager Leadership one day then Strategy the next day). Thursday I have the day off to take care of a few things that need taking care of. Then it will be work, work, work, until Disney time. I can't wait! It should be a wonderful trip.

Pilot seemed to be happy to see me. Of course Grandmother and Granddaddy had given her a new bone before they left so she was more into that than seeing me. She did very good with Grandmother and Granddaddy. Thank you both for all you did. Wow, I came in to find several little projects taken care of. You both are the best!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 18, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Another crazy busy day. I started at 6:15 and haven't stopped yet. I know I need some rest but I'm on a roll. I have accomplished so many little things that I have been putting off taking the time to do.

Work was slow on the retail side but very busy on the organizing side. I didn't get as much done as I would have liked but it will come with time. I worked much later than I planned. As I was leaving it was raining so hard. I got soaked! But I was ready to get home. I didn't get home in time for choir tonight. I came home changed, dried my hair, warmed up a little and went to the grocery store. Grandmother and Granddaddy are coming tomorrow to house/dog sit for me this weekend. I am taking a short trip with some special friends. I will be gone tomorrow night through Sunday. I am going to see how many miles a day I can get in while away. The marathon is fast approaching.

When I got home from the grocery store I had an email from Pastor Steve. The I guess you could call it "Remembrance Service" is going to be March 22nd at 9:40 in memory of Avery. Following the service we will have some type probably lasagna luncheon to benefit Relay for Life (Avery's Army). This will be just four days before her birthday. The plans are in the works and it is sure to be something very special. Please make your plans now to attend. We would love to see you all!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with all of my heart . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 17, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Another wonderful day! Very busy as usual. Erica came by to pick me up this morning and we both discovered that we are totally exhausted. She has been working like crazy even going in on her off days to get things done without getting paid. I see this in my future as well. We have to get our counters organized and this seems to be the only way to get it done.

It is so nice having someone to ride to work with! Work was busy today. The Clinique counter got a huge shipment of product today. The best way to learn where everything is to stock product. I worked the entire day putting things away, organizing, trying to to organize. Anyway when I left I felt as though it was worse than when I started. I have to remember that this will take time and can't be done overnight. Oh, to be able to twitch my nose and it all be done. What fun would that be?

When I got home I got so busy that I forgot to eat dinner. Well, after Grandmother asked me what I fixed for dinner and I said "oh nothing. . . . . I'm really not hungry?" It hit me that I was in fact ready to eat a bite of something. I looked around not really seeing anything I wanted so Campbell's Chicken Noodle Soup it was. When in doubt that works every time.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy today . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 16, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was a great day! Very busy at times. First of thank you Erica for going in on your off day so I would have someone to show me around. It was great having someone to ride with on my first day. Ok so I have an Avery story. We were in the stock room looking around and I was thinking to myself and praying "oh Lord what have I done. . . is this the right decision?" I went to walk and when I did I drug my foot just a little and seemed to kick something all I could see was a penny scooting across the floor. I knew then that I am where I am suppose to be. The peace that filled my heart at that moment was incredible and all my nervousness went away.

Chanel was ok today. I did do a makeover and sold quite a bit of product. Yes, I tried to talk her into using another line knowing that Chanel will not be there much longer. She insisted and the customer always gets what the customer wants. Everyone was very nice. The hardest part of the day was looking at the carousal all day. Yes, the Chanel counter has the perfect view of that. I could hear the children laughing then I would get a wiff of cookies and I would think of Avery. But all of those thoughts are such happy memories.

After work I headed back to Prattville. I stopped by the house to check on Pilot. She was very good today. We went out for a quick potty break then I crated her for the remainder of my busy night. I was off again to the Relay for Life team captains meeting. I had to receipt money for an hour.

I had to leave the meeting before it was over to head to Applebee's for dinner. There were nine of us that celebrated my birthday again. It was wonderful! Thank you Pam, Jennie, Cindy, Debbie, Donna, Jan, Mary and Vickie! I had a wonderful time. I am so blessed with such wonderful friends.

After dinner I had to pick up some juice for a breakfast at church tomorrow morning. I dropped the juice by to Pam so she could drop it by the church. We visited for a little bit. It is always good to catch up. We are hoping to install all of my upper case living stuff next week. I can't wait to show it off after we get it up.

Once home it was time for bed. It had been a very full day! A very blessed day.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever today . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 15, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today seemed to be non-stop. I got up got ready went to church. The service was great! I really enjoyed the sermon but had to leave to get ready for choir before it was all wrapped up. It really hit home with me and would have loved to have heard it all. It was on imagination and you all know what a great big imagination Avery had. Anyway after choir I had just enough time to get to work, clock in and make it just in time for the morning meeting.

Work was great! I couldn't believe that it was my last day at the new Belk in Prattville. Tomorrow is a big step for me. I will start in Montgomery. I am still working on the plan for Pilot. We are going to try several different things to see what works best for her. Anyway it was quite sad leaving today. I feel such a part of that store. I feel as though in some small way that I helped to build what is there. Now, I have to start over. . . .but this is a good thing for me.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy today . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 14, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was a wonderful day. Sad at times but wonderful. I am so blessed to have such loving, caring family and friends. I started out the day in Avery fashion with birthday cake for breakfast. It wasn't a very big piece but enough that I know Avery was proud!

I worked the early shift and everybody at work made the day even more special. I am going to miss every one so much! I can't believe that I only have one day left at the Prattville store. That makes me nervous at times but I know this is the right move. I feel good about what I am doing.

I had a special visit from a friend I have known since I was four. She stopped by the store with a beautiful plant and the sweetest card. Thank you Jolie for stopping by and making my birthday even more special. I just can't begin to put into words how special my day has been.

After work I quickly went home to check on Pilot and then it was off for dinner reservations at Shogun. It ended up that only four of us were able to go. Elisabeth, Amy and Allison (Amy's daughter), and myself had a great time. The food was excellent as always. After dinner though the entire room sang happy birthday to me. Ok, I could hear Avery giggling above them all. There are times that is all I can hear. I know she was getting a kick out of that.

Once back to Prattville I really didn't want to go home so I headed toward Erica's when I realized that going home was what I really needed to do. So I turned around and went home. It was quiet until Pilot decided she needed to go outside. We then curled up in the big chair to watch a movie. It was a great day filled with so many emotions. The emotions of missing Avery to the emotions and realization that I only have one day left working in the new store. Thank you to everyone that made the day a very special day and one I will never forget. I am so blessed to have you all!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy today . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 14, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Valetine's Day! I hope that everyone has a great day filled with lots of love. Don't forget your special Valentine.

Good luck today Caroline! Thank you for continuing to run the Mercedes marathon each year. You are very special to us. I am going to try very hard to watch on-line Fox 6 so I can see you. Thank you for wearing Avery's bracelet!

Congratulations Nena and Ellie! THEY WON!!!!! I got the email and a voice mail late yesterday afternoon. I am so excited for your both! I know Avery and her angel buddies celebrated in heaven last night.

More to come. . . . . Missing my sweet Avery more than ever today. . . . . Gene Ann

February 13, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Friday the 13th! Hopefully you will all be very careful today.

Today was super busy day for me. I got up and never stopped until midnight. I didn't go into work until 1:30 but I had so many errands to take care of before work. Once I got to work I realized I never did eat anything. We were very busy today. I got to help out in Clinique for a while that is always fun. It got crazy a time or two after the dinner breaks. By this time I was the only in fragrance so I really needed roller skates a time or two. We managed to take care of everyone.

I got home to a very excited Pilot. It was passed her bedtime when I got home. She was ready for bed! She reminds me of Avery at times. When she is ready for bed everybody should go to bed. She doesn't want to miss anything. She kept trying to nudge me towards the bedroom as I was doing a few things around the house. I had a request for a red velvet cake at work. They wanted one last cake before I leave. I stayed up to make one but have to get up early so I can ice the cake in the morning. All my life red velvet cake has been a tradition on Valentine's day. It was always heart shapped and usually had candles on it. This one is not that fancy. It is a sheet cake. Plain and simple.

I finished in the kitchen and decided to catch up on a show or two from tivo. Pilot and I must have fallen asleep shortly after midnight. When we got up to go to bed she went straight to the bed and make her nest. She was so tired. I didn't have to chase her or whistle a hundred times she jumped right up and went to sleep immediately. What a good doggie she is.

Tomorrow I am working the early shift. After work a few of us are going to dinner in Montgomery. We are going to one of Avery's favorite places "Shogun." I think we went on Valentine's day a couple of years ago. Avery would always be dressed up and have her purse on her shoulder. Everybody there knew her after just one trip. One night we went in and Avery did not have her purse so they all wanted to know "where is your purse?" She looked up at me looked at them and raised her arms up like I don't know where is it mommy? It was so cute and funny. She loved going to "Japanese steak house." That is what she called it and we always had a great time. I am sure tomorrow night will be no different.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy today . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 12, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was a very busy day as usual. I got some things together early to drop off at Mother's Day Out. Their Relay for Life Team is "Fighting for Fiona." Still with the Shrekin for a Cure theme. It gives me goose bumps every time I think about it. How special! It is always good to stop by and see everyone. I really love that place and everyone there!

So while I was getting ready this morning I received a phone call from Belk at Eastdale Mall in Montgomery. I was offered a job and accepted the job. I will be the new counter manager for Clinique. They want me to start next week but not at Clinique. For one week I will be at the Chanel counter. This will give me time to transition into the new position seeing how the following week is counter manager leadership conference one day and strategy the next day. I am very excited! I really need something to dive into right now. This will be just the job for me.

Work was great today. It is getting busy with Valentine shoppers. I'm sure tomorrow will be very busy. We will be open until 10 tomorrow night. Don't forget to pick your Valentine up something special.

I really am dreading the weekend. I miss Avery so much! Holidays were always a special time for us. I tried very hard to make Valentine's day special for everybody! I keep thinking back to last year. How excited she was with her new Princess table and chairs. How we partied the night before with GiGi and Grandmother. We partied the day of with Grandmother during the day and had a lovely dinner for Daddy when he got home. We had the best day! Avery went to Mother's Day Out for the Valentine party and it was the last time she was able to attend anything. It was the last time she was able to feed herself. She loved being there with her friends. She loved that they had cheese pizza! We just had the most wonderful day! I miss her so much.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever today . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 11, 2009

Hello Everybody,

What a wonderful day I have had. I got up early and hit the ground running. I have just been so full of energy (I guess that is what resting does). I got so many things accomplished and then headed to meet a friend at Starbuck's for coffee. It has been so long since I have been able to do that. It was nice catching up and especially nice to laugh. Girl talk is always good!

We had so much fun we decided to eat lunch. We had such a great time. When I got back home it was time for pest control to spray the house. I crated Pilot ahead of time in fear of not catching her when the door bell rang. She was good but loud. After he finished spraying I ran to take care of an errand or two. By this time it was time to go and help take money at church. I had taken a break from this for a while but was asked to come help out. I am so glad that I went. It was so nice to see everybody!

Choir practice was great tonight. We started on our Easter music. Wow, it is that time already. It is has been hard the past few weeks knowing that Valentine's Day, Avery's birthday and Easter will be here before we know it. Those were such special holidays for us. I miss her so much! I find myself finding things while out saying "I'll pick that up for . . . . oh I don't get to do that anymore!" My heart just breaks! I loved doing special things for her and Dan. I love doing for others. It makes me feel good to do those type of things. I miss her so terribly much!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with all of my heart . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 10, 2009

Hello Everybody!

Not much going on today. It was busy as usual but once in for the day I decided to take a break from doing anything. I actually took a nap. Pilot was very happy about this. I was just so drained from my very long day that all I wanted to do was sleep. The bad part was when I got up to go to bed it took a while to go back to sleep.

I am off tomorrow and for once I don't have any major plans. I need to do a ton of stuff but I might just play. I just have not had one of those type days in so long.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever today . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 9, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Another busy day! Today I went to work at 1:30 but it is amazing what all I accomplised before work. I was a busy bee. Things are still taking shape around here. The busier I stay the better.

Work was good. It was slow but that enabled us to get so many little things done. I took my dinner break to attend the committee meeting for Relay for Life. I am finally getting the hang of the accounting stuff. More and more deposits are being turned in and that is a good thing. Our goal this year is $100,000. We are at 10% of our goal. We have a long way to go but we should make it this year. We are shooting for the cook books to be ready by the end of February. As soon as they are ready I will post how to get one on the website. Hopefully Avery's Army can sell tons of them!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 8, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was another wonderful day! We got up got ready and went to church. The service was wonderful. The choir did an amazing job today at the 11:00 service. Sometimes we just do a little bit better than others. The song is still playing in my head.

After church I met up with Grandmother and Natileigh. We decided to go out for lunch. Avery must have led us to IHOP because that is where we ate. It has almost been a year since I have eaten there. Well at least 10 months. That was one of the last meals Avery at before she passed away. She loved breakfast! We had a great meal. The best part was we got to see Christie that use to clean our house. She came over and visited with us for a minute. It is always great to see old friends.

Once we finished with lunch we ran a few errands. Then it was time for everyone to get on the road. The weekend just wasn't long enough. But no time to sit I had walking to do. I met Charlie and Jennie at their house and we walked for 45 minutes in their neighborhood. I came back home finished my review and headed to Belk to turn it in.

When I got back home I decided to walk some more so I walked for another hour. I didn't get many miles in today. The marathon is one month from today. I can't wait! I just know we are going to have the best time. I know we will do great!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with all my heart . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 7, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was a great day! I just can't begin to explain it all. Work was great, the girls outing was fun and the night just kept getting better. The only thing missing was our little event planner. I think she would have been very happy with what we did though.

Natileigh got into town early. She and Grandmother came to Belk to do some shopping and for Natileigh to interview Mark for her school project. When it was time for me to get off Jennie, Grandmother and Natileigh were waiting ready to go to Montgomery for some fun. We went to the mall then decided that we were all ready to eat so we headed toward MiMi's. It was wonderful! It brought back memories of our California trip when we ate at MiMi's and Avery said "where is MiMi?" She thought that the character on Days of Our Lives MiMi would be at MiMi's. Pretty smart. But we had to make up something so we told her that she was on vacation. Avery said "oh ok so where is . . . . ?" I guess she thought that all of the characters eat at MiMi's. We had a good laugh then and I laughed this afternoon as I thought about that day.

After dinner we decided to go back home and watch movies. Grandmother had picked up birthday cake so it was cake and movies. We all had a great time. Natileigh brought her wii fit with her. She showed me some of the things you can do. I really think I would enjoy having one and working out when I can't run/walk. Maybe one day.

It was a great day! We all had so much fun. Grandmother and Natileigh visited with Avery changing out the snowman for a more spring like ornament. Hopefully we will get her marker ordered in the next few weeks. Dan and I have found a place that makes custom markers. We really like the work that we have seen. We hope to have a very special one in place soon.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 6, 2009

Hello Everybody,

What a day! I got up early to get a few things done before going to work. I had to run a few errands before work too. I got ready and worked like crazy. I called Dan to see if he was coming by here to pick up the tax information but he was tied up with conference calls so he asked me to bring it to him. I said "sure what time." The entire time thinking I didn't go into work until 3:30 today. We agreed on 2:00 so I started cooking and doing some things to kill some time until 2:00. The phone rang at 1:30 it was Angie asking me what time I was coming to work today. I responded 3:30 and she said "you might want to look at the schedule again?" OH NO! I was suppose to be at work at 1:30. I grabbed my stuff, ran by Dan's gave him the tax information with all of my explanations for the numbers I had. Talked with him for a few minutes then headed for Belk. Wow, I clocked in at 2:00. Whew, that has not happened before and hopefully will not happen again.

Work was not terribly busy but a little busier than normal. It was a fun day. Mark had agreed to let us make him up every time we got a credit. He looked like a Mardi Gras mask by the time the night was over. It was hysterical!

Grandmother got into town tonight. We are having our girls weekend this weekend. Natileigh will be here tomorrow morning. Mark and Salem are helping her with her senior project. We are going to have so much fun. We have planned birthday cake and a balloon release in Avery's honor. We know that is what she would want. Today while shopping I noticed some Valentine's things and went closer to check them out. There was a pack of tiaras and magic wands (4 to a pack). Without hesitation I put a pack of each in the cart and proceeded to finish shopping. When I got home I realized what I had done. I laughed for a minute then cried for ten. I had gotten them for Avery without thinking. I decided to use them in her birthday bouquet. Think about it though there were four to a pack one for each of us. Avery would have made us all wear one. She would have been in charge of all this weekends festivities. To some extent she still is and always will be.

Tomorrow I will be working until 3:30 then we will go to Montgomery to do a few things. Oh Avery loved our girl times. I miss that so much!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Madigan, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

P.S. Granddaddy's test turned out fine! Thank you all for your prayers.

February 6, 2009

Hello Everybody,

****Special Prayer Request******* I received an email from a friend of mine requesting prayer for her niece. Madigan is three years old and is having surgery this morning on her spine. It is the first in a serious of surgeries. Please pray that all goes well. Stop by her caring bridge site and leave them messages today. It is www.caringbridge.org/visit/madiganclairegow. I will post more later . . . . Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery terribly. . . . .Gene Ann

February 5, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I got up early this morning to the most beautiful sight. I didn't realize that we got the Fox 6 morning show from Birmingham. I knew that Nena and Ellie would be on the show. I also knew that they would be using the video they did of Avery almost two years ago. I got up got a few things done and then I saw the most precious interview and the sweetest little angels video. It was an amazing blessing! Please continue to vote for Nena and Ellie. This week ends the voting and the winners will be announced on Valentine's Day. I think them winning would be the best birthday present I could ever receive!

Today was a day of many accomplishments. First I have completely cleaned out my closet! I don't just mean shoving things into another place. The clothes that are too big and unwanted have been delivered to the clothes closet for Autauga Interfaith. The back in of my explorer was loaded down but I managed to get them where they needed to be. The sad part of this is you really can't miss them. I should probably continue going through and throwing out but I have so many more projects that need my attention now.

I came home and started dusting. I have done so much but have so much to do. My goal is to get the entire house done and then start on Avery's room. I am almost ready. I ease toward the door a little more often and sometimes find myself unlocking the door to peak inside. Some days I just hurry and shut the door back others I stand in amazement look around for a while shuttering at the thoughts of having to deal with all the stuff in that room. There are days I just want to leave it the way it is but others I want to organize it simplify it and make it wonderful. Avery loved when her room was not messy. She would say "I've worked on my room all day Daddy it's not messy anymore!" I would just laugh because she had been at school while mommy cleaned the room. But I loved how proud she was that her room was not messy. Hopefully I can one day soon get it the way she would want it be.

Work was good. It seemed as though I had been off for a week. The time went by fairly quickly. We got out on-time tonight which is pretty amazing.

Please say special prayers for Granddaddy he is having an MRI and a nuclear stress test tomorrow (Friday) morning. I will update as soon as I get results. Please continue to pray for Erica and Ryan. Please continue to pray for Hannah Grace Harrison.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 4, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I was off today but managed to stay very busy. I got up early and began working. I was very focused on getting organized. It is such a slow process for me but I am seeing improvement every day!

I had a conference call that lasted about 45 minutes this morning. After that it was back to work on organizing. I am really amazed at what all I got done. Then I got ready and headed for Belk. I know I am off so why go to work. Well I had a delivery to make. Once I got there though I got surprises my "Pampered Chef" was in and Angie's husband Joey had made me a brown sugar pie. YUMMY! From there I was headed to check on Erica but when I called she had company.I decided to wait and go when she needs me she needs to visit with her family right now. She had surgery yesterday morning and is at home now. Please continue to pray for Erica and Ryan.

When I got back home I worked until time for choir practice. It was wonderful as always. I left feeling so uplifted! The song we are singing Sunday is still playing in my head which means I will be singing it for the next week. I love it when that happens! I do not go in tomorrow until 3:30 so I basically have another whole day to work on getting these little things done.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 3, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was such a very busy day. Once I was at work it seemed as though I blinked and it was time to go home. There was so much to do. I tried to do it all but didn't quite get finished. When I left Angie was finishing up what I could not get done. I hope that it helped her shift to go by as quickly as mine.

I got home early and began getting things done. I cleaned a little and started a load of laundry. Pilot has been good and she even stayed out all day today only because I could not catch her to crate her this morning.

I decided chinese food would be good for dinner. I went and picked up from my favorite place and headed home to eat. It has been so cold the last few days. I am hoping for some warmer weather so I can walk. I don't do well in the cold! After dinner I worked on more Relay deposits. Hopefully they have all been caught up for now. That will all change on Monday night when we have our committee meeting. It is much easier now that it is organized and I know what I am doing.

Oh, how I have missed Avery tonight. Natileigh and Grandmother are coming this weekend for our girls weekend and it just has me thinking about Avery. She loved our special girl trips. I remember one time Dan asked could he go and she giggled then said "silly daddy it is a girl trip you can't go you are not a girl!" It was just the way she said it that was so funny! I miss her giggles! The house is so quiet now. It just doesn't seem to get any easier. Please say special prayers for the Moore (Jesika) family today would have been Sophia's birthday. They are having a balloon release and cake tonight. My heart goes out to them all.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 3, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Tina! We hope that you have a wonderful day today filled with many wonderful blessings. May the following year be filled with many special times and tons of surprises. Remember to eat cake first today in memory of Avery. Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

February 2, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Ground Hog's Day! I knew when I got up this morning that he would see his shadow. What a bummer! It was so beautiful yesterday and then today just what happened?

So another very busy day! I worked a little longer today than planned. Sandy is having to take some time off to tend to her husband who is having some medical issues. Angie will not be back from vacation until tomorrow so I am the only fragrance girl and have been for the past five days. I would have worked longer today but I had a meeting for Relay for Life about our cookbook.

I left work and headed straight for the meeting but no one was there. Ok so maybe I should run home and re-check the answering machine and email. So I did that and nothing except yes there was a meeting but it never said where. I drove back by the usual meeting place and no one was there. I went back to Belk and picked Rana up. We headed to Montgomery to go check on Erica. This was very hard for me but I managed to make it. I knew I had to go see her. We took her some goodies that made her smile. She could be in the hospital for a few more days. She still has not delivered the baby and there is too much risk for surgery at this point. Please pray for her and her husband Ryan.

We visited for a while then headed back to Prattville. I had to stop and pick up some dinner seeing how I had not eaten today. I came in ate, played with Pilot, sat down to watch Medium, then decided it was time to go to bed. This decision made Pilot very happy. She was ready for bed. Whew, what a day! Maybe tomorrow I can get a few things done around the house. I'm not making any plans to do anything other than clean house after work. It is not that bad but I have company coming for the weekend. Grandmother and Natileigh are coming for a visit. I can't wait to see them both. We should have some fun.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica, Erin, Hannah Grace, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

February 1, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Whew what a busy day! I was up early this morning getting ready for communion at church. I have taken on the responsibility of chairing the altar guild this year. Thank goodness for eager committee members. I was at church early this morning dropping off supplies and helping get everything set up. I had the 9:40 service set up quickly and had just enough time to run back home to pick up a thing or two I had left behind before the service began. Church was wonderful! The message was so good. I am so thankful that I was able to be in attendence.

After church I had just enough time to stop by the house and put together a buffalo dip to take to the Gonthier's house for the Super Bowl party. From there I headed to work. Yes, I had to work for a few hours. It really wasn't that bad. Business seemed to die as I was leaving. Everybody was getting ready for their last big tailgating parties.

I went home took Pilot out for a quick walk loaded the car and headed toward Alabaster. I am so glad that I went to the party. It was so much fun. We had a great time and of course the food was wonderful. I ate entirely too much. The King Cake from New Orleans had to be the best part of the night. Oh my goodness I will never eat one from here again! Hopefully the scale will not jump tomorrow morning:) Ok, so the commercials were good but for once the game was great! I was pulling for the Steelers but toward the end I didn't care which team won. The game was so good that it didn't matter.

Once I was home though I was wiped out! It was definitely time for bed! What a wonderful day filled with incredible fellowship. I am so blessed to have such wonderful friends.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erica (she is still in the hospital) Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Ro,y, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with all of my heart and soul . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 31, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Urgent Prayer Request! Sorry I have not posted this sooner. Little Hannah Grace Harrison is in need of urgent prayers. Please go to her website for more details it is www.caringbridge.org/visit/hannahgraceharrison. Please pray for this wonderful family! Please pray that Hannah Grace gets off of the ventilator soon and makes a full recovery. Please leave them messages of encouragement on her website.

Another prayer request for Erica and her husband Ryan. She was taken back to the ER today and then transported to Montgomery. They are keeping her overnight. She is in tremendous pain. Please pray for them during this difficult time.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever today . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 30, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Please pray for my friend Erica. She called me this morning at 6:30 very upset. She was having some complications with her pregnancy. Later today she was told that she miscarried the baby. She was about 18 weeks pregnant. This is a very hard time for them right now so please add them to your prayer list. My heart is hurting for them. More to come. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

January 29, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was a good day. I went into work early skipping lunch so that I could leave in time to drive to Birmingham for a special fundraiser. I met GiGi at her house and we headed for the Tutwiler Hotel for "Accoustic Soup." It was a fun event for a great cause. The first person I ran into was Beth Franklin the executive director of Hand-in-Paw. It was great to see her.

We had a great time sampling soups from various restaurants. It was so cold so the soup hit the spot. The silent auction was good but I didn't bid on anything. I just didn't see anything I needed.

After the event we went back to GiGi's and just sat for a couple of hours chatting away. It was so good to laugh! GiGi has a way of making you feel better no matter what is going on. Avery loved her GiGi! As I got in the car to drive home I turned on the radio and the song playing was "Hero!" That is Avery's song the one on the website. I had one of those moments that I totally knew Avery was with me. I could feel her in looking at me and telling me to keep going. It was as if she was saying "mommy I'm here!" Oh, how I miss her! I was so happy driving home knowing that Avery had stopped by. I live for these little visits.

Pilot was very happy to see me when I got home. She had a interesting day today. Jennie stopped by on her lunch to take her out and let her loose until Erica stopped by later to take her out and crate her until I got home. She didn't have to spend the whole day in the crate so she seemed to be really happy. I have been letting her stay out more (so far so good). She has been a good bed buddy lately. I love it when she snores it reminds me of Avery. You could ask Avery "what does Daddy do when he sleeps?" she would pretend to snore and it was so funny! She was such a comedian at times. I miss her humor!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 28, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I was off today but seemed to have been busier than normal. I got up early to get a few things done before going to Montgomery. I started working in the closet and before I knew it I had finally accomplished cleaning it out. Amazing when you make up your mind to do something it can get done. Well, by this time it was time to get ready and head to Montgomery.

I had an appointment for something that I have neglected lately. It was one of those things that I sat thinking of Avery the entire time saying to myself "look at all she went through and this is nothing!" It should all be fine.

Once I got back to Prattville I stopped to take care of a few things. Errands can be so exhausting! I was at my last stop when I got a call to meet the American Cancer Society Representative to pick up more Relay for Life money. The teams are really getting out and collecting! This is very exciting!

From there I decided to go home. It was cold, rainy and just down right dreary. I headed in but never sat down. I decided the closet looked so good why not start another project. Then I decided to start dinner. Erica came over to eat dinner when she got off work. I so enjoy having company for dinner. Lately I just skip dinner to not have to eat alone. It was different knowing someone is coming home and eating alone versus knowing no one is coming home and having to eat alone. I do miss Dan! He will be traveling to Michigan tomorrow night so please keep him in your prayers for safe travels.

Ok so I did sit down to watch American Idol with Erica. It was great. She could not wait for me to see the next show but all I saw was the back of my eyelids. Now, maybe she understands why I don't sit down. My body says "time to sleep" when I sit more than an hour. I felt really bad sleeping while having company.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery terribly . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 27, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was another hard day. One good thing is I was able to run home and check on Pilot this afternoon. She has been very good. I am so proud of her. Avery would be very proud of her good little lap dog.

Things have just been very difficult lately. I miss Avery so very much but I realize that there are no more needles in heaven. Then I have to smile thinking of how wonderful that must be. I think wow, she can finally be a kid, she can finally do all of the things she always wanted to do. I know she is watching over us and I know she comes here very often to leave me little signs to let me know that everything is going to be ok. I know that I have one very special guardian angel.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 26, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was tough but I made it through. All I could think of was Avery. It was very hard to concentrate on anything else. I miss her so much. But I did manage to celebrate the way she would have wanted me. I got out the pink and purple princess goblets and toasted her with mountain dew (one of her favorites). I gave Pilot a special treat as well. I did several things from look at all of her pictures on the website to reading one of her favorite books. It was all good. Thank you Avery for the best five years of my life. Nothing can ever compare to those years. I love and miss you terribly but I will continue to celebrate your memory and cherish all of the wonderful times we had together.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sonya Parnell. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for grated the little things in life. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with all of my heart . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 29, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Ok I have two very important things to share! I will update the rest of the week later but I'm in a time crunch this morning. First, please remember to keep voting for Mrs. Nena and Ellie. We only have a couple of weeks left to make sure they win this competition. Tell everyone you know to vote!

Second, please quit airing nasty messages in Avery's guestbook. I don't know who you are Tina Louise but this is not the place to discuss what you think you know. My private email would be a good start. Send all of them you want to but leave Avery out of this. This website is all about her and what we are doing in her memory. It touches lives everyday at how we cope with grief and how we continue to honor her memory. Please keep all other messages to your self or send us private emails. Please have some respect!

Now, I have tons to update about this week but will have to go for now. Thank you all for your love and support during these difficult times. Please keep praying for all of our special friends! Please keep voting for Nena and Ellie! Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

January 26, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Stephanie! Wow, you are 13 now! We are very proud of you. We hope that you have a wonderful day filled with lots of surprises. May the next year be a very blessed year for you. Remember to have cake first today in memory of Avery. Love . . . Aunt Gene Ann and Uncle Dan

Happy Birthday Angie! Thank you for all you do to make me laugh. I love working with you. I hope you have an incredible day today. May the next year be filled with more blessings than candles on your birthday cake.

Now, today marks a very significant anniversary. Today on the exact day (Monday) was when Avery was diagnosed with a brain tumor. Our journey began five years ago today. At times it seems like yesterday and other times it seems like it was a hundred years ago. I am so filled with emotions today. I will never forget that day. I will never forget hearing those words "there is a very large mass in Avery's brain. . . .we can do nothing for you here but we have called Children's so as soon as there is a bed available we will be sending you there." The ride to Birmingham by ambulance was the logest ride of my life. However today I celebrate the time I had with Avery. The good times we all shared. The times we went places as a family. The times we did fun things here at home. I celebrate the time I had with one with very special little girl. I am hoping I have a visit from my special angel today. Keeping the faith. . . . more to come. . . . . missing Avery terribly . . . . . Gene Ann

January 25, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I got up this morning thinking I sure would like to just go back to sleep. I got up though and got ready. I went to the grocery store before heading to church to get a few things I needed to bake a cake for a friend. I am so thankful that I got up and did not go back to bed. Church was great! I am so glad I went.

When I got home I mixed up a red velvet cake. Erica came over for us to go to Angie's surprise 50th birthday party. It was at Bama Lanes. She was very surprised. We had so much fun. We ended up bowling three games. Of course if I were golfing my score would have been really good. Someday I am going to swap my golf and bowling scores making them both what they should be. It was all in fun and we had a great time.

When I got home I just could not find a starting place. I finally decided to start in the closet. It is beginning to look good. I have started working on a project a night in an effort to get this house organized. However there have been a few nights lately that I have been so tired that all I want to do is go to bed.

While bowling today I thought of Avery and the times we went bowling. It was always a fun family time. She loved bowling but I think liked the sprite, chicken fingers and french fries the best. She would then always want to hit the arcade before we went home. Oh how special those memories are. She lived life to its fullest each and every day! I will treasure those memories forever.

Ok, Pilot is asleep on the back of the big chair again. She has given up on me coming to bed anytime soon. So much to do so little time to do it.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with all of my heart . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 24, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was a good day. Work was busy. I love it when we are busy. I had the early shift which came with a lunch hour. Lately I have been working 5 hour shifts which come without a lunch break. I don't mind that but it means Pilot either has to stay in the crate for that long or I have to wonder what she is doing if I leave her out. Most of the time she is very good.

After work I came home to play with Pilot. We went for a short walk. I got ready to meet the girls for Mexican food. It was good getting out. The food was yummy and the fellowship was ever better. We laughed and laughed.

When I got home Pilot gave me the look that she was ready for bed. I had a few things to do before going to bed. Once I finished up poor Pilot was sound asleep on the back of the big chair. It was precious.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 23, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Thank goodness I was off today. But lately what does off mean? I tend to be busier when off than when working. Today being no different. I was hoping to sleep a little later today since I was off but there is no rest when there are things to be done. I jumped up at 7:30 ran the garbage out, walked Pilot, came in to do a few things before getting ready.

Grandmother and Granddaddy came today for a short visit. Granddaddy played golf while Grandmother got her hair cut. After Grandmother finished at the Salon I picked her up and we went to run errands. First we picked Erica up and took her to work since she was without a car for the day. I then had to go to the Montgomery airport to make travel arrangements for March. Avery and I both had flight credits but I had to go in person with her death certificate to get the credit. Well, it didn't work. I have to call a special 1800 number to see what they can do since it has been over a year ago. The Delta agent was super nice and very helpful. I went ahead and booked my flight for March so that I would be sure I got one as cheap as possible. I am hoping that once I call Delta they will credit the majority of that flight. Maybe it will work out that way.

We then headed back to Prattville to Belk. I know I just ask it for it going in on off days. I had to pick up a thing or two. The sale was great today. I got a few things I needed seeing how I have shrunk three sizes since Christmas. It is great being back in smaller sizes. I like 18 pounds being at my goal weight. That is totally reachable. If I reach it I will weigh less than when Dan and I married. But I have to keep up the walking.

Ok, we ran errands picked up groceries and met Granddaddy back at the house. When we got there Granddaddy was ready to head back to Jasper. It was a short visit but a good one. I enjoy anytime I get to spend with them.

I then got ready for the night. First, Relay for Life cookbook committee meeting. We are hoping to have cook books ready soon. We are finalizing things now. We still could use a few more recipes. I will post when the cook books are ready and how you can get one. From the meeting it was back to Belk to pick up Erica. We then stopped by and picked up Keli and headed to Jessica's Pampered Chef party. I know I was just at one last week. We had a great time. It was fun! We got lost coming home but we eventually found our way back home. I dropped everyone off and headed home just in time to get ready and go to bed. Pilot was very happy to see me. We went for a short walk before going to bed.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 22, 2009

Hello Everybody,

This was another super busy day. It started early with me trying to get a few things done before heading to Montgomery for a quick re-training session on Relay for Life accounting. Ok, so I went through training but wanted someone to look over the deposits before I made them. It was a good thing because during my training I was trained wrong on a few things. We have it all straight now.

I headed back to Prattville to do a few things before going to work. I didn't have to be at work until 3:30 so I was able to do so much. I went in early so that I could make copies of the Relay stuff I needed. Work was good. It went by quickly to not be any busier than we were.

Once I got home from work I decided to finish the Relay deposits and paper work. I double even triple checked everything and finished at 2:00 am. I was determined to get it done. When I finished up and headed for bed I asked myself "did I eat today?" Ok that is bad when you can't remember if you ate or not because you were so busy.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like never before . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 21, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Another busy day! Some days I don't know how I do it and today was one of those days. I worked the early shift. Once I got off I stopped by to run an errand or two before going home. Once home Erica came over to help me organize some of the Relay for Life stuff. It took a little time to do but I think we got it organized. Now, I just have to get some file boxes and I will just fine.

Dan stopped by to bring me some documents that I needed. He finished getting some things of his. This is so terribly hard! I absolutely hate all of this!

By this time it was time for choir practice. I love choir it is so uplifting! We had a great practice. Once I got home I decided to eat dinner. I warmed a plate ate and went back to work. I called Disney to check on our reservation and make sure that everything was taken care of when the lady asked me "is this Avery calling?" I almost lost it but managed to tell her no this is Gene Ann then I told her Avery had passed away hoping they would remove her name from their system so this would not happen again. Sunday night while booking the reseravation they asked "will Dan and Avery be traveling with you?" I got everything squared away and then decided to check email now wishing I had not. I opened email to find out that Erin's tumor has grown again. Please pray for the Roderick family. They will find out on Friday what options are available. This has really knocked my socks off. Seeing her this summer so happy and playful and now tumor growth again. We have to pray that there are new more powerful options available. We have to pray for another miracle!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 20, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today I worked the early shift. I love getting off early! I have so much time to get things done. I planned on doing so many things but for once decided to do nothing. I just caught up with some friends on the phone and did nothing! Yes, me I did nothing. I curled up in the big chair with Pilot and enjoyed some down time.

Ok so tomorrow I have to make up for this! I have a ton to do. It is very cold here so I have been unable to walk since Sunday. I am hoping for warmer weather toward the end of the week. I have to step it up a notch or two. Ten miles this weekend would be awesome. Tonight I made the final payment on the trip so it is official now. I am so excited!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with all of my heart . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 19, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Another busy day! I worked the late shift today. Before going to work I had done a full days work. Work was slow. I took my dinner break to attend a Relay for Life committee and team captains meeting. I have volunteered to be the accounting chair this year. Once I get it all organized it should be fairly easy. I just hope I can get the hang of doing all of these deposits.

