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September 3, 2010

Hello Everybody,

It is now 4:30 and I am just sitting down for the first time today! I have been busy! It all started early this morning baking breakfast casseroles then delivering them to the church. I would like to tell you all I was organized and together but I that did not come until later in the day. Let me just say sunglasses and ball caps work wonders to cover up messy hair and no make-up!

When I got back home I started cooking. I made chili, tamale balls, tortilla roll ups (all for tomorrow). Then I got ready super fast for a 9 am meeting at the church. I am the Altar Guild Chairperson and we are changing the way we do communion for the contemporary service. I had a meeting the Worship chairperson to discuss the set-up and find me a new place to store the new equipment. From there I went with Kristen and Logan for his speech evaluation. It was so good to see Kim and Tammy! I think things went well and we will know something soon! You all know I am all about some speech therapy!

After that I hit the grocery store, bank (yes on the 3rd of the month what was I thinking), and then home for a quick bite of lunch. I then decided to drive to Wetumpka to visit Megan at work and check out the monogram shop. I am happy to say we now have an "M" mailbox cover! I haven't been able to find one so for the past four months we have continued to have an "H" on the box. David has been a great sport about it saying he didn't care what I put on the box as long as we get our mail. But it has bothered some so now finally I can mark that one off of my list.

Tomorrow is one of my favorite days of the year. College Football I should say "Alabama" football begins. Avery loved it as much as I do! I think back to how excited she would get to see a glimpse of Big Al and I have to laugh. Oh how I miss her! Tomorrow will be the first game and of course we have to tailgate even if at home we must eat! Charlie and Jennie will be joining us to listen to the game. Still not sure if we will pay per view it or not.

Ok, so you all know there is a hurricane in the Atlantic named Fiona! I know it is not funny but I had to laugh. I can hear Avery laughing and she would be saying "did you hear that mommy that hurricane is named Fiona just like me. . . . Did they really say Fiona mommy. . . . that is funny now I am a hurricane!" For all of those that knew her you can hear her saying those things. Hopefully our special little angel will watch over hurricane Fiona and not let her get too out of control. Knowing her she will just turn things up a notch or two then turn away. She just wants to make sure we are all paying attention.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones. Please pray for all of the children out there fighting the fight. Especially pray for Aaron and Bayleigh today! Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing my Princess Fiona. . . . Gene Ann

September 2, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Fundraiser one is a go! We will be compiling a cookbook at church. It will be a Trinity United Methodist Family cookbook with the proceeds going to Relay for Life "Avery's Army!" I am so very excited. I have wanted to do one for a few years now and just have not sat down and got started. We did a small one for Autauga County Relay for Life a couple of years ago. We are hoping to have 1,000 recipes (that is what I am shooting for anyway). I am so excited and will keep you all updated with the progress, needs and availability.

We are also hoping to get a new Avery's Army shirt soon. I have to stop everything else for a few days and concentrate on a new logo. I am trying to wait until the relay theme for next year is announced before I put too much thought into a design. I would like for it to tie in with the theme.

Camp SAM is having a fundraiser on September 18th at Crestline Village in Birmingham. It is the "Monkey C Monkey Run" 5K and one mile fun run. For more information go to www.campsam.org. I hoped to attend but have a Relay for Life committee training event the same day. Please if you can attend this event! Camp SAM is and forever will be a special place in my heart.

Busy, busy day tomorrow! I have to run now and mix up breakfast casseroles for the Prattville High School Prayer breakfast tomorrow morning. They have to be baked and at the church by 6:45 am. YIKES! I hope I don't over sleep.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for those families that have lost loved ones. Please pray for all of the children that are still fighting the beast. Please pray for a cure! Now, don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

September 1, 2010

Hello Everybody,

All prayer warriors needed today! Please pray for Bayleigh Phillips and the Phillips family. Bayleigh has a clinic appointment today she is just having a difficult week and needs some prayers for strength. Please also pray for Ellie Grace Reece. They are checking today to see if the bone graft worked and how she is progressing. They are putting her to sleep to check things out then giving her a new cast! Please pray for these sweet girls and their families.

Yesterday was a very emotional day. We went to Children's Hospital for the first time since Avery passed away their in April of 2008. I still can't believe that after the press conference Grandmother, Granddaddy, David and myself went to clinic to visit. Emotional yes, but at the same time very uplifting. Avery was so with us the entire time! The most emotional part for me was walking to clinic and seeing the pictures on the wall. Avery would always tell us who they were as we would walk by them. I could hear her saying "look mommy it's No White, look that one is Peter Pan, did you see that Grandmother?" She kept us entertained!