After work I stopped by Dan's to drop of some insurance papers I thought he might need. We had a short conversation due to the extremely cold temperatures outside. Seeing him makes me miss him more. The house was lonely when I got home. I have really been missing Avery lately. I am planning to stop by and visit with her one day this week. I ride by daily but try to stop once a week to talk. I feel such a connection right now at home to her. I know when she has flown by for a visit because I keep finding money in the strangest places (like in my shoes, in the bath tub, on the garage floor). She always leaves me a sign when she has visited. I think she comes and plays with Pilot while I am at work. Lately Pilot has been worn out by the time I get home.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 20, 2009

Hello Everybody,

******Under the Updates header of the website Dan added a link that takes you directly to the voting page for Mrs. Nena and Ellie. Please take time to vote for them. Take time to watch the video but have the tissues handy when you do. We want to win this award so vote, tell your friends and coworkers to vote and keep voting! Results will be announced on February 14th. That is a very good day Valentine's Day and somebodies birthday! Get the word out to vote!******

January 19, 2009

Please read this e-mail I received from Mrs. Nena. Mrs. Nena and Ellie have been nominated for a big award. We need you all to take time to vote. Please tell everyone you know to vote. If you are a teacher please do this as a classroom project so all your kids can vote too! Thank you all so much I know Avery's buddies will support this so that Mrs. Nena and Ellie can win this award. More to come. . . . . Gene Ann

I am Nena Moon and together with my pet partner, Ellie, we have served for almost 6 1/2 years with the Hand-in-Paw organization. HIP is under the umbrella of Delta Society, the national organization of pet partners and animals doing animal assisted therapy. We are among five finalists for a national award called Beyond Limits to be given by Delta Society to a pet partner team who is making a difference in the lives of those they serve. We serve at many different facilities but my heart is drawn to working with children and adults who are receiving radiation treatments for cancer. I have found having a furry friend beside them as they wait for their treatment is time well spent with patients and their families. The staff appreciates the diversion of a visit as they deal with difficult situations during the day. In the years of serving with HIP, we have had personal contact with 18,195 people. I had no idea the number was so high but HIP does track each visit we make and they record the numbers. When Delta Society came to video us on a visit to the University of Alabama Birmingham Comprehensive Cancer Center, they told me the award would be given to the team who receives the most votes from the public. I was also told not to be shy in asking friends to pass along all this information to their friends and asking them to do the same thing. So I would be grateful if you passed this along to your email friends. If you will go to www.deltasociety.org , you can see the videos and cast your vote. You can vote one time each week during the three weeks it will be online. Voting begins on Sunday, January 18th. Just follow the links to the Beyond Limits Award. You can also read a summary of each nominees by clicking on the appropriate link. More information is given in box below. I appreciate any and all of you who will help us win this award. I have an amazing pet and she is certainly deserving of receiving this recognition. Blessings, Nena Moon and Ellie

January 18, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Wow! What a busy day today to have nothing planned. Church was great. The choir did a great job this week. I just love choir. Everyone is so nice and caring.

Once home from church I noticed the sun peaking out. YIPPEE! I went in put on my running clothes but then found several things to do giving the sun plenty of time to warm things up a ton! At a little after two in the afternoon I started my walk/run. I had a wonderful chat with Jesika while on my walk. We are so excited about the trip. I must say I didn't run that much today but managed to get 7 miles done in less than two hours. It was more like an hour and 45 minutes. I was pumped! I could have still kept going but was in need of water. I don't know what I was thinking leaving without my water bottle but I didn't want anything weighing me down. Besides I was in the neighborhood and never more than a mile from the house. It was a great walk. I just have to keep this up and we will make it to the finish line in March.

Once home from my walk I decided to cook dinner. I made my favorite rice dish and grilled a steak. It was very good. I gave Pilot a special treat so that she didn't bark the entire time I ate dinner. After dinner I started working on booking our trip. We are now officially booked all I have left to do is book airfare. I plan on getting that done this week.

As I was booking the trip all I could think about was Avery. I remember the first time we went to Disney World and Dan made the reservations the same way I was booking ours last night. Then the guy asked will Dan and Avery be joining you? It was so hard to fight back the tears. I said no I will be coming with my dear friend this time. I was put on hold several times and I would think about all of the things we experienced while at Disney and how happy Avery was. She loved Disney World, she loved Mickey Mouse, she loved the princesses, and oh she loved it all except for Pirates of the Caribbean. I know she will be there with me. I know she will be cheering me on!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 17, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was hard! First of all the pancake breakfast was wonderful but very hard. Knowing that one year ago Avery was at the kick-off getting ready to be the honorary chair for Relay made the day very emotional. It was an exciting time for her last year but her health was beginning to decline. I had so many emotions running through me. I would like to thank everyone that came out to support the breakfast. Thank you Cathy for coming from Moody to eat pancakes with us. You are great!

We finished at 10:00 am just in time for me to pack up and head outside to meet Lindsay and Dan. We then headed toward the memorial service for Fish's Dad. I rode with Lindsay but we followed Dan. The service was at St. Jude Catholic Church. It was a beautiful service! After the service Donna asked Dan and I to go to the luncheon. We rode together and enjoyed the luncheon very much. The video they put together for the luncheon was incredible. It was a very emotional day to this point.

Dan dropped me off at Applebee's and I headed toward the house to take Pilot out for a walk. She was very happy to see me. Erica came over so we could go shopping. I took her downtown to Touch of New York and then we tried out the new Toll House Cookie store. Wow! It was busy but well worth our wait. I still can't believe I found room to eat a cookie after the lunch I had.

I got home walked Pilot again freshened up and headed to Lauren's house for a Pampered Chef party. It was really fun and I ordered a few things I have been looking at for a while. I am so happy that Lauren had such a great party. She should get tons of stuff! Now, I have one next Friday night to go to. It should be fun!

By the time I got home though I was really sad! I got to thinking about the day then I really got to missing Avery and Dan. It is so hard right now being alone. I haven't been alone in so long. For years I had a shadow everywhere I went. I loved every minute of that and so miss her. Well now I am starting over and I don't know where to begin. I am by no means ready to go out. It takes every ounce of energy I have to get out of bed every morning. Most morning I just want to pull the covers back over my head and pick up my dream of Avery right where it left off. We have such wonderful times in my dreams.

I was unable to walk today. It is so cold and just dreary! Hopefully tomorrow will be a sunny day. Another off day I don't know how to act.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 16, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Nana! We hope you have a wonderful day filled with many wonderful surprises. May the following year be filled more than blessings than birthday candles. Don't forget to eat your cake first today in memory of Avery.

Happy Anniversary Nana and Grandpa! We hope you have a great blessing filled day. We hope you have something wonderful planned to celebrate!

Today was a very long day! Not going in until 3:30 is tough. I ran out of things to do and could not start some things I have been putting off because I would not have time to finish them. It is too cold to walk so I could not do that but hopefully it will warm up in the next day or two.

Dan came over to pick up a few things before I went to work. We had lunch together. The chicken enchilada casserole was really good. I still find myself picking up things at the grocery store because I think Dan would like that or oh that is Dan's favorite. It is so hard to cook now so most of the time I don't. For those of you that know me that is terribly hard because cooking is my favorite thing to do. I love to cook. Right now I don't because it is so hard to cook for one and I hate eating alone!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with all of my heart . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 15, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Today was a great day! I had the early shift at work which meant that I was able to get so many things done at home after work. Erica was coming over for dinner but she got sick at work and ended up going home. I had made a chicken enchilada casserole for us so I will be eating that for a while. Before I baked it I decided to go to church for line dancing. I am so glad I went because it was way too cold to walk tonight. At least I got some exercise and had fun at the same time.

I don't go in tomorrow until 3:30 so I have some time to get a few things done. I will be closing and then getting up early for the pancake breakfast on Saturday morning. I have a busy weekend planned. I have Saturday and Sunday off and can't wait to get a few things done that I have been putting off lately. Hopefully I will be able to walk on Saturday the more I walk/run the better time is quickly approaching!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 17, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Pancake breakfast for Relay for Life this morning from 7:30 until 10 am at Applebee's in Prattville. Come by visit and have a wonderful breakfast. I'll update the rest of the week later. . . . Until then . . . . . . missing Avery terribly today. . . . . Gene Ann

January 14, 2009

Hello Everybody,

The leg is much better for now. I got up got ready and worked without any problems. I had a short shift today at work. I was home by 3:00 pm just in time to take Pilot out and eat a quick bite before preparing for a long walk. Pam and I were going to walk to church and then walk for an hour or so before choir practice. It was just in the cards for Pam to walk with me so I walked alone. I decided for the track at the park down the street. Not sure how long the track is but I walked for an hour. No problems afterwards.

Choir practice was good. We finally got the song for Sunday down and moved on to others. I love choir. The fellowship is wonderful. After choir I decided to map out my route for Saturday. I think I have found a good ten mile route without leaving the neighborhood. I will be going alone so I don't do highways or main roads just sidewalks. Dan might come over and work on the corvette getting it driveable so he can have it stored. If he does that I might walk/run while he is here incase I need someone to come and get me. That is just in case because I am confident that I can do this!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 13, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I had SCORE meetings this morning starting at 9:00 am in Montgomery. This is another one of my volunteer activities. This one is business related and involves counseling small businesses. My expertise is the marketing, advertising and public relations of businesses. It is a great organization that I really enjoy being part of.

I got home from Montgomery around 12:00 pm. Grandmother had gone home and Pilot was asleep on the back of the big chair. She didn't even come to the back door when I opened the door. She was comfy and happy to not be in the crate.

Later in the day I managed to get a little over 4 miles with Pam. It was cold and once it started getting dark we had enough. I got inside cooked a light dinner, ate and then decided to soak in the tub. Once out of the tub I sat down and could not get up. My upper leg had knotted up and I could not walk or straighten it out. I was screaming to the point poor Pilot didn't know what to think. It was late and the only thing I could think of to do was call Dan. I really thought he was going to have to come get me and take me to the ER. He was asleep so he called me back once he got the message of me crying in pain. His response was to ice it down and it should be ok. I slept with an ice bag on my leg and so far haven't had any other issues. I am hoping this does not continue. I think I will add bananas to my diet because it has been happening quite a bit but not the upper leg. I guess I need more potassium!

Thank you all for the kind emails, calls, cards and most especially for your prayers. Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 12, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I didn't go into work until 2:00 pm today due to inventory. We were scheduled 2 pm to 2 am. Everyone brought their favorite appetizer for a contest (what will they think of next). It was very tedious and very quiet. If my scanner would have worked properly I would have finished my fragrance bay much faster. I ended up having to punch some UPC's in. Everytime I looked at a UPC I thought of Avery. That would have been 50,000 times or more. Avery loved the name barcode and named several pet zebras barcode including Dr. Reddy's. She thought that was so funny! I would scan a barcode and think "ok Avery that was for you!"

We finished a little before 1:00 am. The food was great but there was way too much! I took a double recipe of buffalo dip. It was a big hit!

Grandmother stayed to keep Pilot. Pilot loves having a baby sitter. She is so good until I get home then she acts up. I am no longer allowed to do anything once I am home except sit and hold her. If I do anything else at all Pilot barks loudly and non stop until I stop and give her all of my attention. The other night I had to hold her like a baby on my hip while I cooked dinner. She is rotten!

There is a pancake breakfast on Saturday morning at Applebee's for the American Cancer Society Relay for Life. I will try to post more information about this event in the next day or two. How ironic that it is at Applebee's. Avery had to have had something to do with that. This will be the Relay for Life kick off! So mark your calendars and stop by for a great breakfast for a wonderful cause. I will be there working!

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with all of my heart . . . . . . Gene Ann

*****It's only 52 days until the Disney Princess Marathon! Training is in full swing! Jesika and I are getting really excited! Please continue to pray that we keep up and then we complete what we have set out to accomplish!******

January 11, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Inventory began today. I went in at 8:30 and we finished a little before noon. I was told I could leave but when I went to turn in my scanner I was told to go help visual. Seeing how I need the hours I did not argue and gladly headed to help. We finished at almost 2:00 and I headed for home. I love my job!

Grandmother and Pilot were just hanging out. We decided to go out for a late lunch early dinner. After eating we headed to do a little shopping. We then had to rush home to make sure Pilot was behaving. She has been so good lately. She is a real lap dog now! Well most of the time anyway.

We would like to take this opportunity to congratulate Steve and Tom for completing the marathon today. Thank you for the kind phone call last night. I wish I had been home but really enjoyed the message. I will be sure and share the message with Dan. You guys are awesome! We are so proud of what you have done and mostly what you did it for. Thank you!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 10, 2009

Hello Everybody,

This morning I went to Toastmasters. I haven't been to a regular meeting in quite some time. It seems that all of the special events at work were always the same Saturday. It was nice to get back into the routine of going.

Once I was back home I had two hours before time to be at work. Grandmother and I got a few things done and she was able to run a few errands. Granddaddy was here but he went home early to check on things. The basement flooded one day last week so he was worried with more rain coming so he took off to go check.

Work was good but slow! However we found enough to do to occupy our time. Inventory starts tomorrow when we do stock rooms and middle islands in cosmetics. Monday is official inventory. Hopefully we will get it done and get out earlier than scheduled! It was so nice to meet Joy Reece today (Todd and Lane's mom and Kellie's mom in law). Thank you for stopping by it was wonderful meeting you!

Please pray for Erin. Erin is in the hospital after spiking a fever last night. They are hoping that it is a virus but she will be inpatient until they know more. Also, please continue to pray for Molly. Pray that the trip to Cinicinnati this next week will give them the answers they need and the treatment she needs to rid her of the ear infection she has had for a long time now.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 9, 2009

Thank you all for your kind words and especially for your prayers. There are days I don't think I can make it but then this amazing source of strength comes to me and all of the sudden I feel as though I can tackle anything. I know that is when Avery's prayer warriors are praying for us. Oh it is an amazing feeling! We love you all!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 8, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday dear Jack! I love you so much! I hope your 6th birthday is wonderful. I wish we lived closer so I could give you a great big birthday hug. But since we are so far away I will just have to send one through the air and hope that you can catch it. Have a big piece of cake for me. Love, big hugs and lots of kisses too! Gene Ann

January 8, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I was just sitting here this morning (putting off getting ready for work as long as possible) thinking back to one year ago. Avery, Dan and I were in Atlanta preparing to leave for Disney World. Avery and I ordered room service of waffles for breakfast. Dan worked a few hours in the Atlanta office then met us for our adventure. Avery was so excited! We all were. Those are the times right now that I miss the most! The times we were together the happy times.

I would like to thank personally Steve and Tom for running for Avery. Congratulations on your fundraising! We are very proud of you both and can't wait to see pictures! We also want to hear all about your trip, marathon experience, everything! It was such an honor to meet you both! We are very honored by what you are doing for the Luekemia and Lymphoma Society. I am sure you will have help on Sunday from a very special Angel that is very proud of you both. Thank you so much for all you have done!

I was off yesterday but found myself very busy. My world has been turned upside down and now it is up to me to turn it back right side up. I am putting ounce of my faith into GOD to get me through this. I know all too well what HE can do. I have seen first hand the miracles that HE can make happen. Please continue to pray as the days ahead are going to be rough. Please continue to pray for Dan!

For those that don't know how to get to the guest book here goes: www.caringbridge.org/al/averyhildreth. That is Avery's old caringbridge page which will allow you to view or leave messages in the guest book. Dan disabled the link but will hopefully add that back soon. My main goal right now is to keep this site going in the fashion in which it was created.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

January 7, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I want to thank you all for your kind words, messages, calls and cards. I am so very blessed to have such a wonderful group of caring concerned friends. However if you are Ms. Millbrook please stop leaving messages in the guest book. We think we know who you are and it is time to stop. This website is dedicated to Avery and our love for her. It was designed to keep everyone updated on her progress through her journey and ours in the world of cancer. This journey has not been easy and becomes harder each day without her. We both miss her terribly. I would never disrespect Dan on this site and would not want anyone else to either. We have one goal in mind and that is to continue the posts with hope that we might help others. Please don't post anything to the guest book that will take away the dignity and respect of this website. If you feel the need to vent please send me or Dan a private email. Matters of this nature should remain private and should not be posted for the world to see.

I am holding up as well as can be expected these days. Work keeps me as busy as possible. Now I am working like crazy trying to get this house organized. It is so empty and terribly quiet. Pilot has even been quiet lately. She is sleeping more than usual. She has become a good little lap dog at times.

I have been walking every chance I get. It is getting easier but I really have to step it up a notch or two. The Princess half marathon is on March 9th at Disney World in Orlando. I am so excited and can't wait to see Jesika. We will finish the race and have a smashing good time too!

Please pray for Molly. The MRSA is still in her ear. She will be traveling to Cinicinnati for an appointment with an ENT specialist on January 15th. Please pray that this doctor can find a solution to rid her of the infection. Please pray for safe travels, answers and safe returns. We love you very much Molly!

Please continue to pray for us as we begin yet another journey. Please pray for all of our special friends especially: Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please don't forget to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones. Our angel friends families need prayers! Please don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Cherish every minute with your children! Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery with every ounce of my heart. . . . . .Gene Ann

December 31, 2008

The purpose of this site was to honor and share our beautiful daughter and our journey with others. With the recent developments and some unnamed coward slandering the guestbook with half truths, the updates will be frozen for a period of time. Browsing ability of the site will remain up as a testament to Avery and all that she meant to the people who loved her. We truly want to thank everyone for all of their continued love and support. We miss you very much pumpkin.

Love, Daddy.

December 29, 2008

Hello Everybody,

This day has been a little better than yesterday but I am still in a fog. I just can't believe all that is going on. You think you know someone and then find out you didn't know them at all. Please continue to pray for Dan. He really needs all of the prayers he can get right now.

Today was a day of getting things done. I never imagined I would be having to do what I have had to do. I am very worried about my future. I am very worried about where I am going or will be able to go. I have put it in GOD's hands for now. HE has gotten through so very much and I know HE will get me through this.

I did manage to walk today we did a little over four miles. It wasn't bad. I don't feel any soreness now after walking. I have lost over ten pounds this week. Maybe this is head start on the New Year's diet.

I was looking through some pictures today and came accross some from last year. I remember back and we were getting ready for Disney World. Avery was so excited! I was excited and so was Dan. We were a happy family preparing for a family vacation. We never let anything stop us from doing what she wanted to do. We always manged no matter how much equipment that meant we had to pack. I miss those days so much but I realize she is in Heaven she is happy and there are no more needles. I am sad for more reasons than missing Avery.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with all my heart . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 28, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today has been one of the worst days of my life! I am truly devastated, hurt and wondering the future holds for me. At this time all I can say is Dan came home earlier than planned by an entire day but didn't come home. He came by tonight as if he had just gotten home, packed his stuff and left. He has asked for a divorce. My heart is breaking! I really need all the prayers I can get right now. There is much more to the story but at this time I can't share everything. I have always said that I would never disrespect him out of love and respect for Avery. I will say this I have never been so dissappointed in my life!

I will not be working tomorrow. I have called in for the day. I have to take care of things around here. Grandmother and Granddaddy are with me. I am so thankful that they were able to come. I just hate that they are having to worry about this right now.

I went by to visit with Avery this afternoon. I know that her visits lately have been preparing me for what was coming. I know that through prayers, my faith and a special angel watching out for me that I will survive this and be a stronger person. Thank you Avery for coming to see me. Thank you for doing all of the funny things you have done lately around the house. I know it was really Tiffany but thanks for making me smile.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 27, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a day of getting things done. I worked a full shift, walked over five miles, grocery shopped (in preparation for Dan's return), cleaned a little, walked Pilot and then decided to relax in the jaccuzi tub. A great day!

The walk was easier than I anticipated. No exhaustion or soreness afterwards. I am hoping to do this at least three nights a week from now until marathon time. It is time to pour everything into training.

Dan will be home tomorrow night. I am looking forward to seeing him. It has been too quiet around here. I have found myself talking to Pilot who thinks I am totally crazy. I hope he can find the time to fit in a nice conversation. That would be a good thing.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery with all of my heart . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 26, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a rough day. So much emotion knowing that it was yet another month anniversary of loosing Avery. I thought of her all day today. I know she is fine and having the best time in heaven. I know this because she comes every now and then to visit me. She tells me how wonderful it is and how there are "no more needles in heaven mommy!" She says that is her favorite part! It may be in my dreams but it is so very real each and every time. She always ends her visits with a giant Avery hug and tells me "everything is going to be ok mommy I promise!" These are the days I don't want to get out of bed I just want to go back and spend the day with her. But the alarm clock says get up.

Work was busy! Work was crazy! We were one hour later leaving after closing because the store was a total wreck. We worked as hard and as fast but it still took more time than usual. Once I got home Pilot and I snuggled up in the bed and went to sleep. I have to open in the morning. But at least I will get off early. I am going to try and walk tomorrow afternoon. I need to do at least 5 miles or more.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 25, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Merry Christmas! Today was the first time in my life that I woke up alone on Christmas day. But it was ok. At first it seemed to be a regular ordinary day. Then the cell phone started beeping with text messages that have poured in all day. I am so blessed to have such wonderful friends and family.

I got ready and went to church. The choir sang for Christmas morning service. I am so happy once again that I went to church. As hard as it is sometimes to go and do things without Avery I get such a powerful message when I do the things we always did together. I hope that made sense. There is a real connection to her when I am at church. After church I stopped by to visit with her. I talked for a minute, prayed for a minute or two and then went on my way.

Once home I started cooking. Before long everything was done. Grandmother and Granddaddy got here just in time to eat. It was yummy. We then had afternoon company. Charlie, Jennie and Pam stopped by to visit. We had so much fun talking and sharing funny stories. I think we all had a good cry too sharing Avery stories. It was a good time of fellowship.

Tonight has been quiet. Pilot has been well entertained today with a special bone from the Christmas rib roast. She has been good and actually came to Pam tonight. Today has been filled with emotion but we made it through the day. Your prayers for our family have helped to get us through the worst of times. Please continue to lift us up as we continue through the firsts without our precious Avery.

Avery, I know you attended the most wonderful birthday party ever today. I bet you helped Jesus blow out his candles and you probably sang the prettiest of all the angels. Know that Mommy and Daddy love you very much! We do miss you but we know that you are free of cancer forever. Thank you for the most wonderful five years anyone could ever ask for. Merry Christmas sweet girl!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 24, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a crazy busy day at work. I needed roller skates to keep up. Before I could turn around it good it was lunch time. I had errands to run on lunch it was time to clock back in when I realized that I had not eaten. Then before long it was time to go home. On my way home I stopped by to visit with Avery. I put a cute pink tree on her grave decorated with princess ornaments. The tree topper is a tiara. It looked beautiful and I know she was delighted when she looked down to see.

Home was very quiet. Dan is not home and the excitement of Christmas is just not here this year. I'm exhausted not only physically but mentally as well. This has been a terribly hard week for more reasons than I can begin to explain. All I can say is that I really need prayers to make it through what lies ahead.

Tonight our church held a Christmas eve communion service. I am so glad that I attended that service. I am so blessed with a wonderful church family. I left church feeling so warm, so comforted and so very loved. I came home and started preparing for tomorrow. I talked with Dan a couple of times before going to bed. He seems to be having a pretty good time. Please continue to pray for us.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 23, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a super busy day! I was at work at 6:45 am and worked until a little past 4:00. I was totally exhausted when I got home. Pilot was ready to play. We played, tried to eat dinner and worked on some more baking. She was once again a trooper.

Dan called and we talked for a while. I really do hope he has a good visit. He needed to get away. Tomorrow is another early day for me. I do get off early though.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 22, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I thought today would be a day of rest but I was wrong. Off days tend to be more busy than work days. I have a million little things to get done and I didn't know where to start. Finally I decided to start with the laundry. Not much of that since Dan is gone. Finished the laundry and started cleaning but that was done really quick. Jennie called to see if I was at work she was off so she stopped by for a few minutes. I got ready and met her later at Belk. Yes, I know my off day but hey sometimes you just don't get to see everything when you work.

After that I ran a few errands with Jennie. I got home and decided to go buy groceries tonight instead of tomorrow. I made a quick trip to the grocery store and got everything so I should not have to go back until after Christmas.

When I got home Erica came over and we baked cookies. We had a wonderful time. It was nice having someone here with me. Pilot really has taken to Erica. She was very good tonight. I am missing Avery so much this week. Dan is gone this week and the house seems so empty. I hope he has a wonderful time visiting his family. I also hope that he has a very Merry Christmas.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all we really need your prayers right now. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 21, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was another rough day! Dan wasn't feeling well last night and took benedryl before bed. He slept so sound and snored so loudly I didn't get any sleep. I got up early iced the cake and handed it off for delivery.

Work was crazy busy at times. I needed roller skates to keep up. I was constantly running from bay to bay. I went home on lunch to check on Pilot and Dan was sleeping. He had not packed, had not showered and it was 1:00 his plane leaves at 3:20. Ok, I had to get him up and getting ready. When I headed back to work he had packed and was in the shower. He does not want to go but I have talked him into going. I think he needs to be around his family for the holiday. I will be working, attending church and having lunch with Grandmother and Granddaddy (they are coming here). I will go see Avery at some point probably Christmas eve.

Well he finally made it to Michigan and without a jacket or coat. He forgot to grab one as he was trying to catch Pilot. Poor Pilot she gets blamed for everything. It is zero degrees with a windchill factor of minus 15. More snow is on the way! He is really thinking that he is crazy now for leaving here to go there.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 20, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok today was rough. I stayed up all night and maybe got three hours sleep. Dan decided to wake me up when he got in and I never could go back to sleep. We ended up having our Christmas at 4:30 this morning. Well, he had his Christmas. I got him some things but he didn't do any shopping so I will take care of myself later. I had rather give anyway. He will be leaving for Michigan Sunday and will be gone for a full week.

I was making my dessert at 5:00 am this morning. I decided to make brownie surprise as Avery called it. It turned out really good and hopefully will win the prize. I headed toward Belk a little before 11:00 to turn in my dessert. From there I picked up Pilot. She was very happy to see me. I'm glad someone is! After that I spent 45 minutes in the post office mailing the last two packages. Then it was back to Belk to eat lunch with a few friends. It was really yummy! After seeing the other desserts I don't know so much about mine.

Now, I had a few hours to kill before work so I decided to do a little elf work. I met Connie and delivered a special package via elf delivery. I talked to Dan to make sure Pilot was doing well and then I ran another errand or two. I ran by the house to check on Pilot one more time before work. She was being so good.

Work was good. It was busy in the beginning but slowed down after 9:00. I thought midnight would never get there. Once I got home I decided to bake a red velvet cake for Mrs. Elizabeth at church. I have to work tomorrow so I will have to get Pam to stop and pick it up and take to her. I thought I might be able to sleep but I was wrong. It wasn't restful. Oh how much I miss Avery right now.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 19, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Aunt Glenda. We hope you have a wonderful day filled with more surprises than candles. Have cake first today.

Today was a good day. We got up got ready and headed to Sammy and Sherri's to visit. We had lunch with them visited and exchanged a few gifts. This is so hard. Lydie just wanted to play and wanted nothing to do with the bear I had gotten her.

After our visit Grandmother and I went shopping. I had a few last minute things to get and then get in the mail. I never knew how difficult it was to find simple gift cards. I finally got the ones I needed and found the cutest puppy dogs that the proceeds benefit the American Cancer Society so I picked up several of those.

When we got back to Grandmother's I decided to head toward Prattville. I just have so many things to do and a dessert to make for the contest at work tomorrow. I don't go into to work until 4:30 but if I get started early I can hopefully get it all done early. I have to pick up Pilot tomorrow morning.

Once I got home I had to stop by Belk to pick up a thing or two. Then I went to the grocery store. From there I stopped by the chinese restaurant to pick up dinner. Dan called and he was going out so more dinner for me. Too bad once home I didn't have much of an appetite. I don't know when it will come back.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 18,, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a wonderful day! It started with a day of beauty for Grandmother and myself. We started at the salon getting cuts, color and styled. From there we headed to Belk for a national make-up artist event. Riccardo was in town and it was incredible. We had so much fun. We really enjoyed getting made over. How much fun!

After make-overs we headed toward Birmingham to meet GiGi. We met her and had a Christmas gift swap. From there we headed toward Jasper where Granddaddy was waiting on us. It was dinner time. Granddaddy grilled and it was so good! Then we headed downstairs to catch up on Days. It was the perfecteending to a perfect day.

I will warn you all now I darkened my hair. It is going to take some getting use to. I think I will like it in a day or two. I was just ready for a change finish the current year and start the new year with a change. The day was so great. I just really miss Avery. I miss her and all of the things we use to do to prepare for the holidays. I miss how excited she would get over everything. Her excitement and enthusiasm is what kept me going. Now, I just have to look back and remember to keep going.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 17, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a very long day. It was a great day but long. I got up as early as possible and hit the ground running. Downstairs is clean! I had a few errands to take care of and Pilot to drop off. I worked in the house until I had to get ready to leave.

When I was dropping Pilot off a funny thing happened. When the girl came from the resort to get her well her face lit up and she said "OH BOY it's Pilot. . . . we love Pilot!" I was glad to hear that and kind of laughed. She is Avery's dog is she not. It was funny! It was also sad that they know her so well.

I took care of everything that I possibly could and before I could turn around good it was time to be at work. Work was great for the most part. I had to put in a couple of hours in fine jewelry which hurts my brain. At least before Sarah left she gave me instructions as to what to do and where things are. This did help a little. Now, I am going to start going over when some one is there learning about the counter as far as all of the lingo and stuff.

Grandmother got to the store just in time for my dinner break. We went to McAllister's with Jennie. It was really good but so nice to sit down and relax for an hour. We had a good time. After work I headed home where me and Grandmother stayed up way too late again. We are just so excited about our day tomorrow.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 16, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok so I stayed up way too late last night. I was still up at 2:00 am cleaning, wrapping and all that good stuff. The bad thing was I opened this morning. I was at work a little after 7:00 to set up our special senior day (coffee and donut holes). Once that was set up it was fragrances the rest of the day.

After work I picked up Erica and we went to look at their new town house. How exciting it is for them right now. It is really nice and I can't wait for them to get moved in. We then came back to the house ordered pizza and watched a chick flick. I had never seen "The Devil Wears Prada." I really enjoyed girls night. Pilot even behaved herself. She was very excited to see Erica.

Once movie night was over though it was time to get back to work. I am boarding Pilot for a few days while we travel. I will take her tomorrow and pick her back up on Saturday morning. I stayed up very late again but did get more sleep than the night before. Grandmother is coming tomorrow so I wanted to get as much done as possible so that we can just have fun.

Pilot was very good tonight so I let her sleep with me for the first time in weeks. She was surprisingly good. She curled up next to me and slept all night without moving. She didn't even wake me up early to go out. Once we were up she just stretched for the longest and didn't go into wild dog routine. Hopefully this trend will continue.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 15, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Not much going on today. Work was good. We are starting to get busier. I am still helping out in other places within the store. Some days I fill I am pulled in a thousand different directions. I was suppose to get off at 6:00 but ended up working until 7:40.

This week we start staying open until 11 during the week and midnight on the weekend. It's not too terribly bad. I get off early tomorrow and then work until 11:30 Wednesday. It is keeping me busy and I like that.

Dan made it off on his business trip. He flew to Atlanta rented a car picked up another guy and drove to Chattanooga. They will leave tomorrow and drive back to Atlanta (Covington) where they will have meetings on Tuesday night and Wednesday morning then they fly to Winston Salem. He will be home sometime Thursday night. I am off Thursday and Friday so I will head to Jasper to spend some time before the holidays. Dan will be flying out on Sunday afternoon heading to Michigan for the holidays. I am staying here to work and take care of a few things. Don't know exactly what my plans are right now but still have plenty of time to figure it all out. I do know that I will be singing in the choir on Christmas morning.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 14, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a wonderful day! I did wake up without a voice. Hot tea somehow helped but my voice was still cracking. I wasn't able to hit the high notes during the musical but did manage to make it through my solo without any major problems. There were a few areas in some songs that I had to just mouth the words. I am hoping that I can get my voice totally back in a day or two. Hopefully I will not totally loose it all together. I am thinking it is allergies due to the volume of fragrance I have sprayed for people this week.

Once the musical was over I headed home to get a few things done before going to work. I had the late shift today. It wasn't too bad however people were not aware that we were staying open as late as we were so some of us got to go home sooner than expected.

When I got home there was Dan and Pilot asleep in the big chair. She was very excited to see me. Dan had a million things to do to pack for his week traveling. He decided to go to bed and do it all early in the morning. Seeing how I don't go in until 11:00 tomorrow I will be able to help him. Packing is so hard without Avery. They played a game when it was time for him to pack. She would help him remember everything he would need. I got him a new travel bag hoping that would help him by not having to get the old one out.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 13, 2008

Hello Everybody,

So the day started early. I had to be in Montgomery for a breakfast by 10:00. I was going to stop at the post office to mail a package or three but Dan said he would take care of it for me. I started to Montgomery giving myself plenty of time but found out that I can not read a yahoo map. So I had to call Dan to re-route me. Once I got turned in the right direction I found it with no problems. I got there just in time.

The breakfast was wonderful! The fellowship was excellent. This was the Capitol Toastmasters annual holiday breakfast. We all give a holiday related speech. Well, this was the first year that I could not do it. I just didn't have one in me. What do you talk about now that life is so very different. How do you give a heartfelt speech without more tears than words. I just sat back and listened to the wonderful stories of Christmas memories.

I left just in time to get to work almost on time. I was a minute or two late but no one was worried they knew I would be there. Work was crazy busy for the most part. During my dinner break I called to see if Dan wanted to meet me but he was still out taking care of his errands. I picked up dinner but it took over 20 minutes so by the time I got home to take Pilot out I didn't have much time to eat. Once back at work it was busy until I left at 9:00. We stayed open until midnight tonight. Sandy closed and wasn't very happy about being there. I get so tired of everyone complaining about their schedules! No one ever seems to be happy. I am just happy to have somewhere to go and get out of the house. I love being around people that make me laugh. I love being around people that care. This is what gets me through each day.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 12, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was good. I worked the early shift in hopes of getting in time to do a few things before heading to Marchelle's for the choir get together. Well, I was over half an hour late getting to leave. We got really busy and well I just could not leave until I knew that they could handle things. I love it when it is busy!

I also had to get things ready for tomorrow mornings event. I have a Christmas breakfast in Montgomery so I am going to delegate tomorrow mornings activities. Yes, I'm not going to set it up. I did as much as possible to make it easy for everyone.

By the time I got home I had very little time to do anything before going to Marchelle's. I did get the red velvet cake ready for Jennie to pick up for Jeremy's birthday. I wrapped a quick dirty santa gift for Dan to take to his party. We said our good byes and headed out in different directions.

I am so thankful that Dan did not attend my event with me. The service was so slow! Once we finally ordered it took over an hour to get our salads. Then it took close to another hour before getting our dinner. We ended up spending a good two and half hours at Marchelle's. The food once we got it was wonderful but the wait was ridiculous. The worst part was they knew we were coming what most of us were ordering and well they didn't staff accordingly. I am a very patient person but most of those with us are not. While I was paying the lady said to me "well, we were doing the best we could." I thought I wonder what she would say if she had to wait very long at Belk to be waited on what she would say? Yes, it seems that when you are behind the counter things are different. She just couldn't understand why we were all fussing about the slow service because they were doing the best they could. Now, had they not have gotten the smaller parties of two, three and four people out before we got salads it would be different. Anyway the food was good and the fellowship even better.

Once home I decided to do a few things around the house before going to bed. It has been a long week! I miss Avery so much especially each night as I am driving through the subdivision. I have to put the snowman out front soon I just haven't had the energy to do that. Avery would be so dissappointed with our house. There is a beautiful tree up and that is about all. It is decorated, presents underneath. . . but that is all. I didn't have the heart to do much else. We will see what the next week holds.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. I don't have a tip for today. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 11, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a wonderful day! I was off so Grandmother came to visit. We went shopping. That is always fun! We ventured toward Montgomery to those places we never think to go. It was so much fun getting out and having someone to keep me company. I have found shopping is no fun if you have to do it alone.

We stopped back in Prattville for a late lunch. It was really good. It is so cold here. The weather has been crazy. One day it is really hot the next really cold. No wonder everyone is sick.

Grandmother had to go back to Jasper early enough to beat the traffic and hopefully get home before dark. Dan went out for a little bit after finishing up some work. I curled up on the couch with Pilot for a nice nap. Once I got up though it was non stop. I baked a red velvet cake and mini cheesecakes.

Tomorrow is work as usual the early shift. Tomorrow night I have a choir get together at Marchelle's and Dan has a party for his car club. We will once again go in different directions.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number fifteen: Time for a Christmas movie,pop corn and hot chocolate. Forget the housework, wrapping, and usual stuff! Enjoy some movie time with your little ones. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 10, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a very busy day. I opened in order to get off early for the choir final practice of the Christmas musical.

Work was great and seemed to fly by today. I love being busy! Business is really picking up. This weekend is my last grand opening special event as PR specialist. I will still continue to do some things but this is the last big event.

Practice was ok we seemed to have a problem or two once adding the orchestra. We will some how pull it together by Sunday. Practice ran a little longer than I planned. Erica was at the house before I got there. She came over for dinner and to finish wrapping presents. I made lasagna soup. We enjoyed our wrapping party so much. It was good to laugh.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number fourteen: Make sure to see Santa one more time so he has the most updated list of requests. Let the kids wrap the presents that they have made or purchased. This is always fun. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 9, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Kelsey! We love you very much and hope that you have a wonderful day. May the following year be filled with many wonderful blessings. Remember to eat cake first!

Another busy day but exciting! My friend that I took to the doctor yesterday (Erica) called to tell me that she is expecting a baby. We are all excited! I got ready and headed to the book store to pick her up a book that we read and used for an everyday reference guide when we were expecting Avery.

I had so much to do but just finally had to stop to head toward work. Work was good. I am now filling in during lunch hours and such in fine jewelry. If you are looking for a special gift this holiday season come by and see me. I hope that this is temporary. It can be nerve wrecking!

I closed again tonight so once I was home Pilot was ready for a walk, snack and bed. She is so funny. Normally I am off on Wednesdays but I am working tomorrow. I will be off on Thursday and Grandmother is coming for the day. We are going to venture out to do some Christmas shopping.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number thirteen: Ok so I know I am getting repetitive but you can never go wrong with baking cookies tonight. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 8, 2008

Hello Everybody,

What a wonderful day! I got up early, got a few things done, got ready and picked up Pilot. Yes, she is back home. She is not sure yet about the tree and presents but so far she has been good. Once she is comfortable with all of this though there might be a different story.

I had a few things to do before work. I picked up a friend and took her to the doctor. (More to come on that later) Then it was time for work. I was suppose to be the early shift today but Sandy had something come up and needed to swap so now I am closing tonight and tomorrow night. I don't mind that so much. I just still have a million things to do before the holidays. My shopping was done until I discovered that something I have been watching got marked down today. I debated for an hour or so and then decided to go ahead and get it since it is Christmas.

I went home for dinner break. I discovered Pilot out not in her crate and doing very good. Everything was where it was suppose to be. Of course this year I did not put the animated animals by the fire place. I knew they would become chew toys. I ate a quick bite visited with Dan for a minute or two to go over our schedules for the next week or so and then off I went back to work. Once I got back I was asked to help out in ladies for the rest of my shift. I did not mind because it was steady making the time go by faster.

I got home to find Dan and Pilot in the big chair watching television. I decided a snack was in order so I fixed a little something then sat down to watch with them. Pilot decided it was time to play and would not let me sit with her. It was either pet her or go away. What a diva for a dog we have! She finally jumped over to the big chair and went to sleep in Dan's lap. She knows she has to behave to sit with Daddy. Oh, how I miss Avery and her great big hugs!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number twelve: Sing Christmas carols, drink hot chocolate and make Christmas cards or ornaments for the grandparents tonight. You can get the glass ball ornaments and put handprints on them then turn the fingers into snowmen, santas or reindeers. This is always a fun project. Everybody knows that grandparents like anything that the grandchildren make. We made Christmas ornaments every year with Avery's hand print on them. What a collection we all have. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 7, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I got up early, got ready and got going! Church was great. The choir did a great job with the anthem this week. It was a preview to our musical next Sunday. If you are in the area we would love for you to attend next Sunday at 11:00. After church I went shopping. I decided to finish my shopping since we were being rewarded with an extra discount at Belk. I ran in grabbed what I needed and rushed out. I got just what I needed and was home before the boys had showered.

Once Dan and Danny finally got ready we headed out to Mexico Tipico for a farewell lunch. Danny's flight was at 5:30 so after lunch Dan headed to Birmingham to drop him off. I headed home to prepare something for the cosmetic party tonight. After debate I decided to do buffalo dip again. I think I could make that in my sleep with one arm tied behind my back. Ok so I did a few things, cooked the chicken and then decided to sit down for a minute. I only had a minute or two to spare because I had to be at the doggy resort between 4 and 5. I woke up at 5:15. It took me five minutes to get my eyes focused and then I could not believe I had forgotten poor Pilot. Well, she gets another night at the resort and I will get her first thing in the morning!

I got the buffalo dip made. Then I wrapped my present for dirty santa and out the door I went. Thank goodness the party was only a couple of blocks from here. So basically I was on time maybe a few minutes late. The buffalo dip was a big hit again. The party was wonderful. We all had a great time. Dirty Santa was a huge hit. The gifts were great. I am so glad that I went. Some things are really hard to do. I look back and Avery always went with us every where we went. There were a time or two that Grandmother would come and keep her for us to go out but that was rare. I was thinking back to last year and remembered that Dan and I had a retirement party to attend. Avery was still recouping from pneumonia so we got Grandmother to come and stay with her. They decided to go to McDonalds for dinner and when they got home they could not get into the house. The batteries had died in the garage door opener. They punched the code in about 100 times before they called us. I had to call Jennie to go to the house and let them in. Then Avery spent over two hours on the potty trying to go and "just could not make it because it is so hard!" Finally mom called us and said "Please come home Avery needs her mommy!" That is all I needed to hear, we flew home to find her still sitting on the potty. She just needed her mommy. Daddy tried to help her but she fired him and said "get out I need my mommy!" Oh how I miss her! Everyday is such a challenge. Some days are so hard just getting out of bed. Especially those days that I have spent the night playing with Avery (which is almost every night). But then there is Pilot who keeps me running and brings me back to the real world. She is our automatic alarm clock. If we are not up by 7:00 she makes sure we get woke up then.

Ok, so I decorated the tree tonight. After the party I got home and decided I was ready. I started at 9:30 and finished at 2:30 am. I didn't realize until decorating how many of our ornaments are Avery's. Probably 75% or more are hers. Some were hard to put on the tree like Scooby Doo but others were easier. Of course the angel of Hope sits atop the tree looking down giving me a since a peace that Avery is healed and giving me hope that her memory will live on forever through us.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number eleven: Bake cookies again tonight. Don't forget the icing and sprinkles. We made cookies at least two if not three nights a week. Some times we would play Christmas music others we would watch Christmas movies. We made each night special. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 6, 2008

Hello Everybody,

What a day! I started very early after staying up very late. I had to get up early to cook the buffalo dip to take with me to Toastmasters. Anytime we have an event I am asked to bring buffalo dip. While that was cooking I got ready. After I got ready and prepared the buffalo dip for travel I decided to fix sausage rolls and cinnamon rolls for Dan and Danny. They must have been a big hit because when I got home after the meeting they were gone. Anyway the meeting was wonderful the party after the meeting was fun and as always the buffalo dip was gone.

I headed toward Belk from the meeting to deliver a chocolate cake to Elisabeth for her birthday. Happy Birthday Elisabeth! I hope the following year is filled with many wonderful blessings! Have a wonderful day! Then I had just enough time to run home clean the kitchen and get back to clock in for work. What an amazing morning! It is so amazing to me sometimes how much I can accomplish in just a few short hours.

Work was great. We were busy for the most part except for when Prattville and Alabama played at the same time one for the state championship the other for the SEC title. It was quiet in the store then but after the game it picked up a little. Now, I must say (remember I didn't see the game) good game, great season and watch out next year. It is wonderful seeing what coach Saban has done in just two years. I am excited about our bowl game and can't wait until next years season. I love college football! Thanks Ms. Francine for the guestbook post. I don't know what happened to our army of angels. I guess Avery was too busy checking in on some of her friends that are not feeling well. Oh well maybe next year.

Once I got home the house was so quiet. Pilot is still at the doggy resort. Dan was suppose to go and get her today but called to extend her stay an extra day. I decided to cook dinner just for myself and take advantage of a wonderful peaceful night. I totally planned to decorate the tree but I am off tomorrow so that will work better.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Molly, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number ten: Make Christmas ornaments. Last year I found this really cool kit at Michael's it was a cookie decorating kit. It had edible markers the cookies were stamped with Disney Princesses and then you colored the cookies and then hung them on the tree. Everything was in the kit. We really enjoyed doing this and it lasted for several nights because there were nine cookies I think in the box. I just wish that I could have kept them but was affraid they would be all crumbs, bug infested and really nasty by this year. It was so much fun, very easy and not messy at all. I even think Mrs. Pam came over and helped one night. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 5, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Granddaddy! We love you very much and hope that you have a wonderful birthday. We hope that the year ahead will be filled with so many blessings. Don't forget to eat cake first today!

What a day! First of all work was very good. The time flew by today. Once at work during the morning meeting I was asked to man the credit table. So I was kind of like the greeter today in the Ladies department. Occassionaly I would have to track down something or run help out in fragrance but for the most part I just talked to customers today. I was successful in opening a few credits. I shared though in the process. I felt greedy opening them all in my name so I would spread them around.

I met Dan and Danny at Mexico Tipico for lunch. I had a great lunch and then headed back to work for just a couple of hours. It was back to the credit table. Soon it was time to go home in fact I got so busy right at time to get off that I had to work over.

I got home to find the house empty. I rushed around getting things ready for Erica to come over. She got here about the same time Dan and Danny got back. They just came in to do a thing or two then they left again. Erica and started wrapping presents. She wasn't feeling well so she ended up leaving before we finished. I hope she get to feeling better.

Tomorrow morning I have a Toastmasters contest that I am helping judge. We are having a holiday party afterwards. Alan asked me to bring buffalo dip. I stayed up very late to make dip and chocolate fudge cake. I have to be at work by 1:30 so I hope the festivities get underway before I have to leave. I will miss the SEC Championship game. Originally I was the early shift and would have made it home in time for the game but I had to swap so that I could attend Toastmasters. Oh well I will just have to do play by play on the blackberry. I hope the Tide can upset the Gators!

*****Urgent Prayer Request****** Tim Bailey called tonight while I was baking and said Molly is in the hospital. Her MRSA is back in her ear. They decided to have a pic line put in but there were complications from scar tissue from the previous pic line. She ended up getting a port. They decided to keep her overnight to observe and she had a reaction to the vincamycin. Please pray that they find another antibiotic that will work to rid her of this MRSA. She has been through so much the last few months and really deserves a break. Please pray for her and her family.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number nine: Start planning your holiday light tour. We would pick several different neighborhoods to tour. We would load up as many people as the explorer could hold sometimes and head out to see the lights. Avery loved telling us which ones were pretty and which ones were not. I better hurry and get something on the porch because right now our house is seriously not pretty. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 4, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Busy, Busy, Busy! I got up got ready, dropped Pilot off, filled up with gas and headed to Birmingham. I got to the airport just in time. We got back to Prattville just in time for lunch. We decided on Bass Pro Shop for lunch. Dan met us there. It was yummy as usual.

After lunch we went back to the house. I iced the carrot cake and then headed to work. Once I got there the time slowly went by until closing. The good news is though that Elite night was a huge success.

After work I rushed home to put on warm pj's and watch Days. The boys were out so I had the whole house to myself. I was long asleep before they got home. Tomorrow is another busy day. I am opening so I will get off early. Once I get off Erica is going to come over so we can wrap presents, watch Christmas movies and possibly finish decorating the tree. I am so lucky to have such wonderful friends!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number eight: Make sure to mix up a batch of reindeer food. It is a great snack for anybody. We loved making special treats like this. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 3, 2008

Hello Everybody,

What a very busy day today. I got up got going and didn't stop until midnight. I decided to make spiced pecans for the Elite night event. I could not find the ones I was looking for so I made them myself. I called Grandmother to get the recipe. I mixed up one batch and then had to go to grocery store before I could make another batch. While I was out I went by the store to get the credit card so I could get everything at one time.

I got it all done then got back to the house to mix up one more batch of pecans. They came out of the oven and cooled just in time to get to the store to set up the event. Grandmother and Granddaddy stopped by on their way back to Jasper. They had picked up a thing or two for Avery's grave (a big "no-man). I am still working on the pink tree. I hope to have it finished and up in the next few days.

I got everything all set up. Just as I finished Grandmother and Granddaddy stopped by to check things out. We all enjoyed our visit. I took advantage of Elite night and did a little shopping. Wow, I really got some good deals. So from there I ran home changed clothes and went for a two mile walk. I know not very long but that is all I had time for tonight. I had to cook some pasta to go with the re-heated spaghetti. Then it was time for choir practice. Once I got back home I decided to bake a carrot cake. While it was baking I sat down to read for a little bit. Once the cake was done so was I.

Tomorrow morning I will go to Birmingham to pick up Dan's buddy Danny at the airport. I will bring him back to Prattville then head to work later in the afternoon.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number seven: tonight would be a good night for roasted marshmallows. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

December 2, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I got up very early today after being up very late last night. I think I got 4 hours of sleep. I rushed to work to set up senior day. I got the table set, coffee made, picked up the donut holes, set them out. I got everything going and clocked out for a few hours until my floor shift started. Tomorrow I will do the same thing on my off day. I will go in to set up Elite night.

Work was good! It has been a great week so far. Things are beginning to click a little on the sales floor. I love helping people! I have always been about customer service ever since working retail for the first time when I was 14 and worked for Granddaddy. I love talking to customers and helping them find the perfect gift.

I got off at 7:00 tonight so I had a little time to get a few things done but all I wanted to do was go to bed. I managed to clean the kitchen. Dan was out when I got home so I didn't have to cook dinner. I decided to skip dinner (big lunch). I have so many things to do tomorrow. I am hoping to get them all done. I have to travel to Birmingham on Thursday morning to pick Dan's buddy Danny up at the airport. I don't go in until 3:15 so that worked out perfectly. I think I will take him to Bass pro shop for lunch and then on a tour of our new shopping center. Maybe he can do some of his holiday shopping while he is here. I am thinking about boarding Pilot for a couple of days while he is here. Otherwise there will be no peace for him or Dan.

Tomorrow Grandmother and Granddaddy are stopping by on their way back to Jasper. They will be coming to the Elite shopping night at Belk. Granddaddy has not seen the new store since we opened. He stopped by one day before we opened but didn't see the inside just the outside. I thought this would be a good night for them to stop and visit. I am hoping to get the house ready for our guest and hopefully get the tree decorated.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number six: Make reindeer cookies. Avery loved to make these and of course we had to use peanut butter cookie dough. She would ask for her apron and seat then we would put together the cookies. We would cool them quickly so that she could eat them while she watched "Santa Claus 3" for the 100th time. Until Next Time. . . . Missing like never before . . . . . Gene Ann

December 1, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Wow it is already December. One year ago yesterday was the Camp SAM Christmas party. Avery loved every minute of being there. Something was wrong though and she was getting really sick. We flagged down Dr. Nicole to come see her and she said "Bring her in first thing in the morning!" We were staying in Birmingham that night with Daddy because Mommy had the feeling that we would be going to clinic.

This is when it was discovered that she had pneumonia. We ended up staying five days in Children's. Thank goodness this time we were able to stay on 4-Tower. The nurses are so wonderful up there and we love them all. We spent those five days focusing on getting her better so that we could enjoy the holiday season and do all of the things that she loved to do. I think back now at how many times we said "we will have to wait and do that next year!" For instance The Polar Express train ride in Calera. She was so excited about school parties and all of her social events for the month and didn't get to go to any of them. Right now I am trying hard to remember all that we did do. We went to Donna and Fish's to the Christmas party on the river, Avery discovered marshmallows and roasting them, we went out looking at lights, we made it to Grandmother's for a few days right before Christmas, we went to see "Alvin and The Chipmunks," we were at church on Christmas morning. We did so many things in the house that year. We baked cookies, sang songs, watched movies, did crafts, played games and made the most of every day. Oh how much I miss her!

Today was good. I went in early was suppose to get off early but ended up working in lingerie instead of fragrance. I was suppose to get off at 3:00 but ended up working until 4:15. Once I got off I rushed to the grocery store to pick up groceries. I decided to go home and make spaghetti for dinner. I got home rushed around the kitchen and we were able to eat at 6:45. We ate dinner watched a show or two together and then it was time for me to get busy on this house! The guest bedroom has been a dumping ground lately. It is beginning to look like a landfill so with an out of town guest coming later in the week it was time to reclaim the guest room. It took me almost six hours but I did it! Most of the stuff in the room were Christmas gifts. I got most of them wrapped. The rest are bagged and ready to wrap later in the week. Now, all I like getting the room ready is to vacuum and put fresh linens on the bed. Wow, I amaze myself sometimes. I guess Wednesday I will clean the rest of the house, oh and go to work to set up an event, choir practice then finally decorate the tree. I see this being a week of functioning on little or no sleep.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number five: Help your kids write their letters to Santa. I know they probably already have done so but it is always fun to do it again. Avery's list never changed and was always in the same order. She loved to email Santa to let him know all that Tiffany was doing. She would dictate and mommy would type. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 30, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Church was wonderful this morning. Grandmother and Granddaddy got here just in time to go with me. After the service they came home to check out the new tree while I went to sing in choir. We then met back here at the house to go to lunch. We decided that mexican would be good. We went to Poblano's for a quick lunch. They then headed to the beach to visit with Ronny and Jane. They will probably pass Dan along the way somewhere.

I came home and got a few things done. Granddaddy pointed out that a section of lights are not working. I looked and looked but haven't solved the problem yet. I decided to pay bills and well I finally had to put that up as well. I got the bills paid but could not balance the check book. By this time it was time to head to work.

Once I got to work I headed for the ASM office. Salem had given me a big job of calling our Elite customers to invite them to Elite Shopping night. I was in the back most of my shift today. I did go out and work the fragrance counter long enough for everyone to get lunch. I'm glad I did because I got a credit app and several big sales while out there. This is going to be a great week! It has to because it has already started out great!

Dan made it home about half an hour before me. He is terribly upset about a Christmas tree being in the living room. He has decided not to participate in Christmas this year. I just could not do it. Avery loved Christmas so much. The more stuff we got out the more she loved it. I did this to make her proud. Now, he is not happy and I don't know what to do.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number four: Avery loved to draw Christmas trees. I would fix her a plastic table cloth over the coffee table and she would sit in her little chair drawing Christmas trees for hours. We would then get out the glue, glitter, and whatever we could find to decorate the trees. It was so much fun! She loved craft time. Of course we had to have peanut butter cookies and sprite while we did this activity. Oh and a Christmas movie too! Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever today . . . . . Gene Ann

November 29, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Work was great today. Not as busy as yesterday but busy. I had plans to go out with Erica after work but decided we would put up the tree at the house instead. Erica was all for doing that. I wanted so badly to have the whole house decorated before he got home in hopes that it might snap him out of his Scroogness.

On to more important things! How about the Iron Bowl. Sorry to all of my Auburn fans out there but you had to love that game. I know now that Avery is helping them out. Even if you are not a Bama fan if you knew Avery you are cheering on the Tide! ROLLLLLL TIDE ROLL!

So Erica and I got the tree up but it took two and half hours. Pilot is scared of the tree for now. Needless to say I didn't get it decorated and it will probably be a day or two. I am only scheduled one off day this week. I am filling in for someone tomorrow. The rest of the week is busy but I should be able to get some things done.

As we were putting up the tree I thought about Avery and how much she loved Christmas. I thought about Tiffany our elf and how Avery would explain to her every morning about making messes. Avery never made messes it was always Big Al and David that did that! Oh how I miss her imagination!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number three: Help the kids make a paper chain to pull apart each night. It is like an advent calendar. Each night they pull off one link until Christmas eve and they pull off the last link. Avery loved doing this. Daddy helped her make one every year and then she hung it on the Christmas tree. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much today . . . . . Gene Ann

November 28, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Black Friday to all! Yes, we made it shopping by 5:00 am this morning. I got up at 3:30 sliced coffee cake, got ready, walked Pilot and off we went. Then I worked. . . . I was really busy! I loved every minute of it though.

I have a good story to share. I was checking out two ladies. One of them was talking about her son. I heard her say something about treatment and Cooper. I finally said "Are you Cooper's family?" She said yes, she was Cooper's mom. I looked at her and said "I'm Avery's mom." She said "Yes, you are. . .oh my goodness!" We had a special minute together. He just started temodar, his doctor is Dr. Reddy. We talked for a few minutes. She said she checks the website often. It was so nice to meet her. I hope that you all will pray for Cooper! Of course by this time another shopper had come to checkout and heard the last part of our conversation so then I had to share Avery's story again. Something that I never get tired of and I hope that everyone that hears the story gets a blessing from the story.

My shift flew by today! I love being busy. It was incredible. I enjoyed being on the other side of Black Friday. I tried really hard to remember all of those years and make everyones shopping experience wonderful. It is all about customer service.

After work I stopped by the house to get Grandmother. We headed toward Montgomery. We went to Costco, Ulta, Bed Bath and Beyond, Dillards (shhhhh! don't tell anybody at Belk of course I didn't buy anything). By this time we were ready for dinner. We came back to Prattville and ate at Olive Garden. It was very good.

Then we stopped back by Belk to check on a thing or two. Then I ran in Publix to get Pilot a treat (Dogsters doggy ice cream). She loves it and she has been so good the past few days. Once we got home I got my pj's on as fast as possible then headed toward bed. It was a long day but what fun I have had.

Tomorrow is Iron Bowl Saturday. I will be working! For all of you non football fans out there come shopping!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Christmas idea number two: Buy a cheap dollar store table cloth that you can throw away once done with this project. Now cover your coffee table or kiddie table. Get one gingerbread house kit and begin working. We made one last year and Dan enjoyed it just as much as we did. Avery showed everyone that came over her gingerbread house. After you finish let it dry for a day or two then just slide the house out and pull up the table cloth and throw it away. It wasn't messy at all. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . Gene Ann

November 27, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Thanksgiving! Today I am giving thanks for so many things. The main thing today is thanking GOD for Avery and how she blessed my life in so many ways. I do miss her but I am so thankful that she no longer hurts.

Lunch was good today. Dan left shortly after lunch heading Gulf Shores. He will be home on Sunday night. I hope that he has a wonderful weekend. I am working all weekend. Have a I mentioned that I have to work Saturday all day! 12-9:30. I will miss the Iron Bowl!

Grandmother got here early afternoon and we decided to venture out. We started at KMart. We had neither one been in the new KMart. It is so nice! We found a few little things. We were going to the movies but happened to pull through the WalMart shopping center and noticed that the new nail place was open. Pedicures were in order! What a Thanksgiving day! We were the only two in the shop and I know without a doubt that was the best pedicure ever!

We decided to go home after that. I mean you can't get any better than that. We went home to watch "This Christmas." It was good. So true to life. No matter how hard you plan there will always be some kind of drama when you get the whole family together for Christmas.

I decided to make coffee cake for work tomorrow. I made two. I then realized that it was 10:30 and I needed to get up at 3:30 so off to bed we went. Pilot talked for a little bit. She was not happy about sleeping in the crate but she has been sleeping there for over a month now maybe even two months now. She is so funny! She now gets in the crate every time she takes a nap. She loves the crate as long as the door is not closed. But if you don't close the door she sits at the door whine, scratches to get in and barks.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Holiday idea one: Make Christmas cookies (Avery loved the Reindeer cookies from the grocery store that you just place on a cookie sheet and bake) tonight with your kids. Let them decorate them any way they want to then sit down and watch a good Christmas movie while you eat cookies. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 26, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today is a day of the month I wish we could just skip every month. The 26th although mostly sad does have some happy memories too. The day Avery was born, every birthday party those are good. But date of diagnosis, relapse and death make it a sad day. I miss her so much. I sit and think of what we would be doing. She would now be in school and no telling the words she would be saying. She would probably be teaching the class by now. She loved to be the helper, line leader . . . just all of those things. I just miss those super tight extra long hugs so very much. I miss my favorite part of the day. I miss the silly giggles. I even miss Big Al and David! I miss our elf Tiffany! I miss the extra laundry. I miss the night nights. I miss the Disney Channel being played six hours a day. I miss my tiny princess! We were so blessed to have her the time we had her. I just miss her so much!

Work was good today. Busy for the most part. I love being busy! After work Dan and I decided to go out for Mexican. It was very good and nice not having to clean up the kitchen.

I had planned to go to the grocery store after dinner but was too tired and cold. We went home watched a show or two and then Dan went to the grocery store. We planned a simple meal for tomorrow. Nothing traditional! Dan says he has nothing to be thankful for this year. I have tried to tell him that he has so much to be thankful for but I am getting no where!

Tomorrow will be just Dan and I for lunch. Dan is going to the beach for the weekend. It was originally one day but now he is staying the weekend. Grandmother will be coming sometime after lunch. This year will be different. I have to be at work at 6:00 am on Friday. We will shop before I work then we will shop after I get off work. I get off early so we will have plenty of time to shop.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Elf tip number thriteen: Don't forget to hug your elves. Ok I am running out of elf tips so for the next twenty days or so I will be giving holiday things to do with your kids the ones that we did the last few years. For those of you that are familiar know that we did something fun every day! I have tons of ideas to make your holidays very special and keep your kids entertained. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 25, 2008

Hello Everybody,

What a day! It was a little busier than usual. I have been really busy with all of my activities. I have got to take the time in the next week or so to get organized again. Maybe I should start using my time management system from Campbell's again. I just have so much to do and not enough hours to get it done.

After work I stopped by the house for a minute to start dinner. Then I rushed off to choir practice. The Christmas music seems to be coming together. Then I rushed back home to finish dinner. Then I called Dan to tell him it was ready and he told me it would be at least twenty minutes before he could get home. Well, I finally ate without him. I think I was asleep before he got home.

I did get up to clean up the kitchen after he ate. Tomorrow is another early day for me. I am hoping to get so many things done before Thursday. I just don't know where to start. All I do know is that I have one week and two days to get the guest room cleaned out (Christmas gifts). Dan has one of his buddies from Michigan coming for a few days. Right now you can't see bed for gifts. I will try and get the house decorated, gifts wrapped and something cooked for them to eat. Oh my!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs Elf tip number twelve: I have heard that elves love to drive. Anything with stearing wheels should be put up. I am so glad that we only had one elf last year because I hear that if you get two they get into more trouble and make even bigger messes. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 24, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok, so I found out today that I didn't get the job. They brought someone in from a different location with that particular experience. In other words they needed someone that they could throw into the fire and not have to stop to train. That is fine because the way I am looking at it is "it wasn't meant to be and something better is going to come my way. . . . I just have to be patient!" If I have learned anything over the years it is to be patient.

Work was good today. I closed and we got out on time so that is good. Tomorrow and Wednesday should be busy. At least we will have plenty to do to keep us busy preparing for Friday.

That is about it for today. Nothing really exciting! Pilot is still getting better. I still don't know what I will do once the tree is up. I guess it will crate time unless we are home. I plan on decorating this weekend if at all possible. I know if Avery were here we would already be decorated. She would say something like "I just can't wait another minute!"

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs Elf tip number eleven: Elves love ceiling fans so be careful to look for your elf before turning one on. They also love to hang things from ceiling fans too. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . Gene Ann

November 23, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a great day. Church was wonderful especially since Grandmother and Granddaddy made it in time to go with me. After church they went by the cemetery to visit with Avery. I sang in the choir for traditional service. We met back at the house and began cooking lunch. Well, most of it was already done since I got up at 6:00 and Grandmother had already made the dressing. It wasn't long before lunch was ready and we were able to eat. It was so good!

After lunch Grandmother and I ran to open house downtown. This has been a tradition for years. This year a little different from all others. This year it was just the two of us. There was only one car and finding parking was much easier than years past. Normally there are about seven or eight of us. Avery always elected to stay home with the boys. That way she got Granddaddy all to herself. This year was different but the day was wonderful. Open house was the best ever. We hit only a few stores and decided to go to Target while we had the opportunity. From Target some how we ended up at Belk. Yes, I know but I just can't seem to get enough of that place. Besides I needed boxes to start wrapping presents.

When we got back to the house Granddaddy was ready to go back home. I so wish they could stay longer but realize that sometimes you are just more comfortable at home. They will be back next Sunday and Grandmother will be here Thursday afternoon to prepare for our mini shopping excursion. Since I am working this year it will be different from years past. Times have changed and now our traditions will change as well.

I cleaned up the kitchen and then sat down which ended up in a nap. I awoke to hear Billy Ray Cyrus introducing Miley on the music awards. I couldn't help but laugh thinking of Avery. She loved Hannah Montana. I could hear her giving one of her famous concerts "Now give it up for Hannah Montana!" As she would sing, play the guitar and piano. Oh the wonderful times we had together.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs Elf tip number ten: Elves love anything electrical. Watch where you leave the iron because I hear they sometimes use them to make grill cheese sandwhiches or to iron things that are not suppose to be ironed. It can really be messy. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 22, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Wow! I was at work this morning at 6:45. I can't believe I made it that early. Of course it was a little slow that early seeing how cold it was outside. By 11:00 am I felt as though I had been at work all day. Dan stopped by on his way to watch the game (Michigan/Ohio State). That is his Iron Bowl of the year.

I was so excited to get off at 3:30 today. As soon as I left the store I rushed home to check on Pilot. She has been pretty good lately. I took her for a walk and then decided to venture toward Montgomery. I went and purchased a new Christmas tree for this year. It is 9 foot tall pre-lit with 1800 clear lights. I am so excited. The box for the 9 foot tree was double the size of the 12 foot tree box. How I got it in the car by myself I will never know except to say I wanted it so bad. I got a really good deal! Now, Dan doesn't know yet and he will not be happy but I did what I felt I had to do. I have decided that I can't stop living, celebrating and enjoying life just because Avery is gone. I ask daily what would Avery want me to do and the answer is simple: live as we always have each day to its very fullest.

The tree takes up the majority of the back of my Explorer. I will have to recruit help to get it out when Dan is gone the next time which will be Thursday and most of Friday. From tree shopping I stopped to buy groceries. I am loving Publix! I found so many special things. I picked up some steaks to grill tonight. Dan had called earlier and said we would have dinner together at 6:00. I had to rush home from the grocery store because it was 6:00. By the time I got home got everything put away and started working it was after 7:00 and no sign of Dan. He stopped by for a minute and left again. He wanted to go help his buddy Scott with the final moving. After that they went out I guess to celebrate the moving being finished.

I decided to go ahead and grill. I cooked a wonderful dinner and sat down with Pilot to eat. After dinner I found a great movie on lifetime. It was the perfect evening. I got so much done in the house. Grandmother and Granddaddy are coming tomorrow for church, lunch and shopping. I decided to bake a carrot cake but think I will get up early in the morning and bake it instead of doing that tonight. For some reason I am really tired.

As I was getting some things done around the house tonight I was reminded that tomorrow is the day that we always celebrated Thanksgiving with all of our special friends and family. It was the big celebration every year. Grandmother and I would cook for two days preparing for the big day. Avery loved having parties and this was one of our favorites every year. I would start to do something tonight and I could hear Avery saying "now Mommy where is my seat. . . . what can I do next. . . . . .can I watch a movie now. . . . . .Mommy what are you doing now. . . . . . can I have more Pringles please. . . . . . Grandmother where are you. . . . well come in here with me. . . . . can we make turkey cookies now. . . . . oh come on mommy I'm ready to make them now!" Oh how I miss those type of conversations with her. How I miss all of the special occassions. I just miss her so very much. I don't however miss the clinic appointments, the medicine, the pain. . . .I am happy that she is healed and playing with her special friends as she has never played before. For this I am thankful!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Elf tip number nine: Don't forget to take your elf with you everywhere you go. Elves really love hotels, hospital rooms, Grandparents houses. These places tend to be lax in elf proofing things. The messes can be really messy at these type of places. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 21, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Kari! I hope you have an incredible day today. May the year ahead be filled with wonderful blessings. Happy Birthday Amy (Brock's Mommy)! I hope you have a great day filled with lots of surprises. Have a big slice of cake!

Today was busier than usual. I did not find out anything today. They are going to make us wait until Tuesday. Oh the waiting! But whatever the results I know that I did my best. If I get it then it was meant to be and if not then something better will come along.

I came home on my lunch break to check on Pilot. She was being so good. I decided she stay out until I got off tonight. She did very good. I came home for just a little bit then met Erica for dinner at the chinese restaurant again. We enjoyed it so much the week before we decided to go back. The night was very fun!

Once I got home I went straight to bed. 5:15 is going to come early tomorrow morning. But by going in early I get off early! That is the best part of the early shift. Also we are having a credit contest right now. If you don't have a Belk Rewards card please come by the store and see me. I'll fix you right up.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicholas, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Elf tip number eight: Don't forget to take your elf to school to with you. I hear that they sometimes like to make messes at school too! Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 20, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Jesika! Oh girl I wish you the biggest best birthday ever! Please have cake today. Wishing you tons of blessings for the next year. I miss you terribly!

Ok so today was a very long day! I ended up not going in until noon. This did mean that I closed and the time went so slowly. It is so cold here for us. I have been unable to walk due to weather elements. If this keeps up I am going to force myself to join a gym. Even if it is just for the treadmill. We had one once and I find it works better if you pay to go to the gym. But maybe it will warm back up to where I can walk at least three nights a week.

Dan left late heading to Atlanta for meetings. He will be home sometime tomorrow night. Poor Pilot will have to be crated tomorrow since he will not be there to let her out when she needs to go. She has been a little better lately. She still has her moments (but don't we all).

I am still waiting to hear about the job. Hopefully I will find out something tomorrow. Well, it is late and I have to read at least a chapter or two before bed. I'm hooked on this book.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nicolas (is having bad headaches due to scar tissue) Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Elf tip number seven: Watch where you leave the glitter. Elves love to decorate anything they can find and they are terribly messy! Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . Gene Ann

November 19, 2008

Hello Everybody,

The phone interview went very well. I finished in about 45 minutes which it usually takes one hour. I think I can thank Toastmasters for that. I just thought of it as a table topic marathon trying to answer each question as quickly and articulate as possible. I should find out something by Friday. They are wanting to fill this position really quick.

After the interview I decided I would take care of the errands I had planned for the day. I had to meet Dan back at the house by 3:00 so he could use my car to haul some things to the UPS store. Car parts of some sort. Then we were going to go and order Avery's memorial marker.

First stop was Belk. I know I was off so why stop there. Well, I had a few bonus bucks to spend. It was nice getting some things I have been looking at and not having to spend anything much for them. As I was making my way back toward the entrance I came into the store I was stopped by everyone to talk. I then realized that I had to hurry to meet Christen the ACS representative to pick up some Relay money that needs to be receipted. So it was off to Books a Million. I met Christen got what I needed and headed toward Montgomery and Libby Lu. They had the tree! The only opportunity is it is a feather tree. So now I am on the look out for a cover. It is so perfect!

On the way back home from shopping Connie called with a number for us to call about a special memorial marker. What timing! How incredibly perfect is that. While talking to her my phone decided to play its old trick of cutting off and back on. I just happened to notice that I was in front of the AT&T store when it was doing this but of course it got over its temper tantrum by the time I parked and got into the store. I was told to go home and call the 1800 number. They told me what to say and everything. Well, the call did not go as planned. Because when they called the phone (one minute) it did not cutt off on them so they were not going to replace my phone. Ok, I had to use tactics I don't like using. I had to threaten to cancel my plan and go else where before the phone will be replaced. They just don't know how frustrating it is to not have a phone that works correctly most of the time. Long story short they are sending me another refurbished phone sometime in the next five days. Hopefully it will work.

Dan and I went to drop off some returns for UPS pick up. After that we stopped at the cemetery to visit Avery. We then stopped in the funeral home to order her marker but no one was there that could do that so we have to go back. Once we got home I found a place on the internet where you can design your own and even include a picture. So now we are going to look into that. It would be so nice to have her face to look at when we visit. It would give us something to talk to and would let everyone that passed see how pretty she was. Hopefully with Dan's travel schedule and my work schedule we can get something together in the next few days. We are hoping to have something in place by Christmas but we will just have to see. I will try to keep everyone updated.

Once home it was no time until time for me to head to church. The Boys Scouts had their spaghetti dinner tonight. Elizabeth and I worked the door taking money. I ate at church and brought Dan a to-go for him to enjoy tomorrow for lunch. Choir practice was good. The Christmas music is coming together. When I got home Dan was gone. He had some errands to take care of then he met up with some customers. While he was out I had a special phone call. Tim Bailey (Molly's Dad) called to give me a you tube address to a video that CBS did of Kandles for Kids. It was talking about Avery and Molly's friendship. As soon as I am able to post the link on here I will. It is very sweet. One word of caution though before watching get the tissues! Also, please pray for Molly! She went back to the doctor (follow up from her ear surgery). The infection is back and they are now growing cultures to see if it is MRSA again. Please pray that it is not MRSA and that this clears up quickly. Thank you Tim for calling and letting us know about the video. I can't wait to share it with you all.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Elf tip number six: Be careful where you put the magic snowflakes that you sprinkle on your elf at night. Sometimes they will try to decorate your floor with them. This can be very messy! Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 18, 2008

Hello Everybody,

The day started with a call from the first interview and now I am scheduled for my second interview via phone (talent plus) tomorrow morning. I am guessing that this is a good thing. I am very excited and very hopeful!

Work was great. I love being out and seeing everybody. It is especially fun when special friends come to the store. I can't wait to be on the other side during the holiday shopping frenzy. It has been a long time since that has happened.

It is so cold here! Once I got off work I decided I needed to go home and get a warmer jacket before venturing off toward Montgomery. Libby Lu advertised a cute little pink Christmas tree with princess ornaments that I thought would be perfect for the cemetery. I was all ready to go and get it until I got home. Once home I decided that could wait until tomorrow when I am off and can take my time. I did order chinese food and pick that up though. It was a nice evening in where it is nice and warm.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Elf tip number five: Be careful not to leave underwear folded on top of the dryer/in a close basket because an elf will hang them from the ceiling fan. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . Gene Ann

November 17, 2008

Hello Everybody,

The interview went well. I will know something in the next few days and then will share with everyone. It is something that I will really enjoy doing. It is also something that has potential for a life long career.

Today was great! A little slow at times but that is to be expected this time of year. I am ready for the craziness of being super busy! Hopefully that will happen soon.

I did manage to read a little tonight. Pilot was sweet and curled up in my lap sleeping as I read. She was "Cujo" prior to finally curling up. She is not the most loving dog. I honestly believe she was abused to the point of not trusting anyone. She runs from me and I'm the one that feeds her. Poor thing! I really want her to get over this and allow us to love on her. Sometimes I think she is really confussed about Avery and wonders where she is. Other times I think Avery is causing all of the escapades. Which is probably what is happening. She is coming to play with her dog that can probably see her and we just don't get what is going on. Makes sense to me sometimes.

Tomorrow is another busy day. I am hoping to get a bunch accomplished this week so that I can possibly start decorating next week. I am so close to being finished with my shopping. Just a few more little things and it is done. Just as long as I stay away from toy stores I don't have a problem.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Elf tip number four: It is always good to put away the good scissors elves love to cut paper which can sometimes be very messy. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . Gene Ann

November 16, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok, so I didn't make it to church this morning. I feel bad that I didn't go but I really needed a break from doing anything. I got a few things done around the house. I don't think I will ever get caught up around here but I'm going to try.

I finally got ready and decided to make a trip to Montgomery to pick up a thing or two. I found a tree while I was out that I think I will go back and get. Dan says "NO DECORATING WHAT SO EVER!" I just can't imagine not having a tree up. What happens when Avery comes to visit us? What happens when she looks at house and says "oh come on Mommy our house is not pretty. . . . seriously Mommy what is up with our house?" I have to right? Well, I might get into big time trouble but I need to have at least one tree up who knows this might be the year for two. I know it will be hard but it will be harder not having the house decorated. I have also loved Christmas so much. I love decorating, baking and most especially giving. I get so much out of the season. I can't stop what I have always done. Avery would want things to be the way they always have been. She would want the joy and cheer back in this house. Now, what do I do with Pilot? I guess she will get use to the crate again.