This month is National Childhood Cancer Awarness Month. Today kicks off "Buy Alabama's Best" campaign. In the state of Alabama buy Alabama products while grocery shopping. A portion of the sales of these products will go straight to Children's Hospital. It is amazing how these dollars add up. So look for the red tags next to the products and stock up! For a list of products check out www.buyalabamasbest.com

I will be working next week and the week after for Clinique. I am working now on several fundraisers for Relay for Life especially Avery's Army. I am meeting today with several people to discuss some of the ideas so hopefully tomorrow I can update you all with my plans! Some are pretty big so I will need everyones help to make them happen.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for all of those out there that have lost loved ones. Please pray for those that still fight the fight. Now, never ever forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . .Gene Ann

August 30, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Wow, August has been a very busy month. September is going to be even busier. So many things going on that I don't know how I keep them all straight these days. If it were not for my daily calendar book and blackberry all would be lost.

September is National Childhood Cancer Awareness month. Tomorrow on August 31st we will be going to Children's Hospital for the first time since Avery's passing. We will be attending a press conference to kick-off the "Buy Alabama's Best" campaign. This is where when you buy Alabama products proceeds go to the oncology department at Children's Hospital. Tune in tomorrow to your local Birmingham channels for more information. I know this is going to be very emotional for Grandmother, Granddaddy and myself. I am just so very thankful to have David going with me. I don't think I could do it otherwise.

September 12 is Ride for Kids! I am riding again this year. I can't wait to see everyone there. David, Grandmother and Granddaddy refuse to ride but at least they will be there. They just don't know what they are missing by not riding.

Last weekend I attended a Relay for Life summit in Nashville. I can't wait to start planning with the committee and team captains. I learned so much and have so much energy for this event. I want to see us grow into one of the biggest RFL events in the state. I know we can do it we just have to keep working to make it happen.

Over the last few weeks I have really been missing Avery. The other night I went to spirit night at Chick-fil-A for Sara's Stars. Sara is one of Avery's little sisters and she has diabetes. While there I talked Gracie and Laura as I was getting our food to go. I thought of how many times we would go there after playgroup and how much Avery always loved to go so she could play. When I got back in the car to drive home Avery's favorite Shrek song "All Star" was just starting on the radio. I laughed then cried for a minute or two. It was my message from Avery "Hey mommy, I'm here, I was in Chick-fil-A playing with my friends!" How I treasure these little moments. I hope tomorrow brings one or two of these little Avery moments. I know it sure would make the day easier.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check on us. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones. Please pray for all of the children that are still fighting the beast especially pray for Aaron, Bayleigh, Kristyn and Janna. Don't forget the super tight extra long hugs. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

August 4, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Grandmother! I hope the day was filled with many wonderful blessings. Don't forget to eat cake first today.

Don't forget tomorrow August 5th, Thursday is Miracle Treat Day at Dairy Queen. Proceeds from the sell of Blizzards benefit Children's Hospital:) David and I will be having Blizzards for lunch. Please forget the calories for one day and think of the precious children.

I have been really busy lately with SCORE, cancer society and Clinique. The next several months are going to be very busy. Several things going on that I am very excited about. I will be attending a Relay Summit for American Cancer Society in Nashville. It is a two day event with Relay stars (the best of the best) from several states. I am looking forward to bringing back tons of ideas, energy and enthusiasm to Autauga county.

September is National Childhood Cancer Awareness month. Grandmother, Granddaddy, David and myself will be attending Ride for Kids on Sunday, September 12.

I have to tell you all about Ms. Francine and her special delivery package. She was playing bingo on the 4th of July. She purchased some raffle tickets and well she won on the fifth draw ticket number 214 (Avery's age draw number, Valentine's Day and my birthday for the ticket number). She knew she was going to win because of what the prize was and well Avery made sure she got the prize. It was suppose to arrive on Friday of last week but took a weekend vacation. Monday I received a giant box with a three foot tall Princess Fiona doll inside. Fiona was dressed in Avery's favorite green dress. She is absolutely perfect and is now taking up residence in the middle of Avery's bed along with Shrek. I just love going in the Princess room now and can just hear Avery giggling with excitement. Oh how I miss that giggle.

Thank you all for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost loved ones. Please pray for all of the children still fighting the beast. Please pray for a cure! Never ever forget the super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . . Gene Ann

July 27, 2010

Hello Everybody,

So much to update I don't know where to start so here goes! Miracle Treat Day is Thursday, August 5th at Dairy Queen (all day) proceeds from the sale of Blizzards go to the Children's Miracle Network. Please forget the calories for one day and think of the precious children. I think it will be dessert first for us! Also, on the 3rd Autauga County Relay for Life is having a paint party. It will be at First United Methodist Church in Pratt Hall start time TBA (can't remember). It will be $35 and you get to take your beautiful painting with you. Avery's Army will be participating. If you would like more information please let me know. I would love to see as many people there as possible!

Prayer request for our little friend Alyssa. She has an appointment at clinic tomorrow and an MRI on Thursday. Please pray for Alyssa and the family. Pray for great results.

Please pray for Ellie Grace Reece (Todd and Kellie Reece's daughter). She is having spinal surgery on Monday, August 2nd. She will be in a full body cast for three months. She just turned one in June. Kellie was one of Avery's favorite teachers. They are having a special healing service on Sunday, August 1st at 3:30 pm at their church in Clanton. They have asked for everyone that can't be there to pray at that time. Please pray for Ellie Grace and her sweet family!