Once I got back home with more than I planned to pick up we decided to go out for an early dinner. I haven't been to Mexico Tipico in a month so we met Charlie and Jennie for dinner. It was nice getting out and not having to clean up the kitchen. I love cooking I just hate the clean up afterwards. Now, while I was out today I picked up a book "Twilight." Everyone I know has either read it or is reading it so I decided "why not." Ok, I can't put the book down. I immediately starting reading and now I am over 100 pages into the book. It is addictive. Pilot has been very good and has laid in my lap while I have read. It is has been nice to have a lap dog today. Avery would be proud. But any minute I am waiting on Cujo to come back out.

Tomorrow I have a big interview. It is still with Belk but a different position has come available. I will tell more after the interview if all goes well. It would be really good for me and something that I would enjoy seeing how the PR job ends in just a few weeks and then it is the fragrance counter full time. Not that I don't enjoy that. I have so much to do around here that I better get back to work.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Elf tip number three: you might want to lock up the toilet paper (Tiffany thought it was a new type of garland and decorated our tree with it last year). Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 15, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Charity day is here! I was on time this morning getting to the store a little before 5:30 am. We got everything organized and everything went very smoothly. We sold several tickets at the door. The charities seemed to have a good time and didn't mind having to work on a Saturday morning.

The time actually flew by but I don't think I stopped for more than a minute or two. I would get called from table to table. It was so good to see some special friends in shopping.

Sandy came in at 11:00 so Angie went to lunch. When Angie got back from lunch I decided to go home early instead of taking lunch then going home. Good thing because if I had stayed much longer I would have had over time. By the time I clocked out picked up my pre-sell purchases loaded the car and headed for home (but wait I had to go back in and find my phone that I had left somewhere) well anyway it was 1:30 by the time I got home unloaded and was able to sit for a minute. I took Pilot for a quick walk and changed into game clothes. Now, I had plenty of time for a good nap before kick off.

The nap was wonderful but I kept getting woke up by the phone, Pilot, Pilot, Pilot. She did not want me sleeping. Dan was out doing his thing. Pink's was in town filming an episode for next year. He took one of his cars and so he was all tied up with that most of the weekend. He then stopped to visit with his parents before they head back to Michigan tomorrow. He ran by the house for a minute to get warmer clothes before going back to the drag strip.

Wow, Pilot and I got to watch the Alabama game all by ourselves. I must say I was very nervous in the first half but the second half was fabulous. I managed to do one load of laundry and then thought this stuff can wait until tomorrow. So then I put in "Made of Honor" and watched it before going to bed. It was great! I love those type of movies. A must see chick flick!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Elf tip number two: never leave the cookie jar where the elf can find it. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . Gene Ann

November 14, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Another busy day! Charity day just fell into place at the last minute. I was beginning to think that I would have to pull my hair out but things all worked out! I love it when a plan comes together. Hopefully all will be good and we will be super busy! Remember doors open at 6:00 am. The sale lasts until 10 am. Get in early and get the great buys.

After work I met up with Erika, Mallory and Marsha for dinner. We are all going to miss Marsha. She is leaving for another store closer to home. We went to Lin's Asian Grill. It was very good. Erika totally entertained us! She is so funny.

From there it was time to go home watch days and curl up with Pilot. After Days I decided I better go to bed since the alarm clock is set for 4:15 tomorrow morning. Oh the joys of retail. But I am loving every minute of it.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Elf tip of the day: Never feed an elf sugar after dark. Trust me you'll regret that in the morning when you have a sick elf and tons of messes to clean up. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

November 13, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I got up got the cakes iced and headed to work. We had a good day. I have super busy with charity day! Things should settle down and then we will prepare for the holiday shopping season. It is going to be fun!

I usually run home for lunch and take Pilot out for a quick walk. Well, today I went with the cosmetic girls for lunch. It was fun and I really enjoyed lunching with them. Just wish the service could have been a little faster.

After work it was Toastmasters then line dancing. After line dancing Pam and I walked four miles. We thought we had walked more than that but the route we took was pretty intense. Hopefully we will be able to up it a little next week. I am hoping that once my schedule winds down a bit I can up my walking time. Right now I am on pace and the endurance is really building. Let me see if I do the route we did three times and then add one more mile at the end I have done a half marathon. This is totally do able!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Don't forget to send for your Christmas elf as soon as possible. All you have to do is leave a plate of crackers and a glass of water out by the fire place. Also, it doesn't hurt to send Santa an email requesting a well behaved elf. I will try and post the do's and do not's for elves over the next few days. Boy am I agoing to miss our elf Tiffany! Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

November 12, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was planned but a flat tire prevented all of my plans from taking shape. Well, most of them anyway. Come to find out I had a big screw in my back tire. Thank goodness Dan was home working in the office upstairs and was able to get enough air in it for me to get to the tire store. Then it took then over an hour to repair and rotate/balance the tires. Anyway by the time they finished it was too late to do the things I had to do.

By this time it was almost time to be at church. This was our last week of Wednesday night meals until January. Next week will be the Boy Scouts spaghetti dinner. Elizabeth and I thought we would not have to work but were asked if we would help out. So I guess next week will be our last week.

After supper I ran home to get a few things done. I had planned to walk with Pam but by the time I got home it started to sprinkle. So off to the grocery store I went to pick up a thing or two. Then it was back to choir practice. We had a good practice. We decided on our date for our holiday get together.

Once I got home I decided to make two red velvet cakes for work. Well, it was Catina's birthday on Tuesday and she was off then I was off so a cake was in order. I got them baked then decided I would ice them in the morning before work. Oh, I miss my little helper. As I was baking I was thinking back to last year and how she would say "mommy where is my seat. . . . what is my job. . . . . hmmm let me see I think pink sprinkles would be nice. . . . . .mommy where did those silly sprinkles go. . . . . . . . .can we make peanut butter cookies next?" She was so funny and the best little helper anyone could ask for. I miss her so much!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Bake cookies with your children every chance you get. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 11, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Natileigh! We hope you day is filled with many blessings, lots of surprises and a big cake! Eat cake first today and think of Avery. Happy Birthday Pam! We hope you have a wonderful day filled with more blessings than candles. Enjoy your day and splurge a little on dessert! That is what Avery would want you to do.

I got to work at 9:30 this morning to find the store already open with customers. I thought ok did I look at the schedule wrong am I late. We opened early but I was not late. I was right on time. It just scared me a little. On my lunch break today I ran by Publix to pick up stuff for taco soup. I stopped by picked up some lunch for me and Dan. Got home put the soup together in the crock pot, ate and was back at work in an hour. Sometimes I am amazed at what I can get done in an hour.

Once again I worked on calling customers. I also worked on calling charities about working the door Saturday. I am having a hard time finding anyone that wants to work from 6-7 am. I wonder why? It would be an easy decision for me! The bed is so nice and warm. Maybe someone will step up to the plate.

Choir practice was really good tonight. The Christmas music is coming together. We finally have a few extra soprano's which is nice. After choir I headed home to eat dinner and start working. One load of laundry down four more to go. Tomorrow will be a day of getting things done around here. I do have an errand or two to take care of but hopefully that will not take long.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

November 10, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Work was good for the most part. I had to work some today on charity sale. Part of that was making 100 phone calls to remind customers about the event. I love that though. I remember when I would get a call from Parisian about an upcoming event. It makes you feel special. I hope that is what I did today.

I did remember to get Pilot tonight. I picked her up and dropped her off at home before going to the committee meeting. After the meeting I had to head back to work to close. We were not that busy so the time seemed to drag.

Once we got closed I went home to find Pilot and Dan gone. They went over to visit with his mom and dad. I had the whole house to myself again. This time it was a no brainer - big chair, snack and days! Ahhhh the perfect end to a great day. Avery would have said "Absolutely Perfect!"

Tomorrow I am working the early shift so I can go to choir practice. We are working on the Christmas musical. Then I am off Wednesday with no real plans as of right now.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 9, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Grandmother and I decided to venture out before I left going home. Where did we end up? You guessed it Belk! This is when I realized just how nice our store really is. Just not the store the employees the customer service. We have the whole package! I'm not just saying that because I work there! It was just very enlightening. If you are ever in the area stop by and see our store and then tell me what you think.

We shopped for a little bit, had a nice lunch and then it was time for me to head back toward Prattville. I just was not ready to go home. I could have stayed another day or two but now that I am working that is not possible. Besides I have a million things to do this week. I think I have something every night this week.

I got home, unloaded the car, put on a load of laundry, cleaned up the kitchen and then decided to order pizza for dinner. It was nice I had the whole house to myself. Pilot is still on vacation, Dan was at his parents house and well I curled up in the big chair to watch Days while waiting on pizza. How perfect of a night is that?

What a wonderful weekend and I don't go in until 1:00 tomorrow. I might get a thing or two done around here. Hopefully I will not forget Pilot this time. I will get her before the Relay for Life committee meeting. I better go make myself a note right now.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . . Gene Ann

November 8, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok, I don't know where to begin. Today was beautiful. A little windy and cool but beautiful. We got up early, got ready, loaded up and headed out. I did manage to run a few errands while Grandmother got ready. I got what I needed and got back just in time to load up.

We got to Toka's early and got everything done. The tables were perfect. I just laugh because sometimes I am even amazed at what we can do and how it just falls into place. Avery's birthday parties were always that way! The big game started at 2:30 and the ceremony was not until 5:00. Oh, my goodness how I have dreaded this game. I must say that I had to have a little talk with Avery second half. It seems she was making the wind blow outside and not paying attention to helping Big Al. The wind was blowing and well everything was outside and I could just hear her laughing. It reminded me so much of Sebastians memorial service when they went to light the candle outside and the wind began to blow preventing them from staying lit. We could all hear Avery and Sebastian laughing. Well, I told her to knock it off and go help Big Al. That is when they finally scored to go ahead. This is when I know Ms. Francine was asking Brayden for his help and I'll be if LSU didn't come back tie it up and block our field goal. Oh, my nerves were shot and I hate overtime! Thank goodness Bama survived another week. Thank you Avery! I know you are helping Big Al to stay out of trouble and focus on helping Bama!

The party was wonderful. The food was good and fellowship even better. It was a wonderful change of scenery. I needed to get a away. We had so much fun. Poor Grandmother has everything to put away this week but it will give her something to do to occupy her time.

After the party we stopped by Sammy and Sherri's to visit with Lydia and Bear Bear (Lydia's puppy). Oh my goodness I thought the puppy was dead a time or two. She would lay on him then she would get up and run away and here the puppy would come after her. Pilot would not be that easy to catch and wrestle with. We enjoyed our visit with them. It's a good thing Bama won because Sammy would have blamed Grandmother and Granddaddy. He was not happy that they were not coming over to watch the game with them. Everything has to be the same every week when Bama is winning. Oh my that would never work here I never know what I will be doing until game day.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

November 7, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Good thing I checked in first on my hours for the week. I had the option of working a few hours and going home or going home. Thank goodness I was not at 40 but close to the hours I was given for the week. I went a little over but not much. I worked long enough to get things going. I helped set up the fit event, opened registers, answered a call and headed out.

By leaving so early I stopped by Mistletoe Market to see what they had. They didn't have what I was looking for but I guess that was a good thing considering it saved me a little money. It was good to see a few friends at the market. From there I stopped by the house and picked up a thing or two. It was nice loading everything and not having to fight with Pilot. She is at the condos having a great time. I loaded up and headed to Publix to pick up some things for the weekend. I filled up with gas, grabbed a quick lunch and headed toward Jasper. I was there by 3:00 which gave us plenty of time to get a bunch done.

We had to take a load to Toka's to set up. It is going to be beautiful! From there we went back to Grandmother and Granddaddy's to start working. Grandmother and I had to take a trip to the grocery store to pick up a thing or two. We got back and Grandaddy cooked dinner. Dinner was so good! After that it was back to work for me and Grandmother.

Once I stopped for a break though I didn't get back up. I fell asleep on the couch. I didn't realize how tired I was. Tomorrow will be a very busy day. We have to get up early, load the car and go finish setting up. Toka has some friends coming to help us get everything done. It should be very easy and a lot of fun.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . Gene Ann

November 6, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a very good day. I was able to get a few things done around the house. I had so many errands to run that I think I got them all done. Tomorrow I will leave from work and head to Jasper for the weekend.

Once I wrapped up with a few things I headed out to hit as many realtor offices as possible to let them know about the special night at Belk. By this time it was time to go and set up the event. Yes, I know I was off today but I wanted to be sure it was set up properly and everything was taken care of. That is just my nature.

Soon after setting up everything I headed out with Vicki and Pam on a little adventure. We went to St. James Church in Montgomery to a holiday shopping market. Everything was spiritual that was sold. It was fun and we managed to find a few things. It did not take us long to go through everything so we headed back to Prattville to eat dinner. We decided on Applebee's. Now, I know you all want to know but yes this was the first time back in there for me. I will say this much the menu has changed a little since I was last in Applebee's. We ate there so much in the past few years that I use to know the menu backwards and forwards. It wasn't as hard as I thought it would be. But my little buddy was missing. I could hear her saying "hmmm. . . I think Applebee's. . . . that's what I want." Or her standard "I know! I know! Let's go to Applebee's!" That was her most favorite place ever! I just haven't had the heart to go there but tonight was different and I did fine.

After dinner I had to run by the church to pick up my to-go dinner from last night. It was nice and safe in the fridge. Now Dan will have something to eat while I am gone. My plan is to work tomorrow then head toward Jasper as soon as possible. I am suppose to work until 6:00 tomorrow night but I might be over 40 before then. I will have to check first thing and add my time to see where I am. I am dropping Pilot off at the doggy condos for a few days. She needs some extra TLC and a vacation.

Saturday is Toka and Darwin's 30th anniversary party and renewal of vows. Grandmother is caterring and I am helping her. We haven't done this in a while. I am looking forward to seeing everyone. It will be a fun weekend. Dan is staying home to work on the corvette and watch football. I am not saying a word about the game. I will say this much "I hope you have a great time Tina!"

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . Gene Ann

November 5, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Whew what a long day! It started at 5:30 am this morning when I pulled up at Salem's house. We got on the road headed toward Birmingham. Even with the traffic delay we still made it to the airport with time to spare. We got a breakfast snack sat down and waited. Then we waited some more. Finally they told us that the plane had some issues that they were working on and we would be delayed. Then finally they told us all that we would have to be re-routed or take a later flight. Salem and I got the last two seats on the 9:30 flight.

We got to Charlotte and by the time we got in the rental car we had twenty minutes maybe to get to the meeting. The rental car place took forever. Then as we were pulling out of the place we had to insert a token to leave and well the arm on the gate would not open. We had to back up and get another token. By this time Salem was very stressed. I could not do anything but laugh because I have learned over the years that sometimes you have no control over these types of things. You can only do what you can do.

We made it to the corporate office with five minutes to spare. We went in met everyone and literally started the meeting. Salem and Elaina gave their presentation first then we had a break. After the break it was time for me and Corliss. We did a good job. However the director of stores for the northern division seemed to ask me more questions about my position than I was prepared to answer. He didn't want Salem to answer he wanted me to answer the questions. I handled it well but felt as though I was being interrogated. As soon as we finished we left for the airport. Corliss joined us. We did manage to stop inside the airport for a minute or two and grab a bite to eat. It was nice to finally sit down and take a break. It was also nice to finally eat.

No delays on the way back home. Thank goodness we had no luggage. All in all it was a wonderful day. We hope that we made an impact. Hopefully they will take what we said and go back and implement the things that we did into what they are doing in getting ready to open stores in March. We got back into Prattville around 8:15 or so. I was ready to get home and go to bed.

Today was a great day! I feel so honored to have been chosen to go and give the presentation. I hope that in some small way we helped. Tomorrow I am off but will go in to set up for Realtor appreciation night. If you are a realtor or know any please let them know to come and shop from 5:30 to 7:30 tomorrow night (Thursday). I am off this weekend. I am going to Jasper to help Grandmother with Toka's 30th wedding anniversary party. I can't wait to see everyone.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

November 4, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I got to work at 7 am started the coffee for senior day. I went and picked up donut holes from the bakery at Publix. As I was walking in the door of Publix I was greeted by the store manager and given a wonderful basket full of great things. It was mom's day and the first 50 women got gifts. Wow, today is going to be a great day (at least I am hoping).

I was going to go and vote on my lunch break but one of the cosmetic girls wanted me to go to lunch with her. That sounded really good so I went with Erica to eat. We had a really good time. She is so funny and reminds me so much of Natileigh.

Before I could turn around good it was time to go home. It was passed time but no replacement. I don't know what happened but finally at ten minutes to six I asked Salem if it was ok to go ahead and go. I went as fast as I could to vote. I was in for approximately five minutes. It helps when you know everyone and everything you are voting for.

I wish I could say things turned out the way I wanted them to but I can't. All I can say is that we all need to pray and hope that the nation supports the new president. Pray that he does his job to the best of his ability. Pray that he gets a great team in place to help him lead this country.

Ok, so the last time we voted in a major election we took Avery with us. She was so funny that year. She had just met Bob Riley a month or so before the election. Every time he was on television she would say "there's Bob. . . .Hey I know him. . . . . Hey I had my picture taken with Bob. . . . . mommy you better vote for Bob!" By the time the election arrived she would tell everyone she met "vote for Bob!" It was so funny! You could say Bob who and she would say "Bob Riley. . .you know!" We got so tickeled at her campaigning. As we left the poll that day she said "mommy did you vote for Bob?" What an impact he had on her. I will treasure those times forever. She was only three and going through radiation and chemo but she was so happy, so smart and never missed a beat. Oh, what I would give to have that humor back in this house again.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . . Gene Ann

November 3, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Work, Work, Work! Today was one of those days that you just can't say much. I forgot to log that I did walk last night. Not eight miles but a little over three. I was so tired! I have got to step it up. I am hoping that this week I will be able to do just that.

Work was good. The day seemed so long though. Tomorrow will even be longer seeing how I have to go in at 7 am to get ready for senior day. I will have to figure out a time that I can go and vote. I will work until 5:30 so hopefully I can go on my lunch break.

I managed to talk with Corliss today. She is the manager from south Florida. We got the wow we were looking for our presentation. I can't wait to put it all together.

I miss Avery terribly right now. It seems that everyday in the mail we get some type of catalog. She loved looking at them and would tell me what was on every page as we would be riding down the road. She never asked for much she just enjoyed looking at the pictures and telling me what her favorites were. She didn't like looking at any boy stuff. She was a girly girl. Oh, how I miss those times.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

November 2, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Church was great. Choir was good. I think we sounded ok. After that I headed home fixed me some lunch and began doing laundry. It seemed that was all I did all day.

I did manage to get a few things done around the house. Although it doesn't look like very much I feel like somethings got done. When I have two days in a row off I really don't want to go back on the third day. I get to thinking wow if I had another day I could get so much done. But then I realize that I have to go back.

I did manage to cook a few things today. Hopefully Dan will have somethings to eat on this week. I have a very busy week. I don't where to start to prepare for all I have to do. The Charlotte trip is Wednesday and I guess I better start there. We are hoping to meet up so we can practice our presentation together. The store manager from Cape Coral Florida I am working with is wonderful. She is such a hoot to talk with on the phone. I can't wait to meet her in person.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like never before. . . . . Gene Ann

November 1, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I got up early this morning and thought "WHY?" So I curled back up and went back to sleep for another hour or so. It was nice being able to sleep past 7:00 am. Once I got up it was no stopping the rest of the day. I wrapped Avery Nicole's birthday presents. Everything I got her reminded me of something I would have gotten Avery Ann.

I went to Alabaster and had a good time. Avery loved her presents and kept giving me the biggest bear hugs. It was wonderful! When I am around her I feel such a strong connection to my Avery. As a matter of fact Avery Nicole asked the other day for an appointment to see me and Granddaddy because Avery had given her a message to give us. I can't wait to find out what it is. I truly believe that Avery tells her things.

After the party I decided to stop by Publix to grocery shop before coming home. I stopped and picked up a few things then came home and started cooking. Dan got home and informed me he was not hungry because he had eaten at his parents. I enjoyed a nice meal alone again. Pilot was good for the most part and let me eat in peace. Then we curled up on the couch to watch the Texas - Texas Tech game. Dan left again to go watch the game somewhere else. He got home shortly after the game to find me and Pilot asleep. We just could not make it another minute of the game.

Tomorrow I will be going to church, singing in the choir and then cleaning house. I am hoping to walk my eight miles sometime tomorrow. I have been so busy this week that I have neglected my walking. I will get back on track this week. My schedule this week will make it much easier to get a few miles in each night. Hopefully five or more each night. I still have a little over 4 months but I don't want it to slip up on me. I will be ready!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

October 31, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Halloween! Today has been so terribly hard at times. I thought that working would help to ease things but nothing has seemed to work so far. I just can't think of anything but Avery. I see her in every little face I have seen today. I keep thinking this is just the start of the holidays how will I be able to cope with what is next?

Work was good! Not as busy as I like to be. Hopefully that will come in the coming weeks as the holidays draw nearer. Oh how I dread the holidays. Things are going to be so different this year. Last year was the best Christmas ever! We celebrated being home, together and everything we could possibly think of to celebrate. Avery was feeling so much better after her battle with pneumonia and we just were all so excited about our upcoming trip to Disney World. We never thought it would be our last trip together. So much has happened in a year.

Dan decided to do his own thing for Halloween. He didn't want to wait on me. He went out and I think he even attended a Halloween party. I stopped by and picked up Chinese food for dinner. I ate a great dinner then curled up with Pilot in the big chair to watch Lifetime. We both enjoyed ourselves especially Pilot who didn't waste anytime going to sleep. We got up around midnight and went to bed. I have the weekend off this weekend and next weekend. I will be going to Alabaster tomorrow for Avery Nicole's birthday party. She turned four on October 28th. I don't know what Dan is doing. He is probably going somewhere to watch football.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

October 31, 2008

Hello Everybody,

****URGENT PRAYER REQUEST****** Conner (Mrs. Jesika's nephew) is having his first round of chemo today starting at 11:00 am central time. It is very important that we all pray because this could cause his heart to stop. They have diagnosed him with Ewings sarcoma. Please pray that the chemo works, that the side effects are minimal and that there are no problems. Please stop by his website and leave a message www.caringbridge.org/visit/redhead. As soon as Dan gets a few extra minutes he will add Conner's site to the sidebar on this site. Please, Please, Please pray for Conner and his family!

October 30, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a very busy day! I don't think I stopped for more than five minutes all day. It was run, run, run! Our Teacher Appreciation Night went well. I was very pleased with things.

I got home very late because when I got off I decided to shop a little. Normally I am too tired and can't wait to get home. Tonight I made myself get a few things that I have been looking at for a couple of weeks. Oh the dangers of working for a department store.

Tomorrow is another busy day! We are not participating in Halloween this year. There will be no candy at our house. I get off at 7 and I am trying to talk Dan into going to dinner and then a movie but he doesn't seem enthused at all. I just don't want to stay home! We miss Avery so very much. Everytime I see a little one dressed up I think "what would Avery have wanted to be this year? How many costumes would we have gotten? How many times would we play dress up on Halloween?" Oh how I would give anything to play dress up with her again. We miss her terribly!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

October 29, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today has been a pretty good day! I only got three hours of sleep last night. We really need prayers right now! I am so surprised that I got up got ready and got to Belk at the time I wanted to get there. I did the grocery shopping for the event and then set it all up. From there I went to Montgomery to deliver charity day tickets and other things.

I pulled into the driveway at home as Grandmother and Granddaddy were pulling in too! We decided it was time to go to lunch but had to wait on Dan to get ready. Grandmother and I ran an errand or two while Dan was getting ready. We then went to lunch at the Bass Pro Shop at the Islamarda Restaurant. I'm the only one that has eaten there so it was a treat for everyone else. I have been trying to get Dan to go for months and he says "NO!" Well, we all enjoyed our meal so much.

After lunch we ran home and started loading serving pieces. Hopefully she got everything that she needed. I am so excited because I am off that entire weekend so I am going to go and help out. We always have so much doing events but it is a ton of work. We then ran a few more errands one being going to Belk for Grandmother to look at something I had found I thought she might like. We had the best time and I hated that they had to leave so early.

By this time it was time for me to go to church. We had a very slim crowd this week. The meal looked very good but I was still so full from lunch that I got mine to go. I went home for a little bit before heading back for choir practice. I am loving choir. I just hope that I can get the solo pretty soon before the performance in December. Tomorrow is another jam packed day!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . Gene Ann

October 28, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Another super busy day! I love being busy. The Bra Fit Event went well. I helped get them started by watching the front while they did their fittings. We were very fortunate to have an expert to help us during this event.

After work I headed to Moody to the Relay for Life Team Captain Kick-off. It was amazing! I am so honored that they asked me to come and speak. I hope that I helped in some way. I must say getting started is always the hardest part. Closing is always hard. Avery impacted so many lives and lived her life to the fullest.

After the meeting I headed back for Prattville. I'm off tomorrow but we have an all day men's event that needs setting up so I am going in early to make sure it gets done. I also have some deliveries to make for make for work. So I will probably work 4 hours tomorrow morning. The best news is that Grandmother and Granddaddy are coming tomorrow for a few hours. Grandmother has an event coming up that she is helping with and she needs to come go through our attic and get the serving pieces that she needs of mine. I can't wait to see them it seems like it has been months. I have to get home and get a few things done so that we can play tomorrow.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Please, Please, Please pray for a cure! Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever today. . . . . Gene Ann

October 27, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a good day. Work was busy as usual. We have three events this week all on different days. I went in early so that I could get some work done on all of the events. I'm so glad that I did that because I finally got caught up on a few things.

Tonight was the team captain kick-off for Relay for Life. Elisabeth went with me and we announced that Belk will have a team this year. We also were able to present charity day money to them from the ticket sales at the door. On another note during Charity Day everyone registered for a $500 gift card. The person that won then selected a charity for us to donate $500 to and they chose Relay for life. The lady said "oh Relay for Life because my mom had breast cancer." We were all so excited!

After the meeting we had to rush back to work. It was not that busy but somehow no one was in accessories so that is where I wound up. At least it seemed to be busy while I was there. I don't mind being anywhere as long as it is busy. I am actually looking forward to black Friday for all different reasons this year. You know this will be the first Black Friday in 25 years that I have not been shopping on that day. Grandmother and I usually go and spend the night in Birmingham (really close to the Galleria). We are up at 4 am and shopping by 5. We have the whole day planned out and it is so much fun. We would leave Birmingham and shop our way toward Prattville. From Prattville we would shop our way toward Montgomery. After leaving Montgmery we would continue and magically end up at the outlet in Foley. We would stay in Gulf Shores for a few days. Last year Avery went on down to Gulf Shores with Daddy, Granddaddy and Aunt Sandra. They all had so much fun. They got to all experience Build a Bear where Avery made Dopey the reindeer. I will elaborate on that story closer to the holidays. Well, it was her first year to not go with us. I remember when she was nine months old and went with us for the first time. She had so much fun! She loved every minute of our shopping trip. That is when I knew I had a professional shopper on my hands. She never missed a beat. Well, this year is the year that we will change things up and start new traditions all in memory of Avery. Grandmother will come here and she will shop while I work. I will meet up with her after I finish up with work. We will have fun because we always do no matter what we do.

Events of the week: Tomorrow night Relay for Life Kick-off in Moody, Bra fit event 11-7 at Belk, Wednesday Men's Tailored Clothing Event with huge savings, Thursday night 5:30 - 7:30 Teacher Appreciation Night additional savings for teachers. I hope you will join us for some of the fun!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

October 26, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a great day. I am off and did much of nothing. Well, I did manage to do a load of laundry or two. I did go to church, sing in the choir, and pick up a pizza from Mellow Mushroom.

Pilot and I enjoyed a two hour nap. It was wonderful! Dan didn't leave Knoxville until after noon. Pilot and I had control of the television and any chair we wanted. We both curled up to watch a lifetime movie and fell fast asleep. I got up just in time to get ready and head to the church fish fry. It was wonderful as always.

When I got home Dan was home. He was watching his car shows. I took Pilot for a walk. This week we are going to try walking 8 miles at least three nights a week. I can't wait. I feel so good when we walk. Pam says we are ready for 8 miles so we are going to try it and see what happens.

Tomorrow is another busy day with work. I also have a Relay for Life meeting for team captains and committee members. We are very excited about getting things up and running. Elisabeth is going with me so that we can announce Belk is having a team this year. How exciting! This week is crazy busy with events! I am also going to Moody on Tuesday night to speak at their Relay meeting. Please pray that I can make it through that.

One year ago Avery's wish trip ended. It was in the Orlando airport bathroom that she told me "mommy I'm never telling Cade about Jack and never telling Jack about Cade!" That is when I thought I would loose it laughing but held it together to say to her "that is ok Avery you have two very special friends!" I then told her Daddy "we are in for it if she has already figured this out at four years of age!" Oh she kept us laughing. She had the best sense of humor. I miss her so much. It is Halloween time and while there are no decorations or candy at our house this year the neighborhood seems to be decorated more than ever. I think of what would she be this year and how many parties would we be going to, how would school be going for her, how would we be surviving her going to school? There is not a day that goes by that I don't ponder upon some questions and wish I would wake up from this terrible night mare to see her smiling face looking at me and hear her say "silly mommy I'm right here!"

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . Gene Ann

October 25, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok, I'll just say that I really got my feelings hurt at work today. I will not go into the details but I am trying really hard to get over it. All I can say is I am trying to do two jobs and something has got to give soon because I don't really know what job I need to do when. I am told one thing by one person, something totally different by another and my poor ASM doesn't even know what to do with me. I am also an emotional wreck knowing that tomorrow marks the sixth month without Avery. Everything I have to do reminds me of her. Everywhere I look I see her. I hear a screaming child and I start to cry. So I snapped today! I should not have snapped but it has been building for some time now.

Ok, so I had a great call with a store manager from Cape Coral Florida today. We are working on our presentation for the meeting in Charlotte. I really enjoyed talking to her and can't wait to meet her. She really helped to take the edge off of my mood. If I had not talked to her for an hour I think I would have cried more than I did. Some people are just insensitive and don't think before they speak. We got our presentation done and I emailed it so we would be in before the deadline.

Congratulations Alyson and Jeremy on the arrival of baby Emma Kate. She was born yesterday at 10:59 am. She weighed 8 pounds 5 ounces and was 19 and half inches long.

Ok so I decided after the lunch breaks were over (I skipped mine) I was going to see if I could go home early. I left at 3:45 for the day. There were 5 of us in fragrance and well I was the first one in this morning. I haven't got to see but two games this year in there entirity. Well, first I went to see baby Emma. Baby Emma is beautiful. They should go home tomorrow. Then Jennie and Charlie asked me to come over and eat dinner with them. Pilot enjoyed playing with Angel. We had a great time. ROLL TIDE!!!!

One year ago was another magical day. We went with the Roderick family to the Magic Kingdom. I will never forget as long as I live how happy Avery was. I can still see her holding hands with Jack and sitting with him on It's a Small World. She watched him the entire ride. She would look at us and just beam! Today would have been Jack and Avery's first anniversary. They got married that night in the villa after all of the festivities. I remember Christmas at the Village and how magical it was. Avery kept saying "it's noing mommy. . . look at the no. . . . when do we have to leave. . . . . I don't want this trip to ever end!" It was the trip of a life time! I am so so happy that we went when we did. I am so happy that she got to experience everything that she did. I am so happy that we got to share in all we did with her. I am so happy to have all of the memories that we have. I will treasure those memories forever.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner (please continue to pray for him and his family), Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever today . . . . . . . . Gene Ann

March 24, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was another long day. We have several events coming up and it is taking so much phone calling and running around to get them done. Thank goodness I got off early tonight. I purchased a ticket for Dan and I for the Halloween Howl. It benefits the Autauga County Community Foundation. They always give Camp Smile a Mile a grant and until this year Avery has always gone and accepted the grant.

I have been really excited about going. There is a $5000 draw down, band, costume contest it all sounds like so much fun. Well, Dan got a ticket to the game in Knoxville so he decided to go on up and spend the night. I guess he will be a Bama fan before too long. He has been to more games in the last year than I have in the past 10 years. Anyway, Salem said he would go but he had a few errands to take care of first. Well, long story short I ended up going by myself. No one wanted to go. I knew that once I got there I would know most every one there so I went. Wow! That took a lot for me to do that. Ok so I walked in and almost walked out. As a small child my older brother was a huge Kiss fan. He would have posters on his wall and well I was terrified of them! I guess those fears came back as I walked in and saw a group of guys dressed exactly like KISS. It was scary for a minute. I did feel uncomfortable for a little bit being by myself but then I saw so many people that I knew. I really had a great time and my number stayed in for a long time in the draw down. I was one of only 25 left out of over 250. It was fun and we will definitely be there next year. I am thinking as Shrek and Fiona.

Speaking of Fiona today marks the day that Avery fell in love with Jack. Today was the anniversary of meeting the Roderick family for the very first time. Of course Avery and Jack were instant friends. Erin could not understand why her Jack was playing with another girl. We also went to Universal Studios Islands of Adventure. It was great! Avery loved Suess Land. She also loved Popeye's Boat. There was a big Blues Clues party at the Village when we got back. She thought that was pretty cool. I loved looking at the scrapbook and remembering all of these special times. I think I will go to bed now so I can dream of Avery.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner (please continue to pray for him and his family), Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

October 23, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok so today was a very long day! It was yucky, raining and cold. But I survived. I decided to go in early today. I had baked a red velvet cake for Joanne for her birthday and wanted to deliver it in time for break. I was not scheduled to come in until noon but decided why not go in and take care of a few things. Good thing I did this because no one was covering fragrance this morning. It was a scheduling error but we managed to fix it.

As I walked in this morning I thought OH NO! Everyone was standing at the door the store had just opened and there they all were. About the time I rounded the corner to put the cake on Joanne's desk I heard someone yell "they are here!" The big corporate visit. They had arrived. I put the cake down as fast as possible and went to man the fragrance counter. Whew!

The visit went well and now the managers can have some much needed time off which they all deserve. I know I really enjoyed my two days in a row. Now, we had an event on Thursday night that did not go over very well. Three main reasons were the weather, Best Buy's Grand opening at 5:00 pm and Auburn playing on television. Ok, so that is what I am attributing it to. I sent out the invites and told everyone that I know about the event. Anyway it made for a really long day!

I am really missing Avery this week. I am very emotional at times and well I'm just really sad. It was hard to get going this morning. There are days that I have to make myself get up and get ready. I just want to sleep because that is when I dream of us all being together again. I use to sleep so little and now I could sleep all of the time because the dreams are so wonderful! I see Avery dancing and doing things she never was able to do. We play, hug, dance, sing it is wonderful. Then I have to get up and face reality. I'll say it again Cancer Sucks!

This morning before going to work while I was getting ready there was a knock at the door. It was the fedex man with a package for me. I opened it to find the most wonderful scrapbook ever! It was Avery's wish trip scrapbook. Mrs. Jesika has finished it and shipped it just in time. I sat for a minute amazed as I looked at the beautiful pictures remembering every little detail. What a wonderful tribute! Then I looked back to see where we were one year ago. We went to Epcot for the day. Avery enjoyed riding Nemo and Donald Duck (the Three Cabalaro's). She loved meeting all of the characters. She really enjoyed playing in the water until Daddy let her get splashed in the face. We had a great time again!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner (please continue to pray for him and his family they are still unsure of what he has and have ruled out Ewing's Sarcoma he now has a website www.caringbridge.org/visit/redhead), Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . Gene Ann

October 22, 2008

Hello Everybody,

This week has been hard for me. I am so emotional. I miss Avery so much and when I think back to where we were one year ago I feel so empty. We were having the time of our lives (all of us). I'm so grateful for those memories but it is so hard. Avery has been on my mind for several days now. She has been on Grandmother mind and Uncle Sammy's too. We have all really missed her this week. So this afternoon on my way to church I stopped by to visit. As I drove up it was like she was saying "hey mommy I just wanted you to see it. . . . they put down the sod. . . . . .my special place you come and visit is pretty now!" That is what I heard as I stopped for a second to tell her how pretty it was and how much I miss her but for her to have fun. I also asked her to watch over Jesika and her family.

I've had two days off and I must say I am more tired than when I work. I got a few things accomplished around here but not everything that I wanted to get done. Hopefully I can get to those things over the weekend.

Today I went to Publix's to buy groceries. I must say it was a great experience. Going in where I have never been before (grand opening day) not knowing the staff. I will probably start shopping there. The other night I was buying groceries at Food World where me and Avery always went and the boy that bagged my stuff asked me if my little girl was at home. They all still remember her and sometimes that is so hard.

Tonight I helped at church. I had to be at choir practice early to work on the tenor/soprano duet for the Christmas musical. It is harder than I thought it would be. Hopefully a couple of weeks and I will have it. It is different practicing with the piano and not the tape. Oh well, maybe I can get it together. After that was choir practice. We had a good rehearsal. Jennie and I decided to walk tonight. We got in three miles. In talking with Mrs. Pam tonight she says we are ready for 8 miles now. We are going to try doing that next week. If she says we can do it then we can do exactly that.

So one year ago today was the most perfect Princess Day ever. (Date wise but day wise it was on a Monday) We got up early headed to the Magic Kingdom for Bibidi Bobidi Boutique. Avery decided on Sleeping Beauty. We rode as many rides as we could then took a break to watch Story Time with Belle. We had lunch in the castle with all of the Princesses. Avery took a nap in the wish lounge. Then we rode a ride or two and headed back to Give Kids the World Village. I remember how she could not wait to find Mayor Clayton to give him a hug, let him see her all fixed up and then she said to him "thank you for the pillow fight last night!" My heart melted and still does just remembering how appreciative she was and always so sweet.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner (please continue to pray for him and his family he will undergo surgery in the morning at 7 to see what can be done), Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Never ever take for granted one second spent with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . Gene Ann

October 21, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a fairly good day. I didn't get everything accomplished that I wanted to but did a gent a good dent in most things. Maybe by being off tomorrow I can finish most everything. I did manage to get a much needed haircut. I also met with Christen from the American Caner Society and completed my Relay for Life training. Dan got two home cooked meals today (something he hasn't had in quite a while).

Tonight Pam and I walked. We did something I have never done before and this is walk to the Post Office. We walked all over the neighborhood walking almost 5 miles. When I clocked it we ended up walking 4.7 miles. It was a good walk. It took us about an hour and fifteen minutes. If I can keep this up I will be at pacing and distance by the first of the year. My goal is still to be at 8 miles or more by Christmas. After tonights walk I know I will make it in March.

While walking tonight I received a call from Jesika. She and her family are in urgent need of your prayers. Her nephew Conner was hurting really bad in his chest on Friday and well long story short it was thought to be pneumonia but after further testing they are almost sure that it is stage 3 Ewings Sarcoma. It is already eating away at the bones in his rib cage. He is 12 and lives in Oklahoma. Wednesday morning he will be admitted to Children's Hospital in Oklahoma to meet with the radiation team and hemoc team. Further testing will be done and a plan will be set into motion. Please pray that this is not as bad as they have prepared them for and that he has a total recovery. Please pray for Jesika and Leyana as they travel to Oklahoma. Please pray for the entire family to give them peace, patience and understanding. Please pray for a miracle for this family. I will keep you all posted on the developments.

One year ago today was a very memorable day. It was the day that little Princess Fiona (Avery) met the real Princess Fiona. It was the day that Princess Fiona met Barney. It was the day that Princess Fiona decided she didn't like E.T. at all (until she watched the movie months later). It was the day that most every dream came true that she had ever dreamed. It was a day filled with more magic than I can even begin to describe. Oh, how I would go back to that day but hey I can I have the most wonderful memories. I will treasure those memories for the rest of my life!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Conner, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever before today. . . . . Gene Ann

October 20, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok so I got several things done before work today. As I was doing some of those things I was remembering yesterday and how the children's choir sang at both services in church. It is those times that I have to fight back the tears. It is then that I realize what I am missing out on. I see all of the parents with their video cameras taping their children and all of those times are over for me and Dan. We have five years of memories and that is it. Although we managed to pack in as much as possible in those five years we will still never see somethings that most all parents experience. For instance kindergarten graduation, first loose tooth, first visit from the tooth fairy . . . I could go on and on but you get the picture. Each day is so very hard. Today when I got the mail there it was the American Girl doll catalog. I couldn't do anything but cry. Oh how we loved looking at that catalog together. It would keep her busy for hours. She never really wanted anything she just like looking at the babies. I could not wait to get her the look alike one but was waiting on her to get a little bigger. When we were in California in February of 2007 we visited the American Girl Doll store and then we discovered that it was just too heavy for her. So we got a bitty twin doll. Grandmother purchased the bitty twins one for Avery and one for Lydie. I will always treasure that trip and all of the things that we did with Avery. We were so blessed to have her for the length of time that we had her for and we will continue to do all of things that she would want us to do.

Work was good. We managed to get a few things taken care of and some plans made. I worked on the floor most of the day today. Again it is hard playing two roles right now. I am trying to make my sales goals, credit goals which are not going very well seeing how I have other things to concentrate on right now. I know that once the events settle down I will hit all of my goals.

Right after work I decided to go and buy groceries so that Dan would have something for breakfast and lunch tomorrow. I am off for two days so having groceries in the house would be a good thing. I had planned to go and visit with Grandmother and Granddaddy but Grandmother is sick and Granddaddy is at a golf outing that he attends every year. I am trying to talk Grandmother into coming here but I don't think she feels much like traveling. I have so many things that need doing so I will stay around here. I will be off the second weekend of November and will go visit then.

Next Tuesday I have been asked to speak at the Moody Relay for Life kick off meeting. Please begin to pray that I can make it through this. Also, we are working on our cookbook and we need recipes! The deadline has been extended to November 1st. If you would like to submit a recipe the cost is $5 per recipe. The cookbooks will be ready for Christmas. If you would like additional information just send me an e-mail.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . .Gene Ann

October 19, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was my first Sunday to work. I got up got ready went to church then sang in the choir for the 11:00 am service. After choir I ran home for a minute. From there it was grab a quick bite to eat and straight for the store. Today was not as busy as we had hoped to be but we did manage to get some things done.

We were later leaving tonight than normal. It took a while to put the ladies department back together. I never realized how messed up a department gets during a fairly busy day. I have always been one to hang the things that don't work back up and place them back where I got them from. This is obviously not the norm.

Once home Dan and I went to Mexico Tipico for dinner. It was nice to sit down and enjoy a good meal. He worked all day today from home and the minute he swallowed his last bite he was ready to go home so he could finish his project. I was ready for bed but there was laundry to do first.

Tomorrow I work from 1-9:30. I have several things to do in the morning to get ready for a few events. This week I am off Tuesday and Wednesday. I can't wait to get off of my feet or at least be able to wear shoes that don't hurt my feet. I am still looking for that perfect pair. Oh the price we women pay for looking good.

We both miss Avery so much. Each day is such a challenge without her. Every minute we are reminded of something she either did or said. One year ago we were on our wish trip. I am so happy that we went when we did. She was so happy and truly enjoyed every second of her special trip. She was such a trooper. Hopefully this week we can update pictures again.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . . . .Gene Ann

October 18, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was so busy! We opened at 9 am this morning. The first 100 in the door got gift cards. It was crazy! Before we could turn around good all of the little divas were wanting line up and the event didn't start until 11:00 am. We finally told them to start lining up at 10:30 but by 10:15 we already had our line formed. The girls were ready! I had two teenage helpers coming but they were late getting there. They had an event in the morning that took longer than planned. Once they got here I was able to take care of a few other things like getting the bridal event going.

Both events were good. We had fun and managed to create a little excitement in the store. Ok, so I asked the girls to scream as loud as they could to start the event so that everyone in the store would know we were having fun! It worked! As a matter of fact Dennis and Salem looked at each other and said "it must have started!" They were in the other end of the store from where we were. It was so much fun and yes terribly hard at times. Each child in some way reminded me of Avery. How she would have loved this event and would have talked about it for days or even weeks. Asking when we were going back to that cool place. Oh how I miss her. How very hard each day is without her. How I long to hear that funny little laugh and hear those cute little things she would say. I miss my baby girl so much. I don't miss the chemo, the clinic visits the pain. I miss her but I am so very happy that she is pain free now and playing in heaven with all of her buddies. On another note I know without a doubt that she is helping Alabama win their games this year. How else do you explain it?

I managed to make it home shortly into the third quarter of the game. Pilot was happy to see me. Dan had gone to watch the game with some friends. He left really early so poor Pilot had been stuck inside all day. She was ready to go outside and then play.

Dan came home sometime after the game. He stayed to watch the ending of another game. Once he got home I decided I was ready for a life time movie. A new one premiered tonight and it was wonderful. I just thought of Avery the whole movie because it was about cancer even though it was breast cancer doesn't all cancer suck! Tomorrow is my first Sunday to work. I will be closing but at least I go in at 12:30 so I will be able to attend church and sing in the choir. I don't mind that as long as I can make it to church.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Make tomorrow an ice cream cone breakfast. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever today. . . . . Gene Ann

October 17, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I'll just say that today was a long day! I was scheduled to get off at 6:00pm but was still steaming table clothes at 6:40 pm. When I left however Diva Day and the Bridal event were set and ready for tomorrow. We stressed Salem out over not being set by noon but we got it done. Now I know that he likes for events to be set by noon the day before an event. This is where communication is a good thing. I like communication! But don't stress out over something that hasn't been communicated.

Tonight I met Dan and everyone from his office at Wings for dinner. Amy is leaving and going back home so we had a nice going away party. We will all miss her very much!

After that I headed for home seeing how it was after 10:00 pm and I need to be at work by 7:30 in the morning. Ok, so Pilot got me up at 2:30 to take her outside. It reminded me of those nights that Avery would wake me up in the middle of the night needing to go potty. I never minded those nights but having to go outside at that time is another story.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Cherish every second of every day with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . .Gene Ann

October 16, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was another busy day. I have been so busy lately that I have to find the time to take care of the house. Dan has worked from the office in Montgomery all week so that has been good seeing that I am so busy. Last night was hard leaving the store knowing that Susie would not be there today. We are going to miss her.

Ok, so today was one of those days where I was pulled into so many different directions. I managed though. There are those days that I wish I knew exactly what it is I am suppose to do. I guess I will figure it out soon. Oh, I got some good news yesterday. . . .well I think it was yesterday. . . .anyway I have been asked to attend the managers meeting in Charlotte to give a presentation on community relations (what we have done and how we did it). Salem and I will going the first part of November. This is really a big honor and I can't wait to showcase our success!

After work I made to line-dancing. We worked on a new one. I got such a good work out that I didn't walk tonight. I needed a night to put my feet up and rest. I remember Dan coming in but that is about all.

Tomorrow is non stop again. We have to get ready for all of the big events on Saturday. Diva Day for girls 12 and under then the Bridal event. Diva Day is going to be hard for me but I know with your prayers and mine I will make it.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy today. . . . .Gene Ann

October 15, 2008

Hello Everybody,

WOW! We had another busy incredible day. Grand Opening was wonderful. Another non stop day for the most part. It was great meeting the event coordinator from corporate. The hardest part of the day was leading Belkie Bear around. I thought I was going to loose it one time when a sweet little girl walked up to Belkie to hug him and gave him a kiss on the nose. That was so something that Avery would have done. It brought back so many memories. Yet again I made it through the day. Some days are easier than others the hard days well we will just say lots of prayers get me through those days.

This was another one of those days that I didn't stop all day. Before I could turn around good it was time to be at church. I was late but that didn't matter. After supper I ran home to check on Pilot. She was ready for a walk. She also wanted to run and play. We played until time for me to go back for choir practice. Choir was good. We are working hard on our Christmas music.

Jennie, Pam and I went for a long walk after choir practice. It was just cool enough the weather could not have been any more perfect. It is always nice to have someone to walk with. The training is coming along. As long as the weather continues to hold out I will continue to walk the neighborhood. I am also thinking about walking the new shopping center. The hills look like a nice challenge. Once I can walk 13 miles I will start to work on running. Right now I am trying to concentrate on endurance.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever today . . . . . . .Gene Ann

October 14, 2008

Hello Everybody,

So much for being off today. I have been running around and ended up being gone all day. I started off this morning picking up Pilot. Oh, I forgot to share that story with you all last night. I was so tired that I left out part of my day. I had a committee meeting for Relay for Life. Sitting in the meeting I realized that I forgot to go and get Pilot from the pet condos. It hit me an hour after the place closed. How could I forget Pilot!

Ok, so I picked up Pilot and dropped her off back at the house. From there I went to Mom's Day out to pick up cookbooks. I went into Avery's classroom which was very hard. I sat in a little chair to see our little friend Colton (Cade's little brother). He just kept smiling. While Mrs. Lynn was getting the books Mrs. Avery had the kids sing me a pumpkin song. As hard as it was I made it through and felt so good the rest of the day. I know that Avery is in that classroom daily helping them. I could so feel her presence and know that she would want me to be there.

After that I headed toward the store. I had so many little things to get done. The next few weeks are filled with so many special events. I took care of most everything that needed my attention. I left for a bit to go get my hair taken care of for the big event. Then I went and picked up the last minute grocery items for lunch tomorrow. The store is treating the associates to lunch for Grand Opening. I delivered the items back to the store and decided that it was 4:30 I would call it a day.

Once home I tried to do as much as possible. I worked on laundry and other things trying to make the most of my time. Susie's last day will be tomorrow. We are so going to miss her. We decided to try the Catfish House one more time before she left. We went and it was yummy as always. Once I got back home I decided to walk. I am managing three to four days a week right now. But hopefully when things settle down at work and on the social front I can get back to six and seven nights. My goal is to be at a good 8 miles (easily) by Christmas. I know I can make it I just have to believe and work hard. Don't forget the Grand Opening tomorrow at 9:30. Stop by and check out the new store.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Cherish every minute you have with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . .Gene Ann

October 13, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Wow, what a day! I got up early and started a few things around the house then got ready and headed for work. I went in did a few things and then went home to finish up some things and firm up some things for the bridal event. It should be good for our first one. FYI Avery is in this months issue of "Birmingham Magazine." I stopped by Books a Million this morning and picked up every copy they had. It is a picture from our wish trip last October. She is with Sleeping Beauty and of course Avery had been to the Bibidi Bobidi Boutique so she was dressed as Sleeping Beauty too. The article is about an organization that donates money to several children's charities. I had sent pictures to Magic Moments last year after the trip with our journal and thank you note. A few months ago they contacted me to see if they could donate a picture of Avery to be auctioned off at a special event. How wonderful it was to see her picture and to know that she is still doing her very special work from heaven and that her memory is still strong and very much alive!

Ok work was good. We are opening today and tomorrow for soft opening. Grand Opening is Wednesday and then it will be regular hours from now on. We have two special events on Saturday. Next weekend I will be working both Saturday and Sunday. I told Dan to get use to the fact that he might not see much of me until after the holidays. His reply was for me to get a real job 8-5 with no weekends. I just had to laugh because I'm loving this!

Dan is working from the office in Montgomery all week. This I think will be good for him to get out of the house and to see people. Once home from work I grabbed a quick bite and then went for a walk. I think I got in three miles. I was really tired and ready for a break so I didn't push myself. In the next week or so I am going to step it up to 4 and 5 miles at least 4 nights a week.

I am off tomorrow but have to go in and make sure things are secure for Grand Opening. The ribbon cutting is at 9:30 and we are giving away gift cards to the first 200 in the doors. They range from $5 to $5000. It is going to be an exciting day!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

October 12, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I made it to church today. I was a little late but with Dan and Pilot both gone it was very hard to get going. My feet had throbbed all night from being on them all day so I took advantage of having the house all to myself. I sang in the choir and after choir helped set up for the event this afternoon.

Once we got everything all set up I decided to vaccum the fellowship hall. After that I had to run to the grocery store pick up a few things and rush right home to prepare my dips for the afternoon fellowship at church. By this time it was time to go and set up the food. So back to church I went.

We got it all out and I decided to run back home and cook dinner. We invited Charlie, Jennie and Susie for dinner tonight. I cooked dinner and then went back to the church to help clean up. When I got home I had about 30 minutes to spare. I finished up set the table and we were ready to eat shortly after everyone arrived.

We had a great meal and the fellowship was even better. Susie only has a few days left here and we are all going to miss her so much. I will really miss her! I have learned so much from her and really dread seeing her leave. But I will be taking a trip to Shreveport to visit.

By this time it was time to get ready for another busy work day tomorrow. I have to go in and follow-up on Grand Opening, Diva Day and the Bridal event. Oh goodness I hope it all comes together. The next few weeks are crucial to special events. I will be busier than normal.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy today. . . . .Gene Ann

October 11, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was incredible! I don't think I stopped for more than five minutes all day. Ok, I learned very valuable lessons on shoes today. High fashion, NO, comfort YES! Hopefully after today this information will sink in.

Today was such a success on so many levels. It has been so exciting seeing all of this come together. I am loving every minute of the job (even when my feet hurt I'm still loving it all). I think I walked five miles or more today. There is so much that has to be done and today was no different from any other except that we were open. There were over one hundred people waiting to get in today. The ladies shoe department looked like the day after Thanksgiving several times today. What a day!

Dan went to the Auburn game today. One of his buddies had an extra ticket so off he went. He will probably spend the night in Auburn tonight. Wow, Pilot is gone, Dan will be gone. . . how wonderful a peaceful house to go home to after a painfully busy day. The best news of the day is we are still in first place between the three grand opening stores. We are actually blowing them away.

It didn't take me long to go home and get comfortable. My feet are still hurting but it is so good to get home and sit down. I am off tomorrow but have an event at church to help out with. Being busy is wonderful it makes the days go by so much faster. Oh, how I miss Avery! I really do miss Big Al and David too! They really made things interesting around here for so long.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . .Gene Ann

October 10, 2008

Hello Everybody,

What a day! It was wonderful. The presentation went well. They were all very pleased with our efforts. I am so thankful for being given the opportunity to showcase our public relations plan. I by no means did this alone. I had so much help.

The soft opening also went very well. When I left for the day we were first place again. This is wonderful! I hope that it stays this way for the next few weeks.

Today was a tough day at times. Everybody is so tired and well you all know how it gets when it gets that way. Lets just say emotions are running wild and the tension is so thick that I don't think you could cut through it if you tried. I decided to stop by McDonald's and pick up cookies for all of the managers. I was out returning rentals and it just seemed like a good thing to do for everyone. I hope it helped! My oatmeal raisin cookie made me smile! Oh, you know how Avery loved her cookie breaks well I do too!

Tonight Charlie, Jennie, Susie, Dan and myself went to Cobbs Ford Bar and Grill for dinner. It was so nice getting out and having a nice meal. Wow, that was two nights this week that Dan and I had dinner together. One day our schedules will be on the same page (doubtful but maybe). He has been working so much lately.

Tomorrow is the Charity Day Sale! I will be working most all day so I boarded Pilot yesterday for the weekend. I will pick her up on Monday. Grandmother had to go home last night after the VIP party. I was so hoping that she could stay another day but Granddaddy wanted her to come home. Maybe she can stay longer next time.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever today. . . . .Gene Ann

October 9, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Tonight is the night! This morning started early at the computer compiling a power point presentation. Thank goodness Dan was here! He didn't go out of town after all. He helped me get the presentation together. It has been four and a half years since I had to do anything like this and I'm slow. The talking part is not a problem but the tech stuff is. It is done now and looks great! I'm ready.

Once at the office I didn't stop! Let me see I picked up the beer, wine and wine glasses. We set up tables, moved them four or five times until we got them right where we wanted them. Oh, I could go on and on but I will not bore you all with the details.

I finally got a break, changed, turned around and it was time for it all to begin. It was incredible. I must say much bigger than I anticipated. We were all very pleased! Now for the best part of the night we beat the other two stores that are opening. We are in first place and the competition is heating up for Saturday's Charity Day Sale. I know we will be first again! Everybody has worked so hard. The store is beautiful! We are all tired but the rewards of seeing it all come to life is so rewarding.

Tomorrow is another busy day. We will be having a working lunch presenting what we have done to Johnny Belk. We are going to be open tomorrow for soft opening as well. How much fun this has been. Hard work but fun work. We have the best staff anywhere!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . .Gene Ann

October 8, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Busy, Busy, Busy! Just when you think you got it all done think again. Ok, so today I put in a few hours helping out on the floor when I wasn't taking calls and running errands. Today was the first day that I really got nervous about everything. Well, I have been having those nightmares where no one shows up to all of the events but that is so normal for me. I know everything will be ready and fabulous.

Grandmother got here today just in time for supper at church. We enjoyed visiting with everybody. Supper was very good. After that we went to Lowe's to pick up a thing or two. By that time it was time for choir practice. Tonight was the start of the Christmas musical practice. It is going to be great! We just have many hours of practice ahead of us.

After choir we decided to all go for a walk. Pam decided to join us for our walk. Well, Pam and I ran off and left poor Jennie and Grandmother. We took a totally different route walking to the nursing home. I might mention at this point that is quite a walk and seemed to be uphill both ways. Jennie and Grandmother took the short route and were sitting visiting when I got back. I have no idea how many miles I put in but it was quite the walk (I enjoyed every minute of it too).

Oh, I left out the part of the message I had to call Salem. I talked to him around 9:00 pm and he wanted to let me know that I have to give a presentation on Friday to Johnny Belk on all of our PR and community efforts in planning for Grand Opening. Me and my big mouth asked "do you want a power point presentation or just a briefing." You all can guess what I have to get up early and do. But I do love every minute of my job.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Roy, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. How about ice cream cones for breakfast tomorrow (sounds good to me)? Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

October 7, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a very busy day off. It just started a little later than usual. Dan was grateful that I didn't have to get up early and we both took advantage of sleeping in past 7. Of course once we both got up it didn't slow down until much later in the day. Believe it or not Pilot didn't even get up early she allowed us to sleep.

I spent an hour or so on the computer with work stuff. Then I decided to go for a morning walk to take advantage of the park. While walking I took two business calls. I kept walking while talking. I did about three miles maybe a little more. Once I got back in I decided to get ready and yes, head to the store.

I got to Belk around 11:00 am. Immediately I was told to go to accessories and help out. I was only there to meet with the bartender though so quickly I was told ok. Well, it took longer than planned and I ended up working two hours. However we got it all worked out for the big event on Thursday night. Whew, the little things that add up to make huge things!

After that I decided to go and visit with Avery. Although I don't go everyday I pass by everyday. Today I decided to stop and sit for a while. This is still so hard. We still have to order her marker but just can't seem to find what we are looking for. I have beautiful flowers for when we get it in. Oh, I miss her so very much. It is so hard some days to find the joy she made each day so special. This afternoon the house was so quiet (even Pilot). Those are the times that are most sad. The laughter is not here anymore. The excitement that she put into our days are gone as well. I pray each day for the strength to get through another day without her.

I cooked a special dinner tonight for Dan. We ate together which doesn't happen very often. Before eating I had to go to PetSmart to get Pilot a new collar. She chewed hers off the other day. I have been using one of those that they give you at the vet that is a leash and collar in one. She doesn't like it and runs from it when I get it out. She was very happy to get a new squeaky ball. The last few she had deactivated the squeek as soon as you give it to her. She is still up chasing her soccer ball through the house. The hardest part of going to PetSmart is seeing all of the new ensambles they had for Pilot. You know Avery would have insisted on at least one ensamble and a Halloween costume for her Pilot. I am still debating on whether to dress her up for Halloween or not. I know she will just chew up whatever I put on her.

Tomorrow Dan has to go to Tennessee for a day or two. Grandmother is coming to stay while he is gone and to go to the VIP after hours on Thursday night. I am so glad that she is coming. I have really missed Grandmother and Granddaddy. They haven't been down in a really long time. They have been busy getting everything moved out of both houses and into the little house. Down sizing can be a good thing. Hopefully I will have a weekend off before long and can go visit them.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever today. . . . .Gene Ann

October 6, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Sweet 16 Shelby. We hope that you have a wonderful day filled with many surprises! We love you and are very proud of you.

Today was another busy day! It has been busy from start to finish. We laugh though because everytime I don't have something going on right then I am sent to the floor to help. The minute I get to floor I am called within five minutes to go do something else. It is very frustrating at times but very funny. It is like make up your minds already!

I had several errands to run and goodie bags to make. After a quick lunch break I began running errands again so I dropped lunch off to Dan who had not been out of the office or away from the computer since I left. Poor Pilot was doing a dance to go outside so I took her quickly. Then it was back to work.

Dan was suppose to go to Atlanta tonight but decided to stay home. He went out for a little bit to get out of the house and work on the house plans. He came in all excited about "HIS" perfect house. Not once has he said "our" house it is all his. Well, I was told that I got no say so in things so I didn't much want to look at the plans. It just took the fun out of it for me. For this one reason alone is why I do not want to build a house!

I did manage to walk while he was gone. It was a nice walk however I borrowed his mp3 player and it was hard to find music I liked. Everytime I got to going really good the ear piece fell out. I guess it is time to go and get my own. I have only missed one night since I started walking and I walked in the store possibly enough to make up for that. Please continue to pray for Jesika and myself as we train.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much today. . . . .Gene Ann

October 5, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Anniversary Grandmother and Granddaddy! We love you both and hope you have a wonderful day.

Wow, this is the first year in several probably 5 that we have not been with Grandmother and Granddaddy on their anniversary. Some how either Avery would be in the hospital, having an MRI or taking us on a trip. Last year we were in Memphis then we spent a day or two with Grandmother and Granddaddy. Oh those were the good times. We had to rush back on Monday so we could get things ready for Mother's Day Out. How Avery loved everything she did. She was such a big girl!

Today I went to church and then sang in the choir. After church I rushed home to start laundry and cleaning. At some point I went to the grocery store. I cooked dinner then went with Jennie for a nice walk. The weather is perfect now for afternoon walks. I am hoping to start walking in the morning and afternoon soon. As soon as my schedule slows down just a bit. I have got to start working on endurance then I will start running. I probably need another month or two before I do that.

Dan and his dad worked on the corvette again. They took it for a test drive and it is really loud. There is no exhaust on the car right now so I'm glad he warned me before he cranked it up! You should have seen poor Pilot jump when he started the car. You would have thought she had been shot. Poor Pilot! She has been pretty good lately.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

October 4, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Another busy day! Today was crazy with little things to do. First I had to arrange a pizza party for our lunch break. Then I had to drive to Montgomery to pick up a load from the Eastdale store. Then it was stop here and there to pick up different things we needed. When I got back it was time to set up for the pizza party.

But wait the pizzas weren't here and well they were late. I called and well needless to say we will not be ordering from this particular place again. Although I handled it well it was a mess!

Dan got tickets to the game. He met up with someone that works with him but in Tennessee. Yes, they went to cheer for Kentucky. How messed up is that! I will say it for Avery "ROLLLLLL TIDE!" How could anyone pull against Avery's favorite team. I got a little emotional after the game when they showed Big Al. It was always the thing to yell "There's Big Al!" I did this without even thinking then started sobbing. Oh, how I miss that little bundle of sunshine! I really miss Big Al and David around here. They made our lives so entertaining for so many years. I remember last year when she would call Big Al on the cell phone and just talk to him. She would come up with the funniest stories about Big Al and David. Oh the imagination she had.

I cooked some dinner ate and then watched the Auburn game. Pilot and I were napping when Dan got in from the game. He seemed to have had a good time. He said it was hard going and sitting where we always sat with Avery. I just can't imagine!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . . Gene Ann

October 3, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was another busy day! The good news is I graduated from Belk University today. As we graduate we put our handprint on the break room wall. Well, I am officially hand printed, autographed and graduated. I helped out with the fit class this morning. This afternoon was register practice. It's not as bad as I thought it would be. Hopefully it will not take long to catch on after we open.

Tonight a group of us decided to go to the catfish house. I called Jennie and she met us there. Dan had gone out so a girls night was just what I needed. It was yummy as usual. Afterward Jennie and I went walking. We did almost two miles and decided to catch up on Days. We were both so tired that we only made it through one episode before we decided to call it a night.

When Dan got home Pilot and I were sound asleep on the couch (our favorite spot). We got up early went to bed but Dan decided to stay up and catch up on some of his shows. Tomorrow is another busy day. I have to work 8-5 hopefully we will finish early. I know that I have to run errands for work tomorrow and no telling what else.

Just thinking back to one year ago. This was a very special weekend for us. Grandmother, Avery and myself went to Memphis for the weekend. We attended the holiday shopping market on Saturday and then met Fairy Jelena and her family. One year ago tonight was when I went to the Germantown Commissary for to pick up dinner and was the first time we ever heard "whoa, whoa, whoa. . . .did you say caramel cake. . . .that is what I'll have. . . . she said caramel cake!" That was the first time Avery tried onion rings and well she ate caramel cake for dinner. She was happy and we were too. It was a wonderful weekend that will be remembered forever. I am so thankful that we took the time to make this trip happen. Grandmother and I refer to this trip and one if not our very favorite trip ever!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

October 2, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a much better day! I made up my mind that nothing was going to get me down. I went in and did what I do! I made things happen (well tried to anyway). I was scheduled for POS practice after lunch but things ended up getting shifted around.

Everything is crazy and I never know what I will doing. Today was one of those days. They decided that even though I will be in fragrance that I should learn to become a fit specialist (bra fitting). Ok, I don't know why but that was decided for some unknown reason. Well, I went through the training and now I am certified as well as I am the official trainer for the store on this particular subject. Now, that is enough on that subject.

The rest of the day was extremely busy. After work I stopped by the house to cook dinner for Dan. I also made him a pan of chicken parmasean for the next few days lunch. I cooked ate a bite or two and left again. It was time for toastmasters. It was another very short meeting. I made it to line-dancing just in time. On the way to line-dancing I decided I was not going to walk tonight however after dancing that changed. I decided that I was so pumped up that I might as well get in a mile. It was a little over a mile and that was all I had in me. I went inside to catch up on Days but fell fast asleep (I don't know if I finished Days or not).

Dan and his dad worked on the corvette again tonight. They don't like much finishing it. Then he will be looking for another project. Tonight he didn't believe me that I had walked almost a mile and a half in twenty minutes. He said that I needed to re-clock it because there is no way. Well, sometime in the next day or two I will re-clock it and then I am going to go and buy a pedometer. Obviously he has not seen me in action at work. No one can keep up with me walking. It was very hard when Avery started walking for me to slow down. I guess he doesn't remember how he would yell at me to slow down and not make Avery walk so fast. Well, I'm now back to full speed ahead with a special angel sitting on my shoulder most days. I know when she is there.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Erin came home last night from ICU. They seem to have a plan in place so check out her website for details. Janna got a good MRI report! Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . . Gene Ann

October 1, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy October! I hope everyone had a wonderful day today. My day was not that great but I made the most of it and went on. Today was media day at our store and hardly any media showed up despite the many calls they received from me. It would not have been nearly as bad but our Regional VP showed up today to attend. Whoa!

Well we had a few people in attendance but not the ones that they had hoped for so I spent the rest of my morning tracking down, leaving messages and begging media people to come to our store for a sneak peek! Ohhhhh! After that I had computer based training for POS (point of sale) how to work the register. I flew through one and scored very well! By this time it was time to go to lunch. We all went to Poblano's Mexican restaurant to grab a quick bite. It was very good and I really needed the break. Seeing how I had been at work since 7:00 am it was after 12:00 pm and I had not even had a sip of anything or a bite of anything either.

After lunch I was scheduled for POS II but had to sit through a credit class first. While in class I received a message from Salem that we had a conference call at 3:00. I left class early to make the call. After the call it was back to class. Thank goodness I flew through II almost as fast as I did one. Scoring almost as well. By this time it was time to get to church.

I went straight to church for supper. The fellowship was wonderful and the supper was not too bad. I didn't really want what we had so I was bad and had a piece of carrot cake instead of chicken. I think after the day I have had I deserve to have cake first. From church I went home to change out of my dress clothes and into something much more comfortable. I took Pilot out and let her run around for a little bit. Then it was back to choir practice. We started on our Christmas music tonight it is beautiful. I can't wait to hear it all.

After choir Jennie came over and we walked. We got in a little over a mile. It was nice to have someone to walk with. I have got to get an ipod for those times I am by myself. I just haven't had the time to get one. Tomorrow is going to be very busy again. I have training left to do as well as events to finalize. Today I missed Avery so much! I just needed to see her sweet smile so badly. I carry pictures with me but they just are not the same. If ever I needed mommy's favorite part of the day it was today!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Erin (she went in for dental work on Monday and ended up in the ICU with breathing issues, she has a paralyzed vocal chord). Please pray that all goes well and they go home soon. Please pray for me and Jesika that we find the endurance, strength and peace to train and finish our half marathon in March. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Have dessert first and think of Avery (I did). Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy today. . . . . .Gene Ann

September 30, 2008

Hello Everybody,

No problem getting out of bed today. If anything line-dancing has really helped with that. Now for the drum roll please. . . . I walked 1.7 miles last night. When I clocked it this morning I could not believe that I had walked that long and wasn't even out of breath.

Today has been very busy. I had a ton of things to do. When I took my pants in to get them hemmed we decided that they needed taking up half an inch in the waist. Wow! I have a very long way to go though. Working has helped so much! Not to mention the running every day that I seem to do.

We met with the builder today and still don't know what is going to happen. Dan wants to build but we love where we are. If we build it will have to be either down the street behind the post office (which I would love) or out a little ways which would be about 15 minutes into town (maybe a little less). We will have to see what lots are available and how our plan works on them. We decided what changes we would make to this house and that is where we will go from here.

Ladies fun night was fun tonight at church. I had 3 classes which was really good. They all made a serving piece. We had a great time. I forgot my cell phone as I was leaving so I didn't know about Pilot's escape until I got back home. Some little boy stopped by to give Dan a flyer about dog walking and she got out. It took him over 20 minutes to get her back in the house. She was in time-out when I got home. I changed really quick and went for a short walk. It was really late and very dark so I didn't venture too very far. I will have to add more to tomorrow nights walk to make up for the super short walk tonight.

Speaking of tomorrow it is very busy and I have to be there at 7:00 am. I guess I better go find something to wear now. On a funny note Dan told me tonight that he would pay me to sleep in tomorrow to keep from waking him up so early. There is a thought. Hey honey I have to be at work at 7:00 am every morning even on Saturday. I wonder how much he would pay then?

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery my forever perfect princess. . . . .Gene Ann

September 29, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Whew! What a day! I got so much done but still have a ton to do . Media Day is Wednesday and then the fun doesn't stop until after grand opening. The store is coming together. Everyone has worked so hard! It is looking beautiful and I can't wait for everyone to see it all!

I had to run home on lunch today and walk Pilot. Dan was tied up most of the day on conference calls. I went home did a few things and made it back just in time. Today was a day of cosmetics. We got so much stuff in and most everyone was in training so we didn't have enough people to help out. I helped where and when I could.

We were suppose to meet with a builder tonight about building a new house. We love our house but Dan needs more garage space and I would like to actually park inside a garage. We are thinking about building almost the same house with just a few changes. We could not all meet tonight so the meeting has been changed until tomorrow afternoon.

Since the meeting had been changed I decided to run a few errands. Tomorrow night is Ladies fun Night at church. I have been asked to teach a class on how to decorate spoons (the ones with wire and beads). I need a few more spoons so that everyone can decorate and keep one. I went out on my mission finally found what I was looking for and headed home to cook dinner. We ate dinner then I decided to go for my first long training walk. First mistake I took Pilot. Second mistake I took Pilot. Third mistake I took Pilot. After making my first loop in just twenty minutes I dropped Pilot off with Dan to finish my walk and cool down. All in all a great first walk. I am thinking maybe a mile but will see tomorrow when I clock it in the car. Dan is betting that I am too sore to get out of bed tomorrow what he doesn't know is this was a very easy walk I'm not as tired as he thinks I am.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . .Gene Ann

September 28, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I got up this morning and started working trying to get caught up on laundry and everything else that is piling up. Before I could turn around good it was time to be at church. Needless to say I didn't make it this morning. This working all of the time I don't have time to keep things done.

I worked for a while then called Susie to see if she wanted to go see "The Women?" We went and had a great time. The movie was really good. Then we went to Target to pick up a thing or two. I went grocery shopping for the week. Dan is dieting so grocery shopping was very difficult. He has cut out carbs so basically it was meat, cheese, salad and well that is about it.

I got home in time to cook dinner for Dan. He wanted marinated wings and ceasar salad. As I was getting his dinner out of the oven Susie called to see if I wanted to go to dinner with she and some other visiting associates. I didn't have to hesitate it was a quick "YES!" Dinner was great! We went to Outback. I haven't been there in over a year. Once dinner was over I dropped everyone off at the Sleep Inn and headed to Jennie's to pick up Pilot. Pilot was very happy to see me. She got home and was ready to snuggle. I had several things left to do and managed to do one or two.

Tomorrow is a very busy day. The next three weeks are going to be insane. I have also been thinking and praying very hard about something that I am now ready to share with you all. Jesika sent me an e-mail the other day about a half marathon at Disney next March. It is the Princess Marathon. It is all girls! The perfect princess weekend. We have decided to do it! We are going to train then meet and run as a two person team. We are very excited about this. I know that I will be able to do this because I have one special angel watching over me. Ok, so now I have to train, loose a few pounds which I have already started on and make this all come together. I will finish! I will do this for Avery and Sophia.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . .Gene Ann

September 27, 2008

Hello Everybody,

It has been a very busy day! More so than usual. I had to work today but I didn't mind. I stayed up late last night and baked another red velvet cake. It was gone within 20 minutes of the first piece being cut. Ok, so one was not enough and now I know if I take another I have to make two.

I went home during lunch to check on Pilot. Dan went to Auburn for the game. He didn't have a ticket but some of his friends were tailgating and he wanted to go. Pilot was happy to see me and we went for a quick walk. I did a thing or two swallowed a bite or two and headed back to work. This afternoon was really busy. We sat up a table outside seeing how JC Penney soft opened this weekend we didn't want them to get a leg up on us. We got a few credit applications filled out and ready to be processed. We were also able to tell everyone when we will open. It was great seeing how many people are so excited and can't wait for us to get open.

From there I grabbed some help and headed to the golf course for the LPGA event (at Capitol Hill here in Prattville). He decided to put new store brochures on as many cars as possible. We accomplished the task with several funny stories to go back to the store with. We got back just in time to clock out and go home.

Once I got home it was time to change and head to the fish fry. I took Pilot over to play with Angel at Charlie and Jennie's. Jennie went with me to the fish fry. It was great! The fish was delicious. The fellowship was wonderful. The best part of the day/night was the Alabama game. I got home just in time to see the end of the second quarter. ROLLLLLLL TIDE! Wow what a game!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

September 26, 2008

Hello Everybody,

It seems to hard to believe that it has been five months since Avery passed away. Some days it seems like just yesterday and others it seems like years ago. We miss her so much. Today was a rough day because I noticed in the store that some Christmas decorations were up in home, the kids department is loaded with Hannah Montana clothing and well everything reminded me of her today. Oh, how I miss her!

Today was busy as usual. I was walking in the door this morning when I was stopped by the boss and asked to take care of ordering in lunch for everybody. I was told to get prices on pizzas from two or three different places then find him and we would decide what to do. Ok, this took like two hours to accomplish because pizza places don't open until after 9:30. After getting this done I was sent to the grocery store to pick up ice and drinks. By the time I got back it was time to set up get organized to feed the masses.

I got everything done and left for about 45 minutes. I had to run home and get a deposit slip so that I could go to the bank. By the time I got everything done it was time to get back. Today was cosmetic certification from 1-3. I really enjoyed this part of the training. After training I started calling media reminding them of media day which will be Wednesday of next week. Oh, what a busy day it was.

Tonight Dan and I went to Mexico Tipico for dinner. It was really good but the best part was that Esmarelda was working and took care of us. The best news I have heard lately is that they are expecting a baby due sometime in the spring. I so hope it is a girl. We enjoyed our meal and our fellowship with Vasquez family. They just passed the one year mark of life without Lyle. Oh the bond we all share that we wished we didn't share.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for our healing. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. ROLLLLLLLLL TIDE! (That was for you Avery) Until Next Time. . . . . . .Missing Avery so very much today. . . . . .Gene Ann

September 25, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Another jam packed day! I realized this morning that tomorrow morning I have to have breakfast casseroles at church baked ready to go by 6:45 am. Oh boy do I have my work cut out for me.

Today was one of those days that I was asked to do something I had not planned on doing. That was making goodie bags for visitors. Ok, I can do this. I am getting really good at this! Before I got started though I had to take back some things that I got the day before. Our budget did not allow for the items on my list so I am going to see what I can find today within the budget. I did better than I thought I would do. Thank goodness for Big Lots is about all I can say!

By the time I got all of this done it was lunch time. We decided that Moe's would be the quickest and to save time I picked up lunch and we all ate at the office. Sometimes you have to do what you can do. After lunch I got all of the gift bags done and ready to be delivered. From there it was time to get a few things done. I met with the caterer earlier in the week and we have all of that worked out for now. Now, if I can manage to find an hour or two somewhere to get a few things nailed down I would sleep much better at night.

Tonight I had Toastmasters then line-dancing. I so enjoy both of these and wish that one was on another night but for now I will manage. After dancing I headed to the grocery store to get the stuff for the casseroles. Once I got home I made three sausage, egg and cheese casseroles. Two for church and one for Dan. Now, I have to get up at 5:30 tomorrow morning to get them baked and delivered to church in time.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

P.S. Don't forget to eat at Chili's on Monday!

September 24, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Whew! What a day! Incredible is all I can say. There is so much stuff in the store now. How fun it has been watching all of this come together. Now, if I can have a day or two to get caught up on PR we would really be getting it all done.

Each day there seems to be a new task for me to do that takes me away from what I am currently working on. I am hoping that once these little things are done I can get caught up. Until then I will make the most of each day and do what I can.

Supper at church was good tonight. The fellowship is always great. I had just enough time before to run by and take Pilot out for a quick potty break. After supper I ran back to let Pilot out for a bit. She enjoyed running around the house and was not happy with me when I had to crate her again so I could get back for choir practice. Choir was really good. We worked on several pieces for the coming weeks.

Once I got back home Pilot was very happy to see me. We walked, then it was time for her to get some petting. We were taking a break when Dan got home. Thank goodness he will be home tomorrow to check on her if I get tied up with work. Maybe one day soon we will put up some type of fencing so she can play outside during the day. She loves the sunshine.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna (MRI next week), Kaitlyn, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all those that have lost loved ones recently. Please pray for a cure! Don't forget those extra tight super long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . . .Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

P.S. Eat at Chili's on Monday, September 29th and support Childhood Cancer Research. For all of those near by us there is one at East Chase.

September 23, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Anniversary to us! Can you believe we have been married for 8 years. Oh how the time has gone by so quickly at times. How much we have gone through over the past five years of that time. We are truly blessed!

Well, I didn't get as much done as I would have liked to today. I did however find the time to get a pedicure and manicure. It was much needed! Now I can wear sandals tonight without worry. It was a quiet day. Too quiet if you ask me. Pilot enjoyed me being off until it was time for me to go to the LPGA events then she was not happy about getting into her crate. She survived though.

The after hours was really good. I enjoyed meeting some new people and telling them all about Belk and how fabulous our new store is going to be. From there we headed to Montgomery to the Renaissance for the pairings party. We had a really good time! The food was excellent! We even met a couple of professional golfers. It was a great party!

I got home in time to do a few things before bed. Pilot was ready for a walk so that we did. Then she was ready for some lap time. Soon after finishing up some laundry we headed to bed in preparation for a busy day tomorrow. Dan will be home sometime tomorrow. I have church tomorrow night along with choir practice. So it will be another jam packed day.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Kaitlyn, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please remember to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Eat dessert first tomorrow and think of Avery. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . .Gene Ann

September 22, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was an incredible day! The first two trucks of merchandise arrived have been unloaded, dropped in each department, un boxed and set hopefully by end of shift tonight to standards. The first two trucks were suppose to be home only but ended up being mixed trucks. So we got some of everything.

Between working the floor, taking pictures and making PR calls and appointments I got accomplised so much. Everyone has worked so hard. We have the best team around!

I got home shortly after five for the day. I am off tomorrow. Yes, an off day during the week which means I will be working all day on Saturday. Last weekend was more than likely my last weekend off until after Christmas. Tomorrow on my off day I have several things to do to keep me busy and yes so much of it is Belk public relations work. The house should be quiet so I should be able to get things done! Let me see the Bridal event should be a good place to start.

Tomorrow night I will be going to the chamber after hours at the golf course for the LPGA event. I will then be going to the pairings party for the Pro AM with Jennie. Dan just called and he will be gone an additional night. He had planned to be home tomorrow night but now it will be sometime on Wednesday. Our 8 year anniversary is tomorrow but we had decided a few weeks ago that we would wait and celebrate sometime the following weekend.

Pilot will be happy that I am home most of the day tomorrow. I think it might be a good day for a pedicure. Oh, how I miss my little buddy! She would have had our day planned from start to finish. Seeing all of the Christmas merchandise that came in today made me really miss her. I just don't see how I can put up a tree this year. But then I think about all of those times she will visit us and how she will wonder why we aren't celebrating the most wonderful time of the year. We will just have to wait and see.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Erin and her family. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those hugs, kisses and special times. Each day is a wonderful blessing and should be celebrated. Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery like crazy. . . . Gene Ann

September 21, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was great day! I have had so much fun. It started out with church. When I got to the choir room I wasn't sure that it was going to be a great day or not. That is when Robert decided that Becky and I needed a microphone so that everyone could hear our special part in our athem. I don't like the spotlight I am a behind the scenes type of person. UGGH I thought. Well, it went very good and I survived thank goodness we didn't have to go up front it was nice staying on the back row to do this. They say it sounded it good but I couldn't hear anything but my heart beating and the voice inside my head saying "don't mess this up!"

After church I delivered the goody bags to the hotels for our traveling guests. Then I picked Susie up and we headed toward the Summit. Once we got there we decided to eat lunch first. P.F. Chang's was the chosen spot. It was so good! I always love to go there. Then we headed toward Belk. It just happened to be a special day that if you purchased a charity day ticket you got another 20% off. That was a no brainer. Let me see 20% and additional 20% and then another 20% off. As Avery would say "hmmm, let me think about that. . . . hmmm yes!" Once we got upstairs it was their Bridal Gayla. This was great because I got to see firsthand what to do seeing how I have one scheduled for October 18th.

The shopping was wonderful! I got so many wonderful things. I wanted to get a new suit but decided on Karen Kane and Kristin Davis seperates. Two new to Prattville lines that we will be carrying in our new store. The best part of the day was when I saved more than I spent.

After finishing up at the Summit we decided to stop at the Galleria to check out New Directions (the Summit does not carry this department). There I found several things as well. I am set for fall which is a good thing considering I had very little. I haven't had to dress-up in years other than the occassional special event.

So we got home fairly early. Dan was gone taking care of errands he needed to get done before leaving again tomorrow. Once he got home I was prepared to cook dinner but we both decided we weren't hungry. We later had a small bowl of ice cream. The perfect ending to the perfect day and I must say it was definitely Avery style!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially pray for Erin and her family. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Please don't forget those hugs, kisses and special minutes of each and every day. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . . Gene Ann

September 20, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Wow, a day of rest. . . not really. I ran more today than usual. I managed to get some things done in the house which really needed doing. I sat down to watch maybe five minutes of the Alabama game and then decided during half time I would go do the things in town I needed to do. I thought I would start off at Belk picking up the goodie bags and delivery sheet. Well, no one but Susie was there. They had all gone to lunch together. Well, Susie and I made our plan for tomorrow and I decided to take care of everything else and come back.

I ran in the grocery store to pick up a thing or two for the next couple of days. Took the stuff home and went out again. Finally I got everything done that I needed to do and off I went back home. Once at home I cleaned a little more and then decided to run downtown to Touch of New York. I enjoyed my visit with Jan and of course found something I had to have.

Once home I worked on laundry some more and began preparing for dinner. Dan wanted me to stay home to talk with the developer since I know her. We were invited so several things tonight but it just didn't work out to go to any of them.

After Dan's meeting we grilled out. We sat down and ate together but soon after eating Dan decided to go watch the ballgame with his buddies. I watched the Auburn game alone. Wait I had Pilot to keep me company and all of the text messages I kept getting. Got to love my LSU friends! They are crazy!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends esepcially Erin and family. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those hugs, kisses and special times. Do something extra fun tomorrow! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . .Gene Ann

September 19, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was another day of training. However I had to work my public relations into the mix too. I had a meeting this morning with the warm welcome greetings lady. We all love Mrs. Doris! She gave Salem and Mark their visits together. As I rushed into the training room to get as much done as possible I realized we had to meet with the Publix manager sometime around lunch.

I finished my training really fast scoring pretty high on most everything. It is really easy and the trainer Susie is great. This weekend is double discount days for employees so that we can work on our fall wardrobes. Susie is here from Texas until we get open so we are thinking about going to Birmingham to the Summit on Sunday for a day of shopping.

Ok, so I finished the classes ran to put together a frangrance goodie bag for the Publix manager then a grabbed Mark and Salem. We headed down to Publix to find the manager was gone but would be back shortly. We decided to go get lunch quickly and discuss a few things we needed to work on over the next few days. After a short working lunch we stopped back by to meet David. It was a good meeting.

So it was back to the training room. I completed my last session for the week. After that I had a few little things to get done and a list to work on from home. I am off tomorrow and Sunday however at some point I have to deliver goodie bags to the hotels of our traveling guest stars that will be arriving on Sunday afternoon. That is the team that is coming to help us get stocked, merchandised and ready for grand opening.

I got home early today. I actually took a nice break then went and picked up Chinese for dinner. Dan came down long enough to eat then it was back upstairs to work some more. I watched a great movie that I had never seen before "Under the Tuscan Sun." Great chick flick. Tomorrow we really don't have any plans. Dan has a meeting with a realestate developer tomorrow night. I don't know what my plans are at this time.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Erin and her family. They have decided that it could be scar tissue and they are going to wait and see what happens for a few months. Please check her website and leave them messages of encouragement. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Please don't forget those hugs, kisses and special times! Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery like crazy. . . . Gene Ann

September 18, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was probably one of the busiest days I have had! Once at work I got a call from the Eastdale store in Montgomery. They needed help on a project so during lunch I headed to Eastdale to help them out. Once back it was non stop! Today started my training at Belk University (the training room). I two sessions today and have three tomorrow. So far it is fun and I am learning so much.

Ok so I ran, ran and ran some more. Before I could turn around good it was time to run home and get ready for the Chamber banquet. Grandmother stopped by on her way home from the beach. We exchanged a few things talked for a few minutes and then it was time for me to pick up Salem and Mark for the banquet.

We had a great time at the banquet. The silent auction was wonderful! The food was great. We all had a good time socializing. The night was wonderful and we were so glad that we went because Belk was the only store that was represented out of the new shopping center.

I dropped Salem and Mark off back at the store. I headed toward home but decided to stop at the grocery store to get the stuff to make a red velvet cake for work tomorrow. Tomorrow is one of the ASM's birthday and her favorite is red velvet. I know I'm crazy to stay up that late but after eating cajun food there is no going to sleep early that is for sure. As I pulled into the drive way so did Dan. He had gotten an earlier flight home but stopped in Montgomery to have dinner with a friend. We both got home at the same time which is odd.

I stayed up baked the cake and did a few other things before finally going to bed somewhere after 1:00 am. It all got done and I prepared for another busy day tomorrow. Tonight reminded me of all those nights that once I got Avery and Dan to bed I would stay up working really hard to get as much done as possible. The only thing was once I went to bed the Princess bed was empty. Yes, it is still where it has always been and I don't know when I will move it out. It reminds me of my princess the sweetest most fairest of them all. Oh how I miss her!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially the Roderick family and most especially Erin. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Please don't forget to hug your children extra long and tighter than ever. How I miss my special hugs and kisses! Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

September 17, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Another busy day! The countdown has began to Grand Opening! 28 days and counting. Merchandise will start shipping next week. I can't wait. How much fun this will all be. How wonderful it will feel on Grand Opening day when we all look down the center and see all of the hard work that has gone into opening the store.

After work I headed to church to help Elizabeth take money for supper. The meal was good and the fellowship even better. From there I had to go and check on Pilot again. I managed to stop on my way to church too. I let her play for about an hour then it was time to put her in the crate again. While Pilot was playing I decided to check my e-mail. Please pray for our little friend Erin. Today she had a routine MRI and it showed growth. Please pray that this is something other than tumor. Please pray that a plan is made tomorrow that will benefit all. Please pray for the family.

Choir practice was really good. We went over several pieces some of which were easier than others. It was a great time of fellowship even with heavy heart that is hurting for the Roderick family. We have to find a cure! We have to pray harder!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin (Please pray that this is not tumor and that it can be dealt with), Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Don't forget that children are such a wonderful blessings! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

September 16, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday dear Dan! I hope that you have a wonderful day today filled with all good things. I love you and hope that you remember to eat your dessert first tonight in remembering Avery.

Happy Birthday Janna! We hope you have a day filled with many blessings and lots of surprises! Happy 1st birthday Caden! We hope your day is filled with all of your favorite things. Happy 5th birthday Miller! We hope that you have a totally fabulous day filled with cake, presents and many blessings!

Whew! I hope that I didn't leave anyone out. Today has been another crazy busy day. I did get a few things done. When I got home I was so ready to just crash. I ran most of the day seeing how I had to be in Millbrook this morning at 7:45. After I got finished there I had to run home to take Dan some things that he needed for his trip and to put some things in the dryer that he needed for his trip. There just are not enough hours in the day lately.

Pilot and I did not do much of anything. We did get caught up on Days. That was about it. I have a feeling the next few weeks will pretty much the same way. Especially starting next week when the merchandise starts coming into the store. Dan is going to be very busy traveling the next couple of weeks. This is good though because I am so busy not only during the day but almost every night as well.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all as we still struggle daily with new challenges. Please pray for all of our special friends esepcially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krsytin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

September 15, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Another busy day! I did however go in late today. I think I rolled into work around 10:00 am. There were things that had to be done at the house number one being paying the bills. Now, if I can just get everything else caught up we will be in business.

By the time the day was finished I was totally exhausted. I got home thinking we would celebrate Dan's birthday but he was also exhausted and asked that we wait until Friday night to do so. Our anniversary is next week and I think the same thing will happen then especially if Dan has to travel which right now he is scheduled to be in Atlanta.

So we ate at home tonight then watched some stuff on tivo. Pilot was happy to be a lap dog for the night. This week is crazy busy for me. I start training in addition to my full work load. There are times lately I wish I had two more sets of arms and hands. I have been able to delegate some things but I have found over the years that when these types of events are coming together it is better to be hands on! The only problem lately is I'm not use to a time clock. Every job I have ever had has been a salaried position where I have worked 50+ hours (most of the time 60 or more). I can't stand leaving and the job not being finished. But I have to clock out and keep the hours to 40 or less. This has been my biggest obstacle. The second biggest obstacle has been that the time clock either hasn't worked or wasn't installed and well I can't keep track of all of those time adjustment forms. Hopefully this will get easier.

I have to share an Avery story today. I had to take some tickets to a charity in downtown and as I was driving I was thinking about Avery. I got to thinking about the bike ride yesterday and how much I missed Avery. The tears were rolling down my face when I stopped at a red light. I looked and perched on my window was a beautiful orange butterfly and the biggest dragon fly I have ever seen. They both just flew all around the front of my car the entire time I was stopped. I knew without a doubt that it was Avery and her buddy Brayden letting me know things are fine. They were telling me not to be sad to be happy and to look for the signs. She is always with me. I will continue to do all I can to find a cure. I will do all I can to keep her memory alive and well. Oh, how I miss all my special hugs but if I just look they are still here just hidden. It was a special time that made my tears turn into a big smile.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . .Gene Ann

September 14, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I didn't want to get up this morning but I made myself anyway. After not much sleep last night I am surprised that I made it on time to the ride. It was very emotional! I rode with Gwen. Most of you know she is the one that rode Avery and Molly the last two or three years. This year Molly rode alone with pictures of Avery taped to Avery's spot in the side car. I must say that Avery was very spirited and tried to fly into the wind several times but we managed to arrive back with all photos of her in place.

It was great to see everyone at the ride. Thank you Nena and Jim for being there for me. I really enjoyed seeing you both and can't thank you enough for all you do. Thank you to the Bailey family for being the most awesome family and always knowing what to say and do. We love you all! Thank you mostly to all who participated in this event. $106,000 was raised for Pediatric Brain Tumor Research. I hated having to leave before the event was over but I was already late for the kick-off which is mandatory for all associates.

The ride back to Prattville was long. I thought I would never get there. I had to stop at the rest area in Clanton to change for the kick off meeting. Seeing how my jeans and tennis shoes would not work for business casual. The meeting was a huge success. They were well into the meeting when I arrived on the scene. How exciting to be on the ground floor of something so incredible.

From the meeting I had to rush to Mexico Tipico to meet Dan and his parents for Dan's birthday meal. His birthday is Tuesday but Sunday was the only time we could all get together. Let's just say they had already eaten and my food was in the kitchen staying warm when I got there. We had a nice meal then Dan and I headed home to get some sleep.

Ok so an update on the phone calls from early this morning. They started again when Dan plugged the phone back in. The same thing over and over. Dan called from his cell phone and the dad handled things. After that they stopped and haven't started back. Hopefully that stopped it for good. Oh, my I'm tired! I just realized that I have worked seven straight days. This is beginning to remind me of the old days when I worked for Granddaddy.

Thank you all for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . .Gene Ann

September 13, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I was out early this morning. I had several stops to make along the way to Toastmasters. I am still trying to get enough folders for training. I will find them though hopefully today. Toastmasters was good today. It was a short meeting and before I knew it I was back in Prattville. I stopped by and got enough folders then went to the bank then stopped and picked up 50 chairs. I got to Belk to drop off the chairs and ended up working until almost 5:00 pm.

I took one break to go home and get some things we needed to fix the television in the break room. We could get sound but no picture. As I was out running an errand Mark called to let me know what was wrong with the television. It was one of those things that was so simple we just could not find it but he finally figured it out.

Once home from work and grocery shopping I began cooking. Poor Dan hasn't really had a home cooked meal in a couple of weeks. I got started cooking while he got cleaned up from his day of working on the car. Mark joined us for dinner. We enjoyed his company and the meal was good to have been prepared so quickly.

We ended up watching a movie instead of football tonight. That is after the Auburn game went off. We finally decided to go to bed but had problems with Pilot. She got upset and had an accident. I think she was mad at us for not going to bed earlier. Ok so we finally get into bed and to sleep when the phone starts ringing every every minute. Some kid would call we would answer then he would say nothing then we would hang up. This went on for a very long time so we finally unplugged the phones. We had no choice. At least we have caller ID and can call tomorrow morning and wake them up.

I am going to Ride for Kids tomorrow riding with Gwen and then heading back to Prattville for the big Belk kick off. I will be going to the ride alone. Dan is not ready for that kind of thing yet. I promissed Gwen on Thursday night before Avery passed away that I would ride and I always keep a promise.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

September 12, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Whew! Another day of running. I think we got it all done except the chairs picked up. While I was out running all over to get everything done I decided to stop and get gas. The lines were terribly long and most stations were out of gas. Hurricane Ike is really taking a toll on all of the gas stations here in Prattville.

Tomorrow I have a Toastmaster meeting then I have to pick up chairs and deliver them to the store for Sunday. I will probably help Susie the trainer out for a little bit getting everything set up and ready for training next week. We are also planning to cook out tomorrow night. Alabama is on pay per view again. UGGGGH!

Dan is planning to work on his car tomorrow. I really don't know what they are doing this time and it is better that I don't. Pilot stayed out today and did a really good job. She was a very good dog. I wish she were that good all of the time. Dan got in late last night and Pilot and I were fast asleep. All I know is I had fixed red beans and rice for dinner and he must of eaten because there was not nearly as much left as I remembered when I got up this morning.

Dan will be traveling again next week. I will be very busy again. I don't see it slowing down until sometime in January. I love being busy though! Tonight we were going to go out with Jennie and Keith for Jennie's birthday but when I got home the bottom fell out. I also came in to find Dan sound asleep in the bed. Pilot was right there with him. She had been very good but was ready for a walk. We got out and back in just in time before the storm. We ended up ordering pizza and staying in for the night. Dan and I watched The Karate Kid on television. Wow, what an oldie but a goodie.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery like crazy today. . . . . . Gene Ann

September 11, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Jennie! We hope that you had a wonderful day filled with many surprises and lots of blessings. Did you eat cake first today?

Today was one of those days where you run all day! I ran from one place to another and back again. With all of this running you would think I would loose some weight. Hmmm!

Ok, so we got everything I think we need all lined up for Sunday. Today I started on the 100 goodie bags for the meeting. Of course I will have to finish them tomorrow because there are just not enough hours in the day. There are so many things to get done tomorrow. We will all have to work late!

Tonight was Toastmasters then line-dancing. We named the Toastmaster club the River Region Toastmasters. We still need members and we meet on Thursday nights from 6-7 at the Journey Church. If you are interested please come join us. I have learned so much over the years from this program. It not only teaches public speaking but leadership and listening skills as well. After Toastmasters I decided to run errands and go home and do some work for work so I skipped line-dancing. I really wanted to go but I was already exhausted. I also had so many things to get done. This has been one of those weeks that there are not enough hours in the day to get it all done.

Pilot was very happy to see me. She was very good and we went for a short walk then curled up together after I finished working. By the way the barking mechanism came in today. So far it is working. This could be a good thing!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

September 10, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Mrs. Kellie! We love you and hope you have a wonderful day filled with surprises.

Today was another busy day. Before I could turn around good it was time to go home. The decorations were a big hit but I have to go back to Montgomery to get more. We have so much to do to get ready for Sunday.

Dan will be home sometime tomorrow night. He was suppose to be home by lunch but now it will be late. It has been so very quite around here. That is when I am actually home.

Tonight was busy as usual. I helped take money for Wednesday night supper at church. Then I ran home for a few minutes to let Pilot out. Then it was time to go back for choir practice. When I got home I was ready for bed and so was Pilot.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . .Gene Ann

September 9, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Another busy day today. With Dan gone it has been a challenge to get home take care of Pilot. Poor Doggie has been very patient with me though. I must say she is very good when it is just us two girls. She reminds me of Avery because she thinks that Dan's side of the bed is hers when he is gone.

Work was very busy. I had so much to do in getting ready for our big kick off on Sunday. We have chosen a theme and I was sent out to find the decorations. Believe it or not I found exactly what we were looking for. I was so excited! I wanted to rush back to the store to show everyone but had an hour long radio show to do for Toastmasters. It was so much fun and the guys that helped me out did an awesome job.

By the time I got back to Prattville it was time for dinner and then shortly bed time. I have another busy day tomorrow. I am loving every minute of it!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . .Gene Ann

September 8, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Wow, what a very busy day! Meetings, planning, working, running, running, running and more running. It has been very busy but things are coming together now. We have so much to get done this week before everyone reports on Sunday for our big kick off!

Tonight Salem went with me to the Autauga County Relay for Life committee meeting. We presented our Charity Day presentation then after talking decided that Belk would have a team next year. We are very excited! The team will be honoring Elisabeth's husband Roy that is currently batteling cancer. The meeting was a huge success for us. It was pouring down rain when we went in for the meeting but by the time we finished it had cleared off some.

Once I got home I was so pumped up from the meeting that I had to stop everything and enter it into our work spread sheets. Pilot was not real happy with me doing this. She was ready for her special time. Poor baby is not liking mommy working. But she is getting better.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Why not donate blood this week. Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery more than ever today. . . . . . . Gene Ann

September 7, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a wonderful relaxing day. I got up got ready and went to church. After church I came in and tried to get a few things done. I mostly enjoyed my afternoon nap. This coming week is going to be a very busy week.

I cooked dinner. Dan and I enjoyed some quality time together. Our schedules have been so busy that we just seem to pass in the kitchen. Pilot really enjoyed the day. She and Dan napped while I was at church. She did very good and didn't bother him any. I guess there is a first time for everything.

Dan will be leaving tomorrow afternoon for Winston Salem, North Carolina until Thursday sometime. He couldn't have chosen a better week to be gone. I have something every night this week.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

September 6, 2008

Hello Everybody,

What a busy day. Dan made us an appointment to look at a house today. We went but decided rather quickly that it was not right for us. It was kind of what he is looking for but I guess we will continue to search.

Once we got home Jennie came over and we grilled out for dinner. We thought that we could get the game on the computer but they blocked it so we had to settle for listening to the radio. Ok, I have to say it Roll Tide! We had a good time!

Dan got tired of the Bama game in the third quarter and we ended up turning off the radio. At this point I think I fell fast asleep on the couch with Pilot in my lap. She has been really good lately but the barking has to stop. We have ordered a barking mechanism to tone down her barking. I can't wait until it comes in so that we have some quiet time especially during dinner.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to pray for all of those that have recently lost loved ones. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . .Gene Ann

September 5, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Orange Day! I hope you all had orange on today. I hope that orange day was a huge success in Louisiana. We were with you today in spirit!

Today was a very busy day especially the end of the day. We had to have some information faxed in by 4:00 and well once we finally got it tracked down we began faxing at 3:56. When you deal with a really old fax machine it took over 45 minutes for the fax to finish (about 75 pages). Oh mercy me! We were all nervous, anxious and impatient. Finally the fax went through and we were able to leave for the day.

Before I could go home I had to stop at the grocery store. We are out of most everything at home. After the visit to the grocery store I headed home to start doing laundry. Dan was wrapping up his day and we decided not to cook tonight. We were both full from lunch. We both had mexican but not together. I went with Salem and Dan went alone. How funny we both had just about the same thing but at different times. I guess great minds think alike.

Dan decided a few minutes after Stand Up to Cancer came on that he needed to go for a ride. Pilot and I stayed home and watched the program. It gives me such hope that maybe this will work to get the research that is needed for a cure. But at the same time I was very sad watching! How I made it through I will never know. After that I was ready for bed. I am really tired tonight.

Tomorrow we are going to look at another house Dan has found. From there I am going to try and persuade Dan to stop and pick up a pay per view box for the game. If not I will listen in the bedroom to the radio but watching is so much more fun! We will probably grill out and just chill watching football. Oh how I love Saturdays!

Thank you for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krsytin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Do something super fun and special this weekend with your children. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery so very much today. . . . . Gene Ann

******Kandles for Kids is Sunday night at Liberty Park in Birmingham, September 7th at 6:00 pm. This is a celebration of Life. I'm quite sure we will not be there but if you are in the area please go and light a candle for HOPE! Don't forget Ride for Kids is September 14th. For more information check out www.rideforkids.org.*********

September 4, 2008

Hello Everybody,

We were busy again with work. I got several calls today from charities needing either more tickets or flyers so I spent some time out delivering those things. I decided to head home around 3:00 to get ready for the television interview. I got home and Dan informed that he had a conference call and would not be able to join us.

The camera lady got here and we did our thing. It was so much harder than I thought it would be. No training not even Toastmasters can prepare you for something like this. Fighting back the tears was very hard! I don't want to watch it tonight because right now I can't even remember what I said.

Well, I ended back at the office after the interview. We had faxed some information yesterday and it didn't go through so I had to fax it again. After the fax finished I took my last big load of charity day stuff to the new store. Yes, we are finally moving some things into the new store. It is so exciting! The store is going to be FABULOUS!

So after dropping off the car load of stuff I realized it was almost time for Toastmasters. It was a great meeting! If you are in the area and would like to join us please do. We meet at 6:00 pm on Thursday nights at the Journey Church. We so hope that we can charter our new "River Region Toastmasters" by the end of the month. After Toastmasters I had just enough time to make it to the last half of line-dancing. It was a good thing I decided to go because we learned two new ones tonight. I would have been so lost otherwise.

Once home I fed Pilot, took her for a long walk, took her out again and then again. She was taking advantage but oh well. Dan was still working when I got home and continued to work for several hours. Me and Pilot were sleeping in the big chair when he came down stairs. He woke me up to watch my television interview. Ok, so they butchered my name and didn't get all of the facts exactly right. Overall a pretty good piece. Dan didn't like the pictures that I showed them. Hey, I did the best I could! I don't like watching myself and then having to listen to his critique. Finally I realized he wasn't listening very well so he might have to watch it again. You know how they only take little sound bites from what all you say. Well, he didn't hear the reporters remarks which told the story. Anyway, please tune in tomorrow night to the Stand Up to Cancer! We have to find a cure.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. I had dessert for dinner tonight and I thought of Avery every bite! Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

******Ride for kids is Sunday, September 14th, This years ride is dedicated to Avery. For more information please check out www.rideforkids.org. We will be there!**********

September 3, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I left home this morning at 7:00 am I did not return home until after 6:00 pm. Wow! The funny thing is I didn't even realize I had been there that long. The breakfast went well we had 15 that had committed to be there and 7 actually attended. I just don't understand that but it happens.

I got a call from the American Cancer Society today wanting to know if we would do an interview for Stand Up to Cancer. WSFA will be coming tomorrow to talk with us about what we are doing to fight back since Avery's passing. I love it! She is still working and she is still living through us. I know that this is going to be hard but we have to STAND UP! We have to find a cure! Too many children are dying.

I helped at church again tonight. Although I don't know how much help I really am! I enjoy sitting with Elizabeth and talking with everyone. Tonight everybody seemed so upbeat! I didn't want to leave we were having such a great time. But then my feet were beckoning for flip flops! I went home changed, walked the dog, then went back for choir practice. We had a great practice.

Tomorrow will be another full day of event planning, phone calling and getting things done. Maybe one day soon Dan and I will be on the same schedule. This is his crazy busy week. Pilot is doing better and hasn't chewed anything of importance today. She is such a sweet loving dog most of the time. I don't think she is liking me working but she will get use to it soon. I hope so anyway!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery so very much today. . . . Gene Ann

September 2, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Busy, Busy, Busy! It amazes me at how much we can pack into a day. We are ready for tomorrow morning and the big charity day breakfast. We are hoping to sign up more charities. It is such a great program.

I got home starting cooking dinner when I realized that I had forgotten to pick up the dry cleaning. I went back picked up the cleaning then headed to Target to pick up something that I needed. From there it was back to cooking. Poor Dan was ready to eat but patiently waited until it was ready.

Ok so tonight I realized that I am almost a week behind again on Days. I must catch up but not tonight. Tomorrow is a very early morning so I should probably go to bed early. I dozed off and then I heard a rather strange sound so I got up to find that Pilot had torn off the upholstered top of my ceddar chest. I was ready to kill her but instead issued her some crate time. A couple of hours later the smoke alarm started beeping so I let her out of the crate and into bed with me. She doesn't like that sound it really scares her.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us as we continue to heal. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have recently lost loved ones. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . Gene Ann

September 1, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Labor Day to all! We had a wonderful lunch and mini family reunion at my cousin George's house. It was great getting to see everybody. I had told Dan that I would be home by 5:00 but it ended up being more like 6:00. I was just having such a great time visiting that I let the time get away from me.

Once home I started preparing for the week. I also managed to fix wings for Dan. We then sat down and watched the game (Tennessee/UCLA). It would have to go into overtime. I could not go to sleep until it was over. What a game!

This week is a busy week at work. We have several meetings and our big charity day breakfast. I love my job! Also, don't forget that Friday is orange day for the state of Louisiana but we all participate. Wear orange with maybe a splash of pink. You know that is what Avery would have done!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Cherish every minute with your children! Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

August 31, 2008

Hello Everybody,

After church today I decided I would go to Jasper and visit with Grandmother and Granddaddy. I got to Jasper around 6:00 pm to find that they had moved into the little house in the country today. It is really cute and well we all know that Avery has already been there to visit several times. She leaves little things behind when she visits. Where as at home she just hides things from mommy and oh how I can hear her laughing as I'm looking for those things.

Dan stayed home with Pilot and to spend some time with his parents. He and Pilot are getting along well today but that can change at any minute. Pilot did so good during the ball game last night. She was able to not be crated. The biggest accomplishment was that she didn't try to run out every time the door was opened. She is growing up!

Ok, so we made a few more trips back and forth from house to house to get a few things. By the time we went to bed everything was almost perfect.

Tomorrow we are going to a Labor Day BBQ at cousin George's house. It will be like a family reunion. Then I have to get back as early as possible to get ready for a very busy week. Every week gets a little busier.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Libba, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more and more each day. . . . .Gene Ann

August 30, 2008

Hello Everybody,

We started off the day going to look at a house. I must say this is all Dan's idea. I don't want to leave this house. I am so close to the cemetary and well this is Avery's home. Everything here reminds me of her and I love that. For those same reasons he wants to move. He can't stand it here anymore. He also wants a house with more garage space. With his car collection growing he needs a four or five garage house. Ok, this time I might get to actually park in the garage but I'm not holding my breath.

Looking at houses was so very hard for me. Both houses had rooms that would have been perfect for Avery. It is so sad to imagine moving and knowing that she will not physically be there with us. She will always be with us in spirit.

After looking at houses we stopped by PetSmart to pick Pilot up a harness so she could spend some time outside today. I need to finish getting everything ready for the party and it is hard with her right at my heels the entire time. Well, we got home put the harness on her put her outside and well twenty five minutes later noticed she was loose. She had chewed through the harness again and was down by the stop sign sniffing around. I yelled for her to come back and here she came running right into the back door. I can't believe we didn't have to chase her. So she got to spend a couple of hours in the crate. Believe it or not she was very good and didn't put up too much of a fuss.

I got everything ready and had time to take a break before everyone got here. We had a great spread of tacos in a bag (it is like taco salad but you put everything into the bag of crushed fritos and eat it out of the bag), tamale balls, pizza dip, buffalo dip, Jennie brought a smoked turkey spread it was great. I made Sangria and we all just ate and watched football. I must say we were all pleasantly surprised at how well Bama played. Now I have to say "ROLL TIDE!" That was for you Avery! Sorry Dan I had to do it! The game was almost boring at times but I could still hear you saying "where is Big Al. . . . mommy when will they show Big Al. . . . . .There he is. . . Look! Look! There is Big Al. . . . . Where did he go don't they know I want to see Big AL!" Believe me we all watched for Big Al. We all missed hearing you yell "Roll Tide!"

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that recently lost loved ones. Don't foget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . .Missing my football watching buddy more than ever today. . . . . Gene Ann

August 29, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Donna and Eric! We hope you both had wonderful days today. He hope that the coming year is filled with many blessings and great surprises. We love you both!

Ok, so today was very productive. The charity day breakfast should be a great success. Things are coming together. Once I got to work today everyone was in need of boxes to pack up stuff that needs to be sent to the new store. Hmmm, who do we know that works for a box plant? I made one phone call and then drove to Smurfit and we now have plenty of boxes for the move. Thank you Amy and Lindsay!

The rest of the day was spent getting ready for our charity day breakfast. Before I knew it the day was done and it was time to go home. Well by way of the bank and grocery store.

We decided to celebrate my first paycheck in over four years with dinner at Mellow Mushroom. It was great! Charlie and Jennie joined us and we just all sat back and let Dan talk his smack about how Bama is going to get beaten badly tomorrow night. We'll see! Once home I started cooking for our kick-off college football party.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Look for Big Al tomorrow and think of Avery! Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery terribly. . . . . Gene Ann

August 28, 2008

Hello Everybody,

The busier the better! I love being busy and can't stand to just sit still. Well today there was no sitting. I think I ran all day. That is a good thing! I got to work and worked some more on Charity Day then went to Alabama State University for a Veteran's business expo. SCORE (an organization that I volunteer with) had a booth that needed manned for a few hours. We all had a great time and made some great contacts for our organization. At the same time I was able to tell a few people about Belk. It was a win win for all.

From there it was back to the store. I worked getting things ready for next week. We have so much to do getting ready for all of the pre-grand opening events. We have two good weeks to get things nailed down before training begins in the new store. Saturday is the projected closing date for the current store but as it looks right now it could be totally empty before Saturday.

After work I headed for Journey Church and the new toastmasters club. We had a great meeting and hope to charter by September 25th. I was railroaded a little and somehow became President of the new club. Now, that I am home I have realized that all of my events for September and October are on Thursday nights. Hopefully I will only have miss a handful of meetings though. Oh my goodness what were they thinking.

From toastmasters I headed toward Trinity to line-dancing. I made it for the last 45 minutes. I was just in time to work on the hardest one again. Tonight we went back over other ones after working on the hard one. It was so much fun. Then I stopped by Pam's to check out her "Upper Case Living" stuff. Donna, Lauren and Nick were getting it all put up and it looks really good. I had planned to do my grocery shopping for Saturday tonight but decided to get home and get things ready for tomorrow.

Once home I took Pilot for a short walk. She was very happy to see me. Dan was out watching football. All I know is Pilot and I were fast asleep when he got home. But he insisted on waking us both up to talk. After all these years you think he would learn. That would be my biggest pet peave. If you do wake me up please don't ask me questions because you are going to get grumpy responses!

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Missing Avery more than ever today. . . . . Until Next Time. . . . . Gene Ann

August 27, 2008

Hello Everbody,

Today was another busy day today. First before work I had to take Dan to pick up his car. It has been in shop fixing something that they broke while working on the transmission. So we look like a used car lot again. All the cars are nice and safe back home.

Work was busy. I had several things to do today. I got them all done and left early to go with Amy to look at houses. We had a great time. Dan is going with her tomorrow to make an offer and write up a contract on one of the houses. How exciting a first house.

Once I got back home it was time to get to church for Wednesday night supper. I was a little late but the good thing about volunteering is you can't get fired. We had a small crowd tonight but the fellowship was great. After dinner I rushed home to take care of a thing or two before choir practice. Choir practice was really good.

I got home took Pilot out, did a few things and then went to bed. It seemed as though I did nothing but run all day today. Tomorrow will be the same. I have a business expo at ASU, then Toastmasters at 6:00 and Line Dancing after Toastmasters. Poor Dan is on his own again. I think I will start the cooking for Saturday tomorrow night. I haven't finalized the menu but it is coming along. Oh, I love college football! Roll Tide. . . .that was for you Avery!

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Please pray for a cure. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Have peanut butter cookies sometime soon and think of Avery. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . .Gene Ann

*****September is National Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, there will be several activities during the month and I will post as I get the information. Also, please give blood!*********

August 26, 2008

Hello Everybody,

So much has happened in just four short months. To be honest some days it seems like just yesterday and others it seems like years ago. We miss Avery so very much and not a day goes by that we don't remember something funny that she did or said. Like today for instance. Dan was on a conference call when he looked at the piece of paper on his desk and there it was the Pilot list. For those of you that might not know Avery created a list of everything imaginable that her dog had to be and all of the things that she must have to be a good mommy to her doggie. An example: a pink collar with diamonds and a matching leash. I think we succeeded in getting most everything on the list. Poor Pilot now has a metal chain link leash though because she has chewed through everything else we have tried. Anway Dan typed up the list and sent it to me while I was work. I opened the file smiled and remembered that she got everything she ever wanted. Then I remembered operation Pilot sneaking her into the hospital room so that Avery could tell her good bye.

Work was very busy today. The old store is closing on August 30th so today we had to move some things around. I also had to make a few more calls and work on updating a few spread sheets. That is really all but the next few weeks are going to be really busy.

I did my civic duty today and voted in the city election. I almost forgot but while I was out running an errand saw the vote here today signs and decided I better stop and take care of business. After voting it was time for the Cancer Society cookbook committee meeting. It went great and we hope to have the books available sometime in November so that people can purchase them for Christmas. I will put more details on the website as I get more information. For now we need recipes and we are making interesting by charging $5 per recipe entry. We are hoping that this will defrey the cost of printing. I will be submitting a few recipes and Avery's story of the peanut butter cookies along with that recipe.

Today may have been four months since she left this earth but she is still making a difference still inspiring so many! We miss you Avery and will do everything we possibly can to make sure a cure is found and all of those fighting are taken care of. Did you enjoy the balloons that Lydie sent you the other night? I know you did mostly because they were pink. Mommy and Daddy are going to be watching Big Al on Saturday night and we will be thinking of you the entire time. Oh, by the way Mommy and Grandmother are going to south Louisiana for the bridge dedication. Guess what? The bridge has a sign on it and there is a pink handprint just for you. The dedication is on Friday, September 5th so if you, Brayden, Meechie and rest of the gang could make sure there is plenty of sunshine on that day! We miss you!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Have dessert first today and think of Avery. Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery more than ever today. . . . . . Gene Ann

August 25, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Greg! We hope that you have a very blessed day and even more blessings in the coming year.

A very rainy day today. I did manage to get several things done at work. It is still so much fun and I am really enjoying getting to know all of the people. I can't wait for the new store to open. It is going to be FABULOUS!

It was really quiet today. All of the management team was off getting ready for meetings in Birmingham most of the week. It will be quiet this week. I am hoping to get alot done while everyone is away. I don't know where to start!

There was an after hours scheduled for tonight but due to severe weather it was postponed until early November. I didn't know this though until I went to the Legends. Oh, well I was out and about anyway. Well, I had told Dan he was on his own for dinner because I had the after hours with dinner. He was already gone when I called. He had plans for a guys night so I didn't intrude. I just went home stopping first to pick up dinner.

Pilot was happy to see me. She wanted to play then wanted me to stop everything and pet her. We were in the big chair almost asleep when Dan got home. Tomorrow is pretty much the same except I have a committee meeting for Relay for Life. We are discussing putting together a cookbook. As soon as I know more I will let you all know. Poor Dan is on his own again tomorrow night.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Maybe tomorrow would be a good day for ice cream cones instead of breakfast. Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

August 24, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok, so last night the weather was really bad but we didn't get any damage. Just a few little branches and that was it. Dan's parents lost power with 85 laps to go in the race. Dan came home and finished watching the race. He thought it would be over but there were five laps to go when he got here.

I got up this morning and headed to church. I sang in choir this morning so that makes me a little later getting home than usual. Once I got home it was almost time to go to lunch. We went to Mellow Mushroom with Dan's family before his sister and kids had to leave.

After lunch we had to go to Circuit City to pick up somethings that Dan needed for his office. This week he is hoping to set his home office up like he has been wanting to do for a while now but just hasn't had the time. From there we stopped by Nana and Grandpa's to tell everyone bye. They had a short delay due to a tornado warning in the area. Once we thought it was safe we all got on the road.

I went and picked up Pilot so the silence is over. I must say though I really missed her but I sure could not have done all I did with her here. Thank you Jennie and Charlie for keeping her!

The rest of the day was spent getting ready for the upcoming week. Poor Dan is on his own Monday night, Wednesday and Thursday night. I have something almost every night this week. Plus you never know what might be added to the mix before the week is over. The countdown is now on for college football! Everytime I see something with Big Al on it I think of Avery. Oh, how she loved Big Al. I was thinking today about how she was in the tub one day back two years ago and she wanted to call her daddy she said "Roll Tide" and then hung up the phone. He accused me of brain washing her but it was truly Big Al that she loved.

Thank you all for stopping by to check on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Cherish every minute you have with your children. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever today. . . . .Gene Ann

August 23, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Shower Day! Everything turned out great! We had a good time. While we were playing the toliet paper game I was reminded of Avery. We were all pulling off how much we thought it would take to go around Alyson. I remembered last year when Tiffany the elf papered the Christmas tree and Avery looked at her shaking her finger at her and said "you sill elf we don't waste toliet paper!" Oh, how I wish I had that on video tape!

The turn out was wonderful for the shower in spite of the bad weather. Tropical Storm Fay brought us very much needed rain. It rained all day! I think the weather man said we got over four inches of rain on Saturday alone.

After the shower Grandmother had to head back to Jasper for Lydie's birthday party. Happy 2nd birthday baby Lydie! The official day was yesterday. Enjoy your cake! Have fun! We went together with Grandmother and Granddaddy on kitchen set and I sent it with Grandmother. Not really feeling up to a bithday party for a little one right now. It was hard last year watching Lydie do the things Avery could not do at one and it gets harder watching her do things Avery could never do. It makes me miss her even more!

After getting most everything cleaned up I decided to watch a little Lifetime and take a break. I woke up after a forty five minute nap to answer the phone. If it would not have been for that I would probably still be sleeping. It was the perfect day for napping.

Dan came home for a little bit. He took the table and chairs back to the rental place for me. Thank goodness he offered to do this. He came back for a bit before heading back over to his mom and dad's to watch the race with his dad and Eric. I thought about going to the movies but instead watch a good lifetime movie and went back to sleep. When I got up I realized that I had not gone and gotten Pilot. By this time it was too late. I will get her tomorrow after church.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . .Gene Ann

August 22, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a very busy day but I didn't work at the office today. I did a couple of things from home and started to work on the baby shower. Before I could turn around good Grandmother was here. I took Grandmother to the salon to get her haircut and then went to pick-up a thing or two. I timed it perfectly and she was just finishing up when I got back. We went to grab lunch and then off to finish getting everything we needed to get started.

Once we got back to the house it was work, work and more work. We were able to do most everything tonight since they are all overnight casseroles. Not much left to do in the morning.

I stayed up very late getting the finishing touches on everything. Somewhere between midnight and one there was drama in the neighborhood. There were two police cars in front of the house with the lights on the police officers were on their radios and one was motioning to the other to do something. I still don't know what was going on but I didn't want to find out so I went back to work. By this time I had stayed up to the point I could not get to sleep.

As I was getting ready for the baby shower I was reminded so much of Avery. She would have loved the party! The cake from Brenda's is so pretty and we all know that Avery loved to go to Brenda's. It was my first time in since Avery's birthday. The last party at our house was Avery's birthday party. Oh, how the memories came back and I could hear her saying "mommy can I have cake now. . . .how about now. . . . .oh come on mommy. . . . . . can I help. . . . where is my seat. . . . . . ok what can I do now?" I miss that so much but I have no doubt who the number one helper in heaven is!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Please join us in praying for a cure. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . Missing my little helper so very much. . . . . Gene Ann

August 21, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Wow, what an incredibly busy day! Before going to work I dropped Pilot off at Jennie and Charlie's until sometime after the shower on Saturday. Once at work we had some little things to do in preparation of upcoming events. Then we had a meeting the American Red Cross Representative for our area. We decided to finish our meeting at lunch.

After lunch we went back to the office for a little while to prepare for our meeting with the Mayor. I had to leave for an hour to go check on Pilot and because I am hourly I had to clock out to say I took lunch. When I got back it was time for our meeting with the Mayor. Our meeting went great and Salem really enjoyed meeting him and getting to know about Prattville. After the meeting I took him on a tour of Downtown. From there we stopped by the new apartment complex to drop off some information for their new comer packages. We had a short visit there then went back to the office to pick up Mark. Then it was time for business after hours in downtown Prattville. It was at Marie's on Main. We had a fabulous time meeting everyone and giving away our goodie bags.

Ok so I missed the start up Toastmaster club meeting for the Prattville/Millbrook area. I did manage while home for an hour to make a buffalo dip and leave at the office for the meeting. Thanks to Alan for picking it up and delivering it the meeting. I did manage to make it to the last thirty minutes of line dancing though. I was just in time to work on the hard one which is really what I needed.

I went home from there to change clothes and get my grocery list. I decided to do my shopping for the baby shower tonight so I would have more time tomorrow for other things.

Grandmother will be coming tomorrow to help with the baby shower brunch. We have several things to do. Dan's sister Tina, Niece Stephanie and Nephew Eric arrived sometime around lunch today and will spending the weekend with Nana and Grandpa. Dan had a nice visist today and plans to spend some time with them over the next couple of days since I will be very busy.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Cherish every minute you have with your children. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . . . Gene Ann

August 20, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was another busy day! We had an early meeting then we went for a tour of the new store then we had a United Way luncheon. From there we went back to the old store to wrap up some loose ends and prepare for tomorrow which is even a busier day.

By the time I got home I had just a few minutes to change and get to church to help Elizabeth take the money for dinner. I enjoy helping and seeing everybody. Once we finished I ran back home to get a few things done before choir practice. Choir practice was good.

Dan was having dinner with some guys from work. He was very late getting in so I stayed up and worked on some spread sheets for work. It is so much easier to use my laptop instead of waiting on the one computer at work. Pilot decided though that it was time for me to stop and play with her for a while. Oh, my goodness she is a handful these days.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those hugs. Cherish every minute you have with your children! Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

August 19, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a short day at work. I had a few things to do and then instead of sit doing nothing while waiting on phone calls I decided to make use of my time doing other stuff. I clocked out and headed toward Montgomery. I checked everywhere in Prattville for a kitchen set for Lydie's birthday. Uggh, this meant having to go to Toys r us. This is so hard! Going in was tough but once in was even harder. I remembered every time we had ever been and everything Avery would say. I remembered the time that she was just walking real good and would not get out of the playhouse. She loved the playhouse so much and it was getting close to Christmas so of course Santa brought the playhouse. She loved to go upstairs and play in her house. She had a couch and television hooked up in her playhouse and she would sit in there for hours. Oh, how the memories keep flooding back while I was in that place. Luckily I found what I wanted really quick and was out in no time.

From there I went to the Honey Baked ham store. We got a gift certificate for Christmas and just have not had time to use it until now. I can't believe that I found it to use. While there I got a call that I needed to go back by the office and deliver some charity day tickets to Millbrook. So I headed back and took care of that.

Once I got home I got busy getting ready for our special visitors. Dan went to the office in Montgomery today. We planned to grill out and possibly eat before meeting with our new special friends. We didn't make it but had a wonderful visit. Some things are still hard to talk about. Disney World is something that we can talk about because of all of the happy memories. She loved that place more than anything. I am so happy that we were able to go as many times as we did. We would have gone more but at the time we thought we had so much time left. We are very thankful to Steve and Tom for running in this event and for running for Avery. We are very excited and hopefully Dan will be able to put a link on the website in the next few days so you all can check out what they are doing. Thank you Dena for making this happen and setting up the meeting. We look forward to seeing you both again real soon.

Thank you all for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us as we need strength to get through each day. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those hugs. Do something super fun tonight with your kids! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . . . . Gene Ann

August 18, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Monday! Wow, what a busy day. So I am officially in the system at work now. Things have been so busy that they haven't had time to set me up but now I am in the system. So now I have to remember to clock in and out.

We have been busy planning all of our events. It is such a fun job. Dan still thinks it is just play and thinks that its not work unless there is stress involved.

Big news! We are meeting with some new friends tomorrow night that are running in the Disney marathon in January for Avery. They want to come talk with us about what they are going to do. We are very excited about this. Any money raised toward research of any type of childhood cancer research makes us smile! I know Avery will be watching over these guys and making sure that they have the time of their lives in Disney. It was her most favorite place in the world!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery so very much today. . . . . Gene Ann

August 17, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Well, I didn't make it to church this morning. We are all worn out around here. Even Pilot seemed to be tired today. I have a few projects to get done this week as well as working. We took today to rest and still managed to get some things done.

I went to the grocery store seeing how we were out of things Dan will need this week. This will be his first week here without having lunch brought to his office. Thank goodness he will here to help some with Pilot. She has become wild dog at night because she is not getting the attention she normally does during the day. We have got to get her a place outside that she can run and play. Hopefully we can take care of that this week. She loves it outside.

This coming week is very busy with work and other activities. The baby shower is next weekend so I am sure I will be busy getting ready for that too. I better start on my honey do list now.

Thank you all for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have recently lost loved ones. Don't forget those hugs! Don't forget dessert too! Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

August 16, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok so we were 40 minutes behind schedule today but that is good for us. We decided to start the day off with pedicures. It was wonderful but our little buddy was missing. Somethings will never be the same again and that is one of them.

After pedicures we decided to eat lunch. We all wanted something a little different so we decided on Jim and Nick's for BBQ nachos. It was so yummy and the best part of the trip was the four baskets of cheese muffins (we took home three baskets). The waiter felt so bad that it so long to get the first order that he kept bringing them out. They were mighty tasty later that night.

Then I had to stop by Belk and pick up some sheets that I had meant to purchase yesterday but got so busy I forgot to do so. I just can't get enough of that place and really can't wait for the new store to open!

We then had to head home to change and get to Birmingham for Picasso Pets. Jennie met us and off we went. We did manage to make a stop or two along the way. Picasso Pets was fabulous! The way they honored Avery was so touching but at the same time made my heart smile. I may have had tears in my eyes but the words and pictures reminded me of such happy times. She has touched so many lifes and continues to do so each and every day. We will continue to do the things she would want us to do. It was so great seeing all of her favorite people and doggies. The hardest part of the night was seeing a little girl that was diagnosed in late May ironically with the same tumor as Avery. She is five and my heart aches for the whole family. I can't seem to get them off of my mind. I know all too well the journey inwhich they are beginning however I have so much hope that a cure is going to be found. We have to pray hard and dig deep into our pockets to make this happen. Thank you Hand in Paw for all you do for those who need you. You made going to treatment a treat for Avery and you will all have a special place in our hearts forever!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us as each day still presents new and more difficult challenges than the day before. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have recently lost loved ones. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Have dessert first and think of Avery. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Princess Fiona more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

August 15, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Another very busy day. But I love being busy and it sure does make the time fly by. Before I could turn around good it was time to go home. I love my job!

I had errands to run before going home. Once home I had to cook the lasagna and get everything ready. While the lasagna was cooking we all went to Re-Threads to see what was left in the last days of the big sale. I managed to find two things. We then went and picked up the lasagna and then went to visit for a while.

When I got home I had to get things ready for Grandmother and Natileigh. We had originally planned to go to the beach this weekend but a few things have come up. Picassso Pets is this weekend. Last year they featured Avery with a video and she was kind of the star of the night. Well, we received tickets in the mail last week and hear they are going to pay tribute to Avery in true Avery fashion so we really hate to not be there. It should be a fun event and that is where Avery would want us to be. Seeing her favorite people and favorite puppy dogs!

Natileigh and Grandmother made it here a little before 9:00 pm. We all had a snack, talked for bit, made our plan for tomorrow and then went to bed. It should be a good girls weekend. I just miss Avery so much. I can just hear her saying "Grandmother what is for breakfast. . . . can we go to the nail place and house of java tomorrow. . . . .I know, I know, lets go to Applebee's for lunch!" Oh, how I miss her!

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost ones recently. Please don't forget the hugs and special times! Make the most of everyday no matter what the situation or circumstances are! Until next time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . .Gene Ann

August 14, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Another early day today. I got to work early so that I could take Mark the new assistant store manager to drop his car off at Gipson's tires. I also helped get the breakfast goodies out for our traveling guests.

The rest of the day was filled with more of the same. I did make contacts and set up several meetings for next week. This job is incredible and so much fun. I was telling Dan all about it and he said "that doesn't sound like work. . . you need a little stress!" It is stress free so far but I know the closer to Grand Opening the more stressful it will become.

After work Debbie, Jennie and Pam came over to help me hang some pictures. We had a great time visiting. Then we realized it was time to get to church for line dancing. I think I am going to be sore tomorrow morning because we worked extra hard tonight.

I got home changed into my comfy clothes and took Pilot for a walk. While walking Pilot I realized that I still had to go to the grocery store. Pam, Jennie and I are taking dinner to a family in our church tomorrow night. The family just lost their only grandson in a tragic accident last weekend. None of us were able to attend the funeral. So, I went back in changed and went to the grocery store. When I got back in I made a big pan of lasagna all I have to do now is cook it tomorrow night. From there I went upstairs to log in a few appointments for next week and print them off. By this time Pilot was very ready for bed and demanding that I stop what I was doing. I can't wait for Dan to get back so he can help me with her a little. The house has been very quiet this week. I miss the imagination of a five year old telling me "mommy we are having a wedding tonight. . .I'm going to marry Big Al. . . . .mommy we need cake, flowers and music. . . . ok mommy ok. . . . lets get started!" Oh how I miss those times!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those have lost ones recently. Please join us in praying for a cure! Don't forget to hug, hug, hug and to cherish every minute that you have with your children. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . .Gene Ann

August 13, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a great day! I left home at 7:00 am and headed for the Chamber for our Charity Day breakfast. I arrived at the chamber around 7:10 we unlocked and began setting up for the breakfast. We had not been in the building very long when the alarm went off and kept chirping loudly. We finished setting up and I began making phone calls to see what could be done about the alarm. Jennie had to come in early to take care of it because nothing we did seemed to work. At one point I thought I was loosing my hearing but after the alarm was silenced we all began to hear normal soon.

The breakfast went well. We just have a few minor adjustments to make before the next one in September. It was great to getting to meet Elaina from corporate. She was so much help and pretty much ran the show. The next breakfast will be up to me and the boss so we took plenty of notes.

After cleaning up and packing up we headed back to the store. Once there we prepared for the chamber luncheon. We packed up 50 gift bags and a door prize then before we turned around good it was time to go to lunch. I know what a job! I love it!

The rest of the day was spent brainstorming, preparing for job fair, oh and shopping. Did I mention how much I love my job. Mark and I went shopping for gift bags for out of town interviewers for job fair. When we got back from shopping we put the gift bags together. Once we finished with that it was time to call it a day.

Tonight I helped at church with Wednesday night supper. I helped Elizabeth take the money. We had a small crowd tonight but I guess it will just take a while for everyone to get back into the swing of things. Ok, so another night of not cooking I just don't know how to act. Three full meals today that I did not prepare. Makes me wonder if this job is going to be good for the diet or not? I thought of Avery so many times today especially when Salem (boss) wanted something done and wanted it fancy. I thought of the "Fancy Nancy" series of books and how many times we read those. Avery loved those books and we would act out the book and dress her up just like "Fancy Nancy."

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long big hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . .Missing Avery more than ever today. . . . . . .Gene Ann

August 12, 2008

Hello Everybody,

So far so good! Ok so I got to work early and could not get in. The store does not open until 10:00 right now. I got to work and could not get in because no one gave me the code to get in the employee entrance. I did finally catch someone going in and went in with them. Just one little minor thing no one thought of but no big deal.

Once inside I met Mary Ann and we began working on give-a-way bags for us to take to all of the upcoming events. We worked for several hours on this making sure that they were perfect. After that we had to work on sorting Charity Day tickets. Before we would turn around good it was time for lunch (passed time actually).

After lunch we worked on bags again and then decided to go check out the meeting room at the chamber for the meeting in the morning. What we didn't know was that it was pouring down rain. We got soaked! It was very funny.

I had a great day and am sure that I am going to really enjoy this job. Pilot is not sure yet if she likes me working or not. She did very good today in the crate but wanted my undivided attention tonight. We will have to work on this. Next week will be better for her because Dan will be home.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for all of those that have lost ones recently. Don't forget those super long extra tight bear hugs. Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . Gene Ann

August 11, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I was at the dentist office at 7:30 this morning and all is good. Nothing has to be done this time. Wow! That is a really good thing because it has been a while since that has happened. After my appointment I had several errands to take care of before going back to Grandmother's and then getting on the road. I got everything taken care of and then headed back early so I would not be rushed.

I stopped by the house and took care of a few things before heading to work. I got to work a little early. Today was mainly paper work. I was also given my Belk book and a binder that my boss had put together for me. We went over everything for the week. This is going to be a super fun job but extremely busy!

After work I ran home to finish up a thing or two. I decided to check email and realized that I had a Relay for Life committee meeting. I got there just in time. It was a very good meeting. Committee assignments were made for next years relay. We had a very good crowd there and are hopeful that the numbers will continue to increase.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends! Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long big hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

August 10, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I got up and went to the 9:40 service at church this morning. I then sang in the choir for the 11:00 service. After that I ran home to grab a few things to head toward Alabaster for Kari's graduation party. When I got home though Dan needed to do a few things before I could leave so I ended up being an hour behind schedule but while waiting on Dan I did get a few things done.

I finally made it to Alabaster and helped finish setting up for the party. The food and fellowship was wonderful. I enjoyed seeing everyone. Before I could turn around good it was time to head toward Jasper to Grandmother and Granddaddy's house. I have a dental appointment early tomorrow morning in Jasper so spending the night with them makes it much easier. Dan leaves tomorrow morning very early for San Juan. I will not see him again until Saturday night. Poor Pilot will have to stay in the crate this week some while I work.

I got to Grandmother and Granddaddy's just in time to visit with Sammy, Kat, Ronny and Jane. It was good to see them all. They had all been painting and were finishing up for the day.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to pray for those families that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long big hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . . .Gene Ann

August 9, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Another super busy day! I got up early which Dan was already on a conference call. Yes, Saturday and he had two calls that I know of for sure. I made a big pot of cheese grits with bacon. I took him a bowl then got ready so I could get to Toastmasters.

After my meeting I had to stop several places to get a few things we needed. Dan will be leaving early Monday morning for San Juan so he needed a few things. Once I finished all of this I went home and started making buffalo dip for Kari's graduation party which is tomorrow.

Before I could turn around good it was time to head to Pelham for the Ride for Kids Dinner and Auction benefiting Pediatric Brain Tumor Foundation. Jennie went with me and we had a great time. This years ride is dedicated to Avery. I must admit that it was very difficult to be there but at the same time very healing for me. They had several slide shows from previous rides and it was great seeing pictures of Avery so happy and healthy. Those are the pictures that I love to see. Molly and her family were there. I always enjoy seeing Molly and all of the Bailey's! The auction was great and I managed to spend a little money. Next year though Dan better get ready because I'm taking the check book! I would like to thank Bill and Joyce for iviting us and for all they do for Ride for Kids! We love you all!

After the auction we stopped by the Gonthier's house to drop off a few serving pieces for the graduation party. When I say drop off I mean it literally seeing how I dropped one of my beverage jars and it broke into a million pieces. Thank goodness it was in the box so it was contained. Also there is one just like it in the attic and hopefully I can replace this one someday soon.

We then headed back to Prattville. By this time it was getting late. I dropped Jennie off and headed home. When I got home I had several things to do before going to bed. I was upstairs finishing up some invitations when the front door bell rang at 12:58. Ok Dan was not home and at first I thought it was him to let me know to move my car so I called him to see and he did not answer so I did not answer the door. It scared me pretty bad. There is a group of kids that have done this before during the day and early afternoon. They ring the bell and then run hide and laugh when you come to the door to find no one. We think this is what happened again. But goodness did it ever scare me. After the big scare Pilot and I tried to go to bed but ended up watching the Olympics for at least an hour.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to pray for those that have lost ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long big hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery so very much today. . . . . .Gene Ann

August 8, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today is 8-8-08 and has proved to be a very good day. My interview was at 4:00 pm. I was 20 minutes early which he loved! I had the job and was on my way back home by 4:05. When I called Dan he said "how did you get the job in less than 5 minutes!" My reply was I'm just that good oh and I was 20 minutes early!

I start on Monday afternoon. It is going to be a fun job with no set schedule. I will make appointments set-up events and get the town ready for Grand Opening. I am very excited and can't wait to hit the ground running.

We went out to celebrate tonight. We have another new restaurant in town and it was wonderful. Cobbs Ford Bar and Grill was great. Charlie and Jennie joined us for dinner. It was nice to be back out on a Friday night in Prattville. It seems like months since we have been out together on a Friday night.

Once we got home I had to walk Pilot and Dan decided to go visit with Scott. Pilot and I were sound asleep when he got home. She has been a very good dog the last few days. She still thinks I should sit all day pet and hold her. She is quite demanding at times.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones lately. Don't forget the super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

August 7, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Dan and I had blizzards for lunch today. I have to say it was a little emotional walking in Dairy Queen but then I saw so many people eating blizzards and I knew hey I'm suppose to be here. Mr. Elrod was working hard preparing blizzards. We got to talk for just a minute. He pointed to the wall beside the counter and said "you see where we put our angel." There was an 8x10 picture of Avery with her cake she decorated last year. She was smiling so big and was so happy. I treasure those memories of my happy, healthy precious Princess Fiona (that was when she only answered to Fiona). Our blizzards were very good and I they promissed me that the fat had been taken out of mine (haha).

Before getting blizzards I had a thing or two to do in town. I ran by to see Alyson and then stopped by Belk. Our Belk store is closing soon and will be closed for two months until the new store opens so I wanted to see what was left. I got a couple of things to put up for Christmas. Ok so this afternoon my cell phone rings and it is Belk (the new manager). I immediately think ok so what did I leave at Belk. He starts talking and then offers me a two month job doing marketing and public relations with Belk until the new store opens. I am going tomorrow at 4:00 to talk more about the position. I am really excited! This is something that I have always wanted to do! WOW!

Ok so I guess you are wondering how he found out about me when I have not sent out any resumes. He called the chamber and they recommended me. The best part of this is I have been telling people I was ready to go back to work just in a networking kind of way. Dan has been on my case about not sending out resumes for everything I find on the computer and in the paper he has even been sending me jobs that he thinks I should apply for mostly ones that require heavy travel. He told me that a job was not just going to fall in my lap and I told him it would. Well guess what it did.

I cooked dinner early tonight so that I could work off dinner and the blizzard at line dancing. I think I needed three hours instead of an hour and a half. Oh, well we had fun! We all have homework for this week to work on a new step that seemed to kick us all. Maybe it will not be as tough next week.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray as I interview tomorrow that all goes well (I haven't done this in quite some time). Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron (MRI on August 16th), Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin (was able to go home tonight), Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long big bear hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Princess Fiona today. . . . .Gene Ann

****Thank you to all that had blizzards today! We loved hearing the stories of the blizzard experiences. I know Avery smiled and laughed at us all today because she was very proud of what we were doing! Thank you!*********

August 7, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Ken! We hope that you have a wonderful day filled with many blessings and lots of surprises. Have dessert (Blizzards) first today in memory of Avery. We love you!

*****Don't forget to go to Dairy Queen today and buy Blizzards! Every Blizzard sold increases the donations sent to Children's Hospital. If you go to the Prattville Dairy Queen go inside I hear there is a picture of Avery on the wall. Maybe we will see you there!******

More later. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever today. . . . . Gene Ann

August 6, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Another busy day! Dan had to be on a conference call early again. I had a few things to do downtown so I headed out early. I went by Touch of New York to drop off a few things I had found while cleaning the other day. I got to talking to Jan and then in walked Cindy, Donna, Debbie and the gang. We all ended up going to lunch together for Donna's birthday. We had a great time. It is so much fun to get together with all of them.

After lunch I had to go track down some old banking records. We banked with AmSouth so finally I was able to get what I needed at Regions. They were very helpful. So now I can get the title replaced to the car we sold Sammy. The only title we could not find was that one but I am sure it will show up now that all of the paper work has been sent in for the second time. Is that not the way it happens?

Dan and I decided to meet at Mellow Mushroom after choir practice. He just needed to go for a ride or do something while I was at choir because he just needed to get out of the house. He is working very hard these days and it seems to never stop. Since he is working from home he tends to work even more hours because it is so hard to find a stopping place. Not to mention that the office is always there.

We met and had dinner. He is so stressed out lately that dinner was not an enjoyable time. He was getting e-mails on his phone and well he just can only take so much. I ended up coming home getting Pilot and going for a drive myself. I just needed to get out for a little bit. Pilot enjoyed her drive. She does pretty good until she decides that she wants in my lap. We rode and then decided to go home and go to bed.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all especially this week as school starts (Avery would have been starting Kindergarten tomorrow). Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron (MRI on August 16th), Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna (Congratulations on your big award), Krystin (counts are slowly coming up), Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to pray for the families that have lost ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long big bear hugs! Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery so very much. . . . Gene Ann

*****August 7th, Dairy Queen, Miracle Treat Day, Buy a Blizzard and help Children's Hospital! Take the office for Blizzards, take the kids, just get blizzards! ********

August 5, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was overall a great day! I managed to get a few things done around the house then started my errands. I picked up baby shower invitations and grabbed lunch for Dan and myself. He wanted Chinese so that is what I got. After eating his lunch he decided he didn't want any dinner tonight.

After lunch I went to get a haircut. I feel ten pounds lighter after getting rid of so much hair. Same cut just shaping and texturizing. When I was finished with that I realized it was Tuesday so the farmer's market was open. Boy it went from six or seven booths to two. But I still managed to get everything I wanted.

I got back home and back to work making a grocery list. Dan had a meeting in Wetumpka so he left for that. I went over to see Jennie and show her the ivitations. We chatted for a little while then I headed toward the grocery store. As I was walking into the grocery store there was a woman with three cute little girls walking out. One of the little girls was hysterical screaming, crying and the mom was just yelling at her. The mom was so ugly to the little girl and acted like she didn't want any of them. It was all I could do to not say something. As I entered the store I started crying and thinking how unfair somethings are. I had a little girl that I loved more than anything. I would do anything to keep her happy and to love her to have my special time each day with her. How there are so many people out there with children that don't care and really don't want the children that they have. How unfair it all is! So then I had to start thinking on a different path before I became hysterical. GOD had a plan HE needed Avery early to help HIM with HIS plan. I know she is in good hands and helping to do great and wonderful things. She is still with us just in a different way now. It helps some to think this way but I still get upset at seeing children mistreated.

By the time I got home it was getting late and I decided that I needed a snack. I came in and made mommy mac and cheese. This was Dan and Avery's favorite. It is pretty bad when you go to the trouble to make home made mac and cheese and Dan says "I like mommy mac and cheese so much better!" Well, mommy style is simply Kraft in the box with all kinds of stuff added to make it creamy. EASY! Avery named it mommy mac and cheese.

I was upstairs working on address labels for the baby shower when Dan brought me my phone. It was Pam telling me that Donna was over at her house with the UpperCase Living catalog, measuring stick and they were working on her order. I went right over to see what they had come up with. It was fun looking at all of the stuff and seeing what they decided to put where and the colors that they had picked out. When I got back home there was Dan and Pilot all snug and sound asleep. It was time to call it a day.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron (MRI on August 16th), Ann Marie, Bayleigh (counts ANC is very low), Erin, Janna, Krystin (still in patient with very low counts), Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones recently. Please pray for Grandmother and Granddaddy. Don't forget those super tight extra long bear hugs. Take time to do something special today with your children! Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

*******Miracle Treat Day, Dairy Queen, August 7th (all day). Buy a blizzard and help Children's Hospital. ************

August 4, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Not much going on here. I worked all day in the front of the house. I just recently realized that the guest room was in dire need of some attention. I spent most of the day working there and I must say it is once again ready for guests.

Dan worked all day upstairs. He is really busy this week again with conference calls and projects. He finally took a break around 6:30 and went to visit with his parents for a couple of hours. When he got home it was back upstairs for a couple of hours and then to bed. He works all of the time and just when he thinks he might get a break something pops up and he gets even more busy.

Pilot has been very good today. I could not find her and was looking everywhere wondering what she was into. Finally I looked down and there she was nice and snug in her crate taking a nap. She stayed there for several hours. I put her in once earlier in the day because she was barking non-stop. She doesn't want me to do anything but sit and hold her. She barks when I am on the computer, cooking . . . whatever it is that I am doing if I'm not sitting holding her or giving her something to eat. She can be a handful. We are still working on the not barking at other dogs when we are walking. So far it is not working.

Tomorrow Dan has calls all day again. I have several errands to run and an appointment to get a haircut. Don't forget that Miracle Treat Day is August 7th (Thursday) buy a blizzard and help out Children's Hospital. Saturday, August 9th, 6:00 pm is a dinner and auction to benefit Ride for Kids (Pediatric Brain Tumor Foundation). It will be at Hope Christian School in Pelham. Admission is $10 which includes food, soft drinks, entertainment and 5 door prize tickets.

Today when I got the mail I had a very nice surprise. When I pulled the mail out of the box who's picture did I see? Well, of course Avery's. She is once again a star! This years Ride for Kids is dedicated to Avery and there she was on the cover of the mail out with her best buddy Molly. It brought a big smile to my face and Dan's! We miss her so much!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron (MRI on Aug. 16th pray for clear scans), Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krsytin (still in patient), Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for all of those families that have lost ones recently. Please pray for a cure. Don't forget those extra tight super long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . . . Gene Ann

August 4, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Grandmother! We hope that today brings you many blessings and loads of surprises! We love you very much! We hope that all good things come your way today. . . . Don't forget to have cake first today. . . . Love, Dan and Gene Ann

August 3, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Uncle Jimmy! We hope you have a wonderful day filled with many blessings, lots of memories and good food. We love you and hope you have a great day!

Today was a busy day. We decided to move some things around at Grandmother's. We re-arranged a few things boxed a few things and before we could turn around it was time for me to pack up and go. I did manage to stop and have lunch with Sammy, Sherri and Granddaddy before heading out.

After that I had to get back to Prattville. I had a couple of stops to make along the way. I came in unloaded the car and got to work. I had to make the most of it before going and getting Pilot. I did as much as I could. I got Pilot and that ended me doing anything. She just wanted me to sit and hold her while she slept. She was worn out from playing.

Dan got in late. They didn't win this year and he was very dissappointed with the way he played. He was very tired. We have a very busy week ahead of us. I think I have something every night this week and weekend. Then Dan leaves for San Juan for a week with work. This is good timing for him to be gone with a girls trip coming up and a baby shower too.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron (MRI is coming up on August 16th), Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin (still in patient with low counts), Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please remember all of the families that have lost loved ones recently. Don't forget those super tight extra long big hugs. Until Next time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . .Gene Ann

August 2, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was an exhausting day. We found so much to do to keep us busy. Granddaddy worked outside all day and he got too hot. Grandmother and myself worked inside boxing up some of Natiliegh's things.

I talked to Dan and he didn't play too well in the tournament today. They are 10 under today and hopeful that tomorrow will be a better round for them. I sure hope so!

I am going to try to head back toward Prattville early enough tomorrow to take care of a few things when I get back. I have to get a night stand for the guest room. It has an accent table that Dan just hates and he has always been afraid that it is going to fall so the time has come to put a real night stand in the room. We have another busy week ahead. Next Saturday night August 9th at 6:00 pm there is a dinner and Auction to benefit Ride for Kids. I will post the details when I get back home. I am planning to attend and hoping that Dan will be able to go with me. This years ride is dedicated to Avery.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Remember to pray for Lemos, Mangrum and Starnes/Lockhart families. Don't forget those super tight extra long big bear hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

August 2, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Jane! We hope that you have a wonderful day filled with more blessings than candles. We also hope that there are lots and lots of surprises today. Have a big a piece of cake! We love you! Love, Dan and Gene Ann. . . . .more to come about our days if the website will cooperate. . . . Missing Avery so very much today

August 1, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok, so I have tried to update for some reason the website server is very picky these days. Some days it has taken me six hours or more to get an update posted. I am hoping that Dan has a few minutes next week to take a look and hopefully repair what needs taking care of.

Today was a very busy day. Dan had to be on a conference call at 7:00 am that did not end until 12:15 pm. Poor guy! I am still amazed that the cordless phone lasted for the entire time. Around 10:00 am I stopped what I was doing and cooked him a real meal. I was thinking poor Dan hasn't had anything this morning and can't yell down here to let me know what he needs. I didn't dare interrupt his call. So I cooked grilled pork chops, three cheese augratin potatoes, mexican corn, fresh rolls and took him a tray at 11:00. He was very happy to get food but even happier when the call was finally over.

I took Pilot and dropped her off in Charlie and Jennie's backyard. She didn't seem to mind until she figured out that I was gone. As I was pulling out of the driveway I could hear her then I could see her begging to go with me. I later found out that she was having fun and being better than usual.

I headed to Jasper as Dan headed for Opp. I am hoping that one weekend real soon we can be in the same place at the same time. Hopefully August 30th for college football. I am so ready for the games. I love college football. Dan is already talking smack about how Bama is going to loose their first game. I have been really quiet but have one thing to say "Appalacian State!"

We went tonight and had dinner at Sammy and Sherri's. Sammy was at work and Lydie was wide open. We all got tired just watching her.

Check out Brayden's website! The power of orange is unbelievable! I am working right now on getting things arranged for Grandmother and myself to attend the bridge dedication and 5k walk. I talked with Ms. Francine yesterday and today. She is so very excited and makes the most amazing things happen. She is wonderful! We love you Francine!

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all as each new day presents so many new and more difficult challenges. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin (still in patient), Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to lift up the Lemos, Mangrum and Starnes/Lockhart families. Please pray for Grandmother and Granddaddy. Don't forget those super tight extra long big huge hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like never before. . . . .Gene Ann

July 31, 2008

Hello Everybody,

What a wonderful day! We didn't do much until almost time to attend the Relay for Life meeting. Dan decided he needed to do some shopping which is a rare thing for him. We went to Belk to get him a few things (mainly shorts). He got what he needed and a few other things as well. As we were walking back to our seperate cars he said he just could not go to the meeting. He just isn't ready for that yet. I understand and only he will know when he is ready for things like this.

The relay meeting was wonderful. It was so great to see so many familar faces. Mrs. Lynn, Mrs. Kim and Ms. April were there. They announced all of the winners from Relay. Congratulations to First United Methodist Church Mom's Day Out "Shrekin for a Cure" team raised the most money this year! How awesome that is. Thank you all for all you did! Avery's Army (Trinity United Methodist Church) came in 5th place overall with money.

Before they revealed next years theme they asked me to speak. I thought I can do this. It was much harder than I ever expected and I really had to hold back the tears. I got through it though and then they made the big announcement that next years theme was inspired by us "We are declaring war on cancer!" Avery's Army will be a perfect fit! Thank you again to all of those that worked so hard this year for Relay. There is still money coming in and right now the total is upwards of $63,000. We are excited about next years Relay and plan to help in anyway we possibly can. That is what Avery would want us to do!

After the meeting I ran by church to give Pam the good news. They were all finished with line dancing (I hate I had to miss but I was where I needed to be). By the time I got home poor Pilot was in the crate with no lights on. The poor thing was scared to death. We went for a walk. I fed her then she informed me it was time to get in the big chair so she could curl up in my lap for a while. We were both snoozing in the big chair when Dan came in.

Tomorrow I am planning to go and visit with Grandmother and Granddaddy for a couple of days. Dan is going with Melanie to Opp for a big golf tournament. I had planned to go with them but I need to check in on the family. Please continue to pray for Grandmother and Granddaddy.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin (is in-patient right now due to fever), Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please continue to remember the Lemos, Mangrum and Starnes/Lockhart families in your prayers as well. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . .Gene Ann

*****Thursday, August 7th, Dairy Queen, Miracle Treat Day. Buy a Blizzard and help support Children's Hospital! *******

July 30, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Not much to report today. Just the same old thing today. Except I did meet Jennie at the Polka Dot Zebra to pick out invitations for Alyson's baby brunch. Hopefully planning this event will keep me busy for a couple of weeks. The brunch will be on Saturday, August 23rd at our house.

I talked to Natileigh today we are planning a girls weekend at the beach. Hopefully if all goes well we will be able to go the weekend before the baby brunch. She will then begin her last year of school. Two more semesters and she will be done.

I've been getting funny messages from Avery lately. While in Boston we were in the Dollar Store which was one of Avery's favorite places to go and believe it or not I found an Ursala figurine from "The Little Mermaid." Well, I had to buy it because as most of you know Grandmother was Ursala for months while Avery was Ariel. She would say to me "call Ursala and see if she can come visit today. . . . . call Ursala and tell her I have my voice!" It was all so funny! Ok so Sunday in the paper was an Ashton-Drake order form for the "It's Good to Be Bad" Disney ornament collection. There they all were Step Mother, Ursala and Malificent. I haven't ordered it yet but plan to do so soon. All of her favorite villains in one collection. The best part of it all was Grandmother was always the villain, Avery was always the princess and I was always "Fairy Godmother" or whatever good helpful character there was. I always liked being the good one. It was always so much fun to watch her doing her role playing and telling us all what we were suppose to say. I miss that so much and often find myself reciting lines from "Shrek," "Little Mermaid" and "Cinderella" as well as lines from "Hannah Montana." The house is now quiet even with the radio on or television on and the dog barking. It is missing the vivid imagination of a five year old. I even miss hearing "mommy I'm hungry whats for lunch. . . . .can I eat now?"

Tomorrow night we will attend the Relay for Life meeting. We will do everything possible to help find a cure and help fund more research. We will keep her memory alive!

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to keep us in your prayers praying mostly for strength. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Remember the Lemos, Mangrum and Starnes/Lockhart families in your prayers. Please help us to pray for a cure! Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

July 30, 2008

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July 30, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Uncle Ronny (Jasper) and Juliana "5" (California). We hope that today brings you both many blessings, wonderful memories and lots of surprises. Have your cake first today in memory of Avery. We love you both! More later. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . Gene Ann and Dan

July 29, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I had to get up early to make it to my meeting in Montgomery. The meeting was great and I can't wait to get started as a counselor with SCORE. The part I think that I am most excited about is using my marketing skills once again. After the meeting I headed back to Prattville stopping several places along the way home to take care of things like getting the oil changed and buying groceries.

Once I got in and put away the groceries it was time to prepare lunch. I had gotten a new recipe for taco salads at Grandmother's so I thought how easy. It took ten minutes to make and was really good. Dan came down got his lunch but had to go back upstairs to eat. He is overloaded this week with conference calls. I don't think he got more than a ten minute break today without a call.

Pilot and I went for a couple of walks and worked some in the kitchen. She is right there with me no matter what I am doing. She is a pretty good dog as Avery would say. Speaking of that I forgot to share a story with you from yesterday. I was heading to Jasper for my Aunts funeral and I stopped to get gas before going that way. I was really dreading the ride and had been praying and talking to Avery. After I pumped the gas I turned the corner to get back in the car and there on the ground near the car were two shiny pennies laying on the ground. I bent over picked them up and thanked Avery for letting me know that things were going to be ok. I took this as a sign that everything will be ok and will work out. I was really worried about Granddaddy and Grandmother and there was the sign from above to TRUST in GOD, BELIEVE and it will all work out. Sometimes we just need that little reminder and there it was.

Dan has decided that it is time for me to go back to work. He is sending me job postings from Monster. He wants me to go back into sales but I really want to do something with meaning and most preferably non-profit. My background is really in marketing/public relations. However I worked with Campbell's in the sales arena for six years. We will just have to wait and see what happens.

I have talked with Grandmother several times today. Granddaddy is taking the closing pretty hard as we all expected he would. I am probaby going back to Jasper tomorrow to help out. I would have stayed but I didn't think I could handle the closing process. It is really a sad time for our entire family. Please continue to pray for Grandmother and Granddaddy.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please remember the Lemos (Sebastian), Mangrum and Starnes/Lockhart (Aunt Marie) families in your prayers. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

****Thursday, August 7th any Dairy Queen location is Miracle Treat Day. Each blizzard purchase gives Children's Hospital money. Please consider having blizzards on that day in Memory of Avery!*****

July 28, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Today was a sad day for our family in so many ways. I traveled to Jasper to attend the services for my Aunt Marie. The gathering was sad the service was sweet and beautiful. We were able to see so many family members some that were with us for Avery's service and some that were not. This was difficult seeing those that were not. Most of them not knowing what to say to us. I will say that your prayers get us through each day.

The other sad news is that my dad is closing the doors tomorrow to his store. The business is just not there anymore and the cost of keeping the operation going is just to tremendous. We have so many good memories most of those being when Avery would ask to go help Granddaddy at the store. She never learned the name of the store it was just simply "the store" or "Granddaddy's store!" Please pray for Grandmother and Granddaddy as they begin this transition.

My brother Sammy and his family attended the service. Well, I should say they tried to attend but Lydie would not cooperate so they ended up chasing her outside. She is almost two and wide open (which would really be an understatement). She would run as fast as she could and squeal as loud as she could. She is very active and never sits still!

After the service I went back to the house ate dinner and headed back home. I have an early morning SCORE meeting in the morning. I just re-joined after taking a two year leave of absence. I really hated to miss my second meeting back but was torn with leaving at the same time. I had to get home and check on Pilot she and Dan didn't get along very well today. She had a couple of accidents and he doesn't like that and well she is very good for me. Does this sound like someone we all know? Hmmm, I remember a certain little girl sitting on the potty for over an hour several times because Daddy didn't wipe her butt the right way and only mommy could do it right so she would just sit and wait. Well, the dog only goes potty for me outside and I guess I am the only one that knows her sign language of when she has to go. I beat Dan home so Pilot got some extra special loving since I know he scolded her. Hopefully they will bond one day soon.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please remember the Lemos, Mangrum and Starnes/Lockhart families in your prayers. Please pray for Grandmother and Granddaddy as they begin their new transition. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Enjoy every minute of everyday! Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

July 27, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I made it to church this morning. This was my first time having to leave the service early to get to the choir room in preparation for the 11:00 am service. We practiced our song several times (thank goodness). Then it was time to go in and do our thing. It was amazing. I am so glad that I have joined the choir and look forward to doing this every Sunday that I possibly can. After church I decided to pick up lunch so I could get everything done around the house before Pilot and Dan got home. I got very busy but didn't seem to get very much done. Oh, I can tell what has been but so many things need to be done like cleaning off the dinning room table that is still thank-you note centeral. Hopefully I will be able to accomplish completing that task this week and then it can all be filed away. I decided I better get the kitchen mopped before I went to get Pilot. I mopped myself out the door and headed to get her. She was so happy to get back home. She was such a good girl this afternoon.

The most wonderful part of my day and probably my week came in the early evening. I got a phone call from the Bailey family. Miss Molly called to see how I was doing. Oh, this was incredible! It was so good to hear all of their voices. They had seen the trailer (Ride for Kids) this past week and had to call to share how awesome it was to see it in person. Ride for Kids will be September 14th at Barber Motor Sports Complex. Dan and I are planning to ride. This will be tough but we have to support this event because it is this organization that will hopefully find the cure!

Dan made it home around 10:30. He was hot and tired. He took a shower and then headed to bed. Pilot started out in the crate but somewhere during the night ended up curled up next to me. We have a very busy week ahead of us. Thursday night is the Relay for Life meeting that we have been asked to attend. We will be there and happy to help in any way we possibly can.

My Aunt Marie's service will be tomorrow night Monday, 28th. They will be accepting friends at 6:00 pm and the service will be at 7:00 pm. The family wanted a small intimate service with family and close friends. I will be traveling to Jasper sometime tomorrow. Dan has a very busy week and will probably not be able to go with me.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Remember to pray for the Lemos and Mangrum families. Please pray for my Aunt Marie's family. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Do something extra special before school starts like going to the zoo or a picnic in the park (our favorite was a big fancy tea party).Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

*****Just a reminder that Miracle Treat Day at the Dairy Queen is Thursday, August 7th. Please go by your local Dairy Queen and purchase Blizzards on that day. Each blizzard purchased the proceeds go to Children's Hospital. I think we might have Blizzards for lunch that day in memory of Avery!*******

July 26, 2008

Hello Everybody,

We had not planned to go to the air show today. Grandmother and myself just didn't feel up to it. The weather didn't seem as though it was going to cooperate for an outdoor event. However we decided to go seeing how we got so many phone calls wanting us to come join the fun.

We left Grandmother's house around 1:30 and headed to the lake. The air show was suppose to begin at 4:00 pm. I had decided to just leave after the air show and head straight home. So we met at Sammy and Sherri's house then went to Jerry and Angie's to eat and watch the air show. First of all the food was amazing! The air show was incredible! The weather cleared off just in time and was perfect!

It was nice seeing everybody! I decided it was time to get on the road so I followed Grandmother and Granddaddy out as to not get lost. As we were coming back into Boldo they pulled over I was thinking why didn't they call me. Well I had no service. They had just received a phone call that Granddaddy's sister Marie passed away. So I went to Grandmother and Granddaddy's until we could get some information. I sat with them for an hour or so and then headed home seeing how it will Monday before anything can be done.

The ride home was tough at times. I had too much time to think and realizing it had been three months since Avery left us. We all miss her so very much. We do not miss the pain she was in and we rejoice in knowing that she is pain and disease free now. I know she is running, playing and laughing all of the time. She will always be here in our hearts. We have so many wonderful memories.

Thank you so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for the Lemos and Mangrum families. Please pray for my Aunt Marie's family. Don't forget those super long, super tight hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . .Gene Ann

July 25, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Dan got up and was gone before 8:00 am. This gave me plenty of time to get ready and I was on the road by 10:30 am going to Jasper. I was almost there when Grandmother called and said we would go to Tuscaloosa once I got there. We had lunch then headed toward T-town.

We took care of the things we needed to and then stopped by to visit with Natileigh for a few minutes before heading back to Jasper. Once we got back it was time for dinner. We ate then watched "College Roadtrip." It was very funny.

We have several things to do tomorrow before I have to head back home. There is a big air show at the lake tomorrow but right now I don't feel like going. It will be three months tomorrow to the day and I really don't want to go but we will see how I feel tomorrow.

Dan made it to Louisville but Danny got tied up with a project for work and had to work all weekend. Dan decided he was only six or seven hours from Michigan so he would just drive on seeing that there is a big cruise this weekend. He got tired though and stopped about three hours from his destination for the night. He went next door from the hotel to Applebee's for dinner and a beer or two. I think this was his first trip since Avery passed away. It seems odd lately not going to Applebee's seeing how we use to eat there at least once a week if not more. Oh how she loved her Applebee's!

Thank you all for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for us especially the next few days as another month passes by without our precious Avery. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . .Gene Ann

July 24, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok so not much going on today. We tried really hard to make it to Lt. Mangrum's funeral but did not succeed. We decided that we would honor his memory in some way next year during Relay for Life which he was a big supporter.

I managed to make it to church for line dancing tonight. I am really enjoying every aspect of this experience especially the fellowship. We have a great time and invite anyone that wants to come to do so. After line dancing we ordered pizza from Mellow Mushroom for dinner. There was no use cooking since we will both be gone for a day or two.

Tomorrow Dan is meeting his buddy Danny in Louisville for the weekend. I am going to Jasper but will be back on Saturday since I promissed I would sing in the choir on Sunday. Dan will be home late on Sunday.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please keep praying for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please keep remembering the Lemos and Mangrum families in your prayers. Don't forget those super tight longer than normal hugs. Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

July 23, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Wow, what an incredible day! We all met up around 7:00 am ready to go to the Georgia Aquarium. It was about 7:45 when we pulled out of the parking lot headed that way. The bus pulled into McDonald's in Opelika where everyone got out and was treated to breakfast. Then it was back on the bus and no stopping until we were at the aquarium.

The aquarium was incredible. My favorite part other than seeing the Beluga Whales was the 4-D movie about "Deepo" and his friends. Thank goodness we sat toward the back because the ones closer to the front actually got wet. It was great! Seeing all of the children having so much fun was so heart warming. Meeting new families and sharing stories was incredible. Once the movie was over and everyone had seen all of the exhibits we headed back to the bus.

Right before we got on the bus the Iron Men gave all of the boys a little fish and the girls a little purse with a fish inside. The kids were so excited. Then it was announced that we would be stopping for pizza. This made all of the kids really excited (especially little Jackson that is on steroids). We stopped at CiCi's and everyone was treated to lunch. From there we headed back toward Montgomery.

I just can't say enough kind things about Iron Men Ministries and Buckmaster's. Thank you for all you do for the children. I am very thankful and feel very blessed to have been a part of this amazing day. Thank you Connie for getting all of the kids together and organizing everything. We all love you!

Once home I was pretty much done for the day. Pilot had a really good day with the exception of driving Mrs. Pam crazy. Ok, so I get a phone call from Dan after being at the aquarium for maybe 20 minutes. He had put Pilot out on the run and well she got out of the harness. She was free! Pam drives by and sees she is out and thinks well maybe it is not Pilot. When she comes back in an hour she is still out and on top of the patio table. Pam calls Jennie and they begin trying to track Dan down. Well, Dan is upstairs on a conference call so he doesn't answer any of their calls or the knocks at the door. Pam and Pilot had a stand off where Pilot would not even take the turkey from her she would just look at her, run in the other direction and bark at her. Finally Jennie calls Dan's work talks to Donna and she finally gets him. He comes downstairs opens the back door and a poor worn out dog runs in goes upstairs with him and sleeps for a couple of hours. She had one big adventure. Come to find out she had chewed the harness into to get free. I wonder if they make one out of metal? When I got home she just wanted to be loved and was quite the lap dog tonight.

Thank you all for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for us. Please remember to pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, James (MRI was good doesn't have to go back until January), Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please remember the families of Sebastian and Lt. Mangrum. Don't forget those super long, tight hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . Gene Ann

July 22, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I got up got ready and got gone. Pam picked me up sometime before 11:00 am and I didn't get home until somewhere around 4:00 pm. We had a great lunch and visit with girlfriends. It was so nice to just sit around chatting and laughing.

Once I got home it was time to cook dinner. Good thing I sat out a mexican casserole from the freezer before I left this morning. I popped it into the oven and it was ready in no time. After dinner I went to Petsmart to get Pilot a harness so she can stay outside on the run from time to time. Tomorrow I will gone all day and with Dan upstairs in the office he doesn't always hear her when she needs to go outside. It just seems so unfair to leave her in the crate all day! Once I got home we tried it out and she did great. The only thing is it is a little big seeing how I went with the small instead of the extra small.

Tomorrow is the big Aquarium trip. I know we will have fun. Also, don't forget that tomorrow is James Howell's MRI please pray for good clear scans.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for Sebastian and Lt. Mangrum's families. Don't forget those super tight hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . .Gene Ann

July 22, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Sammy! We hope that today brings many blessings for you. We also hope that there are lots of surprises and some sort of cake involved too! Eat the cake first today in memory of Avery. We love you! More to come later. . . . . Gene Ann and Dan. . . . missing Avery more than ever!

July 21, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok so I had several things to do before driving to Birmingham for Sebastian's service. I have a luncheon tomorrow so I thought why not make a strawberry pretzel salad. So off to the grocery store I went to get all of the stuff. Before that I decided with prompting from Dan why not re-arrange the kitchen. I must say it looks much better and much bigger. That took all of the morning into the early afternoon. Before I could turn around good it was time to leave.

I left at 4:00 stopping once to pick up something at Bed Bath and Beyond. I would have been early by ten or fifteen minutes but traffic was dead stopped on the main road to Nena and Jim's. I rode with them to the service which was wonderful because number one I would have never found the church and two it was great having someone to walk in with and sit with. I always love my visits with them.

It was great to see Bayleigh Phillips and family. Bayleigh looks great and she is such a hoot full of personality. The Fredalla and Long families were there. The service was beautiful but very formal. Sebastian's Dad Henry spoke toward the end of the service and I don't know how he did it. After the service they asked everyone to light a candle and gather just outside of the church. The children released white balloons while the adults held the candles and then when we were ready we blew them out. It was very special. This is when I saw Ingrid and she shared that she had told Sebastian he was going to see Avery and there was no doubt in her mind who was there to greet him. I also feel the same way. Right before that I saw David from radiation. The one that put Avery slept everyday the second time for radiation. That was so very hard. Avery loved him so much and from that point on it was not UAB but David's hospital. During the reception following the service I had a chance to talk with Emily from Children's. She is involved with the cooking contest that Avery won last year. She shared a story about how the cooking group talks about Avery and uses her recipe every chance they get. Then we ran into Jim Howell. Jim reminded me that James has an MRI this week and it will be his first in six months and also his first without sedation. Please pray for James that all goes well and the scans are perfect and clear.

I made it home a little before 11:00 pm last night. I am so glad that I went because I know that Avery would have wanted me there. At one point when the candles were lit and everyone was standing outside waiting for the balloons to be released a gentle breeze started blowing and of course candles started flickering and I thought to myself "I can just hear them two up there laughing as they make the wind blow a little harder in anticipation of the balloons coming their way!"

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, James (MRI is on Wednesday morning at 7:00 am no sedation and first one in six months please pray for good clean clear scans), Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for Sebastian's family and Lt. Mangrum's family. Don't forget those hugs! Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

July 20, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I made it to church this morning. It was a very good service and I was so glad that I attended. Once I got home I took Pilot for a walk and then tried to call Dan but he was not having good reception so I left him a message. He got home just in time for lunch. We grilled hot dogs and enjoyed our New England style buns. Thanks Jim! Oh, when we were in Boston we were amazed with the hot dog buns. They cut them on top instead on the side. They are really neat so Jim got us both a pack to take home.

After lunch we were going for a drive in the new car but decided to wait until later. We ended up watching a movie "Drillbit Taylor." Very cute movie! Pilot was very good today for the most part. We are still having trouble with her jumping on the furniture. She really likes the back of the couch. She can now jump from chair to couch and back several times in a row. She learned a new trick this week and that is jumping from the back of the couch to the bar stool which is a good two feet. Sometimes she gets so excited in jumping that she doesn't fare too well. She falls but jumps right back up and goes at it again.

Tonight we grilled again and Pilot enjoyed the bone from a t-bone steak. We hooked her leash up outside and she sat eating her bone until there was hardly anything left. Our new neighbor came over to get some information about lawn care, cleaning all of those type things. Pilot was outside so this went well. After dinner we went for a ride. The car rides so good. Of course it is like being back in time with all of the controls being from the 80's. It was like being back in high school or before. The car is in really good shape. It just needs two new back tires and he will be all set. The convertible should be ready this week so now we will look like a used car lot again. I think he is really considering building a garage beside the house now. That would be great!

Tomorrow I am planning on going to Birmingham for Sebastian's Mass. Also, tonight Lt. Mangrum passed away after a long hard fight. He was such an inspiration to so many. He will truly be missed especially by the children of Autauga county. Please pray for his family, friends and the city of Prattville he will be missed by so many. I remember the first time we met him at the 2007 survivors banquet. Avery was being Avery twirling around and having fun. He came over and started talking to us; before we left they were friends and he announced he had a new hero. He was very special to so many.

Thank you all for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra and Sean. Please pray for Sebastian's family as they begin the new chapter in their journey. Please pray for Lt. Mangrum's family. I know a very special angel that has been very busy this weekend. Don't forget those hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . Gene Ann

July 20, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I just found out that our little buddy Sebastian earned his angel wings yesterday morning. I know that Avery was one of the first to meet him. They had such a special bond. She loved Sebastian and he loved her. Please pray for his family Henry, Ingrid and Isabella. Please stop by his website and leave them messages of love and encouragement. I am making plans now to attend the Mass tomorrow night. Please also join us in praying ever so hard for a cure.

Also, for those that have been keeping up with the Curing Childhood Cancer Act it has now passed both Congress and Senate and is awaiting President Bush's signature. Check out J.J.'s website for more details. Thanks to all that have helped make phone calls and worked so hard to get this passed. We are on our way to having the resources to finding a cure now! More later. . . . . Gene Ann

July 19, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Busy, Busy, Busy! Dan got up and out early. He was just like a kid on Christmas morning wondering if Santa has come and gone and what he left. Before I could turn around good he was back with his new ride. Now mind you I am not good with car lingo so all I can say is it is black, looks sharp and is finally an automatic. I can't believe he actually got an automatic for his car collection. What was he thinking?

Ok, so I got busy preparing a few things to take to the dinner tonight. I could not decide what to take so I just made everything that I thought of: Buffalo Chicken Dip, Summer Squash Casserole and Banana Pudding. Once I get started it is easier to make several things versus just making one. I just love to cook!

Dan decided to go hang out with Scott for a little bit. He then decided to go to the lake and hang out with a few friends for the night and most likely I will not see him until tomorrow after church. The Capitol Toastmaster anniversary party was great. It was a small crowd but we had a blast. The dinner was very good. Afterward we did not have a program so we played catch phrase. I had forgotten how much fun that game is.

I was home early and just in time to take Pilot for her nightly walk. We then curled up and watched a good movie on Lifetime. Oh, I almost forgot that tonight they decided to name the new Toastmaster club in Prattville after Avery. I will update more on that later. We also got a really nice note today from the Mayor and he is waiting on us to talk about dedicating the new park on our street to Avery.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for strength for all of us. Please remember to pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Lt. Mangrum, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sebastian. Don't forget to hug your children tighter, longer and much more often. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . Gene Ann

July 18, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Wow, what a day! Dan worked from home today. I ran out to pick up pictures and lunch. While I was out he called to see if I wanted to play golf later in the afternoon with him and Melanie. I haven't played in six years or more so this should be interesting.

We ate lunch and Dan wrapped up work. We headed to the golf course. Thank goodness someone had borrowed clubs not too long ago so there were no cobbwebbs for me. We got checked in at the course and all set to go. I rode with Melanie leaving Dan to ride by himself. I must say that I played better than anyone imagined I would. I actually made contact with the ball each time. Now, after line dancing on Thursday night and now golf on Friday I might need help getting out of bed tomorrow.

I had a great time playing. I really need to start praticing though before playing again. We also determined that I need a new driver and irons. I also have to find my short game again. I use to could putt very well but I don't think I sunk one all day. Dan got tied up for a hole or two with work but eventually his phone stopped ringing. He works all of the time and his stress level is unbelievable right now. I hope that things settle down soon for him.

After golf we went home to let Pilot out for a bit. Dan decided Mellow Mushroom would be good for dinner so he went to get take out. Tomorrow Dan is going to pick up his new toy (87 Grand National). I have to cook a thing or two for the Toastmaster anniversary party. Maybe one weekend soon we will be able to rest and not have to be anywhere. I don't think we would know how to act.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Lt. Mangrum, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sebastian (please continue to leave him messages and pray for a miracle). Don't forget to hug your children tighter, longer and much more often. Until Next Time . . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . Gene Ann

July 17, 2008

Hello Everybody,

I picked Jennie up at 7:00 and we headed for Jackson Hospital. Some of you might remember the story of when I was there a few weeks back and they kept trying to remember where they knew me from. Well Bonnie the nurse that tracked me down when she realized where she knew me from (Avery's tea party) was there and remembered us again. She was so kind. It was nice hearing how Avery had touched her life and how appreciative she was to have known Avery.

Jennie's test was fine and soon we were off for breakfast. We had a big breakfast and then it was off to the dentist. Once I got home Pilot was very happy to see me. We went for a walk then sat down for a quick nap. My nap was about twenty minutes then I jumped up and said "I have too much to do to nap!" I had errands to take care of some for Dan. Dan will be home tonight because his car is not ready. It will be next week. So now he has to take a trip to Louisville to pick the car up. We will be very happy to get the car back.

Tonight I decided to go to line-dancing classes at church. Wow, what exercise it is. I had forgotten how much of a work out you get from dancing. I loved every minute of the class and most especially the fellowship. I got home and was tired from being up so early and running all day. I sat down and was about nod off when Dan came in the back door. We had a long talk he had dinner and then it was bed time.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us. Each day gets harder in some aspects and your prayers really help to get us through those really hard times. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please check in on Sebastian and pray extra hard for him and his family. Remember to hug your children tighter, longer and much more often. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . .Gene Ann

July 16, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok so I thought I had updated this already but for some reason it is not showing up on any of our computers so here goes again. Today I got up, got ready and decided I needed to pick up a birthday present for my little cousin in California. She will be five and she really loved Avery. She called Avery her little sister and at one point she had others believing that she had a little sister named Avery. Ok so I wanted a special present for her so I set out to find the perfect gift.

I struck out in Prattville so I decided to go to the mall in Montgomery. I really wasn't thinking when I made this decision. Once I got to the mall I didn't find what I was looking for so I had to go into the mall. This is when I realized that this was the first time since Avery passed away that I had been to the mall. Here I was by myself and seeing all of the things that reminded me of Avery. There was the carousal, the ice rink, the cookie company, build a bear and of course Libby Lu. Oh the times I would cringe as we walked by Libby Lu hoping Avery would not see it or would not want to go in and buy something. Oh, how I would go in now and buy everything they had with a smile on my face. This was so hard and made me miss her more than ever. I couldn't get out of the mall fast enough. Needless to say I didn't find what I was looking for but realized once I was leaving the mall that I could order on-line what I was looking for and would have never had to come to the mall. That just isn't me though. I use to love to shop but now it just isn't the same without my little shopping buddy.

Once I was at home there on-line I found exactly what I had been looking for and it was on sale. I guess I will be an exclussive on-line shopper now. Other than that I cleaned a little and played with Pilot. Tomorrow morning I am taking Jennie to Jackson Hospital for a colonoscopy. Tomorrow night Dan could possibly be home he is still waiting on word if his car is or will be ready.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. We need strength and prayers daily to get us through the day. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Lt. Mangrum, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sebastian (he is really in need of a miracle). Don't forget to hug your children tighter, longer and much more often. Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . Gene Ann

June 15, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Ok so I didn't do much of anything today. Pilot allowed me to sleep in so that we did. During the night she decided she wanted in bed with me so I got up and let her out of the crate. Imagine that she loves the crate now as long as the door is open but when it is closed she is not very happy. She still has a long way to go before she will be allowed to have that freedom though.

I worked on laundry most of the day. I decided I was ready for some good old fashioned vegetable soup. I then remembered that it was Tuesday and the farmer's market would be open at 3:00 so I planned around going to the market. I paid bills and still have to balance the account which is off and hasn't been off since I took over this responsibility. Maybe I just need a break from it for now. I took my phone by to see what the problem is. It seems it was missing some data. Hopefully what the young guy did will fix the problem. I sure hope so because I was ready to throw it out of the window as I was coming home on Monday. Not really but I was getting really aggrevated!

I was on my way home with all of my goodies from the farmer's market and grocery store when Jennie called to see if I would go to Olive Garden for dinner. Sure! I can wait one more day for soup. Before going to dinner I was walking Pilot and met our new neighbors behind us. They are really nice and have a small poodle about Pilot's size. Of course Pilot did not do well and I had to hold her the entire visit. She wants to play but on neutral territory might be better. Dinner was great! I have enough left for dinner tomorrow night.

Once I got back I took Pilot for another walk. This time she did so much better. When we came in I decided to catch up on Days and prepare the vegetable soup. I cooked and caught up on Days all at the same time. When I could finally leave the soup to simmer Pilot and I sat down for the first time today. I talked to Dan and he still doesn't know what his plan is for the rest of the week. He will not know until tomorrow when he calls to check on the mustang. If it is ready he will go get it and be home sometime on Saturday. If it is not he will be home sometime on Wednesday or Thursday. I was hoping we would have a nice weekend at home with nothing to do but then realized I already have plans. Good thing I programmed a reminder for an anniversary party for Capitol Toastmasters on Saturday evening. I doubt that Dan goes with me since he usually opts out of those. Now I just have to find a recipe so I can whip something up to take.

Ok so it has been brought to my attention that I left out a few details of our trip. So we wanted Taco Bell and could not find one and finally asked someone who directed us there (as we were stopped at the light we rolled the window down and asked the couple in the car next to us). This was in Ontario Canada mind you. The menu was totally different, more expensive but we had Canadian money to get rid of before the end of the day anway. They had french fries on the menu with nacho toppings. It was very interesting! Ok then there was a story about a toll booth but that doesn't need to be shared. All I will say is we probably made the poor guys day and he didn't charge us. There were a few more stories along those lines. Ok so I left out all of the ice cream stops. It was such a fun trip and I can't wait until our next adventure which I am working on! I just have to catch up from this adventure first.

Thank you all for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for strength to get us through each day. Some days have been harder than others and each new day still brings more challenges our way. We miss her so very much each day. We know she is pain free, happy and doing all of the things she could never do here on earth. This helps but at the same time we miss the laughter, hugs, kisses, Big Al and David. We have so many memories to cherish. Please pray for a cure so that no more parents have to go through what we have. Please pray for all of our special friends especially those that are fighting each day harder than the day before. Make as many special memories with your children; try catching a sunset together it is an awesome experience. Don't forget to hug them tighter, longer and much more often. Eat ice cream cones for breakfast while on vacation and order a birthday for no reason other than to celebrate another wonderful day. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

July 14, 2008

Hello Everybody,

On the road again. . . .on the road again. . . .I just can't seem to get that song out of my head today. We got up and were out of the hotel by 11:00 Central (I think). The best part of it was my trip was just a straight shot down 65 South. Once on the road I had to make my self stop. It was solid driving all day.

I stopped once for lunch at about 2:00 then kept driving. I stopped once for the restroom somewhere in Kentucky. Then I stopped once for gas in Tennessee just outside of Nashville and right before the Alabama line. I decided to purchase a lottery ticket and when I looked at it the numbers had Avery's birthdate in them. I was in total shock and thought of Avery for a while after that. Ok so if I win I will be taking many more road trips continuing Avery's work of spreading smiles to brain tumor patients, parents and siblings. That is what she would want!

Ok, so my phone started acting up today while I was on the road. I will be taking it in tomorrow to see what is going on. It just cuts off while talking and takes forever to start again. I just don't think it was meant for me to have this particular phone. I did manage to talk with Dan a few times. It seems he has found another car he wants. He is going this weekend to get it. He is traveling to Tennessee for a few days and then possibly to Louisville to pick up his convertible if it is completed by then. Ok, so we passed somewhere on the road around Birmingham. I also passed Grandmother and Granddaddy somewhere near the Finley Boulevard exit. I was just ready to get home and did not want to stop.

I arrived home at 7:03. I unpacked, sorted/started laundry, ordered dinner, went through the mail, picked up dinner, ate and while watching television fell fast to sleep with Pilot in my lap. We went to bed and believe it or not she decided she was sleeping in her bed. Wow, what happened while I was gone. Tomorrow we are staying home and getting all of the laundry done and the fridge cleaned out!

Thanks for stopping to check in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. We need strength daily and your prayers give us an amazing amount of support that we are so grateful for. Please pray for all of our special friends. Please pray for a cure so that one day no more parents will have to face what we have had to face. Don't forget to hug your children tighter, longer and much more often. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . .Gene Ann

July 13, 2008

Hello Everybody,

Whew what a day! We slept in and got on the road shortly after 1:00 pm. We headed toward Normal, Illinois and the Moore's house. We stopped in Pennsylvania to have lunch with a friend of Jesika's. It was nice to meet Julie and have lunch with her. We then had a quick stop to pick up a movie for Leyana to keep her entertained.

Once back on the road we found out there was an outlet just three hours down the road so we drove hard to try and make it before it closed. Oh I must say next years trip should be a "Tanger Accross America" what a trip that would be! Well, we barley made it but found nothing. We stopped for gas and ice cream then it was back on the road.

As we were about to enter Ohio Jesika had another plan instead of driving all the way to Normal we should stop in Champange for the night. Then Anthony could ride down in the morning and pick she and Leyana up thus saving me a couple of hours. Ok so this was our plan. Until a little later when we decided Indianappolis would be even better and just an hour more for Anthony. Poor Jesika drove again until 4:00 am there were a few stops for potty, gas and snacks. I think we got checked in at 5:00 but that was Central time so it was 6:00 in Indiana. They were setting up breakfast as we were checking in. Oh well it has been so much fun. I have seen so many places I have never been to so many firsts and a trip filled with so many blessings.

Tomorrow I will be driving back to Alabama. I had planned to stop by Grandmother and Granddaddy's but Dan has to leave going out of town so I need to get back to check on Pilot. I think she needs some mommy time. Yes, Dan is leaving as I get back and I don't know when I will see him again probably Saturday night.

Thank you all for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for all of our special friends especially Aaron, Ann Marie, Bayleigh, Erin, Janna, Krystin, Lt. Mangrum, Nurse Kelly, Aunt Sandra, Sean and Sebastian. Don't forget those hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . .Gene Ann

July 12, 2008

Hello Everybody,

We got up packed the car, had breakfast, and headed toward the Roderick's house. Jesika decided to take all of the kids to the pool at the hotel. I volunteered my services to help get ready for the party. I helped Grandma and Michelle get the last minute food ready. We had fun and got it all done really quick. We got the tent up the tables ready and the balloons placed. As we were spreading out the balloons one got away, now I wonder who wanted that one?

It was then time for the party. It was so nice meeting everyone. Erin was so excited! When they pulled up from swimming she was delighted to see the balloons. She got out of the car and came running laughing the whole way. She loved opening up her presents. She was so cute telling everyone thank you and laughing with excitement over each present. I have to say it reminded me so much of Avery and was really hard at times but just seeing Erin doing so well is such a blessing and made my heart happy.I loved every minute of our trip and I think the best part was all of the hugs and kisses from Jack. It was just like Avery was sending them to me.

As soon as the party was winding down we decided to hit the road after a very short memorial service for Jack of sending balloons to Avery and Sophia (it was very sweet and Jack just melts my heart). If we break up the driving we will not have so much to do on Sunday. Once we were on the road, topped off with gas and made a quick stop or two we decided to take the scenic route through Connecticut. It was great! Seeing the water, the small towns, the light houses. . . awwww I have to go back. We came upon a small town with a carousal, ice cream stand and a standing room only restaurant. We decided we had to stop! Ok I had another first lobster rolls. Oh my goodness it was fabulous. All I could think of the whole time I was eating was how much Dan would love this! Ok so we have to go back.

After a delightful dinner we got back on the road. This was another first me driving through New York City at night. It was so beautiful. We got in our first bit of tr