Now, I can finally shout the good news! David has a meeting tomorrow with the District Superintendent to start the application process to go into ministry. He did a wonderful job of preaching two services at Trinity a few weeks ago. You can hear his sermon if you would like by going to www.trinityprattville.com go to worship and click on podcast. The last few weeks have been filled with so many wonderful blessings. GOD is doing so much in our lives and the lives of our family.

I will be working quite a bit the first three weeks of August. I will be in Auburn on the 7th and 13th, in Prattville on the 3rd, 6th, 14th and 20th, in Montgomery at Eastdale on the 21st. Belk will be having Clinique bonus days (Gift with Purchase). If you are in the area stop by to see me. My hours are 11-5 for the most part. I can't wait to see everyone!

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for all of those parents that have lost children to this horrible disease. Please continue to pray for all of the children affected by this disease especially pray for Aaron (in patient at St. Jude getting chemo), Alyssa (Clinic visit and MRI), Janna, Bayleigh, Molly, Krystin, and Libba. Please pray for the Reece family. Now, never ever forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

July 9, 2010

Hello Everybody,

I have big news to shout about! Brileigh Ann O'Shields was born today weighing 5 pounds 15 ounces, 19 inches long. She is beautiful and perfect in every way.

The original due date was August 2nd but Brileigh did not want to wait anylonger. I think she was just out of room:) David and I arrived in Birmingham at 6:19 and she was born at 6:25. Of course we did not get to see her until after 8:30. It was a short visit but what a wonderful blessing.

David and I were going to a biscuits ball game with the church for family faith night but when the call came in that the baby would be there within the next two hours we didn't hesitate heading straight for Birmingham. I think David was happy to get out of sitting in the heat to watch a baseball game.

Ok so when I called David to tell him that Natileigh was in labor he laughed and said well we are going to be grandparents again in March. Megan and Ian are expecting their second child due sometime in March. What an incredible day!

Thank you all for stopping by to check in on the latest. Please continue to keep us all in your prayers. Please continue to pray for all of those that have lost their loved ones. Please pray for those still fighting the fight especially pray for Aaron, Bayleigh, Janna and Kristen. Now, don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

July 5, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Today was filled with activity once again. I spent the morning getting things done around the house. I also whipped up a dessert and relish tray for a deck party. Then it was off to the deck party at Rob and Kati's (friends from church). David had to work so he did not get to stay long. It was great and the food was incredible. Everyone outdid thereselves.

Now for big news! David will be preaching both the 9:40 and 11:00 am services on Sunday, July 11th. For the longest I was told not to tell anyone. He was afraid that if everyone knew the service would become about him and the message would get lost. Well everyone knows now so I am helping to shout about it as well. I cannot wait to hear his message. I am so very excited for him!

The Sunday after David (July 18) preaches I will be sharing my testimony at the 11:00 am service. We are having camp meeting month during this service filling it with additional old time gospel music and old fashioned testimonies. I gave mine last year but so much has happened since then!

David and I will be going to Lay Speaker Training on July 15-17. We are very excited to learn and then use what we learn to help our church grow. July is a very busy month! I am now trying to formulate a plan so that we can attend three events on Saturday all about the same time. What am I thinking we all know that I can make that happen:)

Thank you all so much for your prayers and for checking in as often as you do. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for those that have lost children. Please pray for Aaron as he continues his treatment. Please pray for all of those on treatment and off treatment. Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

July 4, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Happy 4th of July! I hope everyone has a wonderful and safe holiday weekend.

Update from baby sitting detail. For the most part it went well. I know that I am exhausted! Imagine four little ones that could not agree on anything wanting to do separate activities all day. One wanted to play outside, another wanted to watch a movie, the oldest wanted to play wii, while the only girl wanted to read books. I had a challenging day trying to entertain them while actually boring them to tears. Not all of my ideas were bad just not as exciting as they would have liked. I will say they ate like kings and enjoyed the food the most.

By 8:00 pm I had them all bathed, dressed, in bed and asleep! I put a tent in the breakfast nook then padded it down and they all slept right there together. I think David was even amazed at how I transformed our house into camp grandchildren for a day. The most amazing part is I quickly transformed it back while he took them home. So now it is back to normal.

Church was incredible today. We had a special combined service filled with partiotic music. It was amazing!

After church we went over to David's brother (Dennis) and sister in laws (Kem) for a cook out for his brothers birthday. We had a great time visiting with the family. Of course we ate too much. David had to work tonight so I went to the firweorks with Dennis and Kem. I think it was the best show ever. I got to thinking about Avery as I sat there watching the fireworks. She loved going downtown with Charlie and Jennie to watch fireworks. We would go every year and she would sit there watching, laughing, pointing, oooing and ahhhhing. I really missed having my little buddy with me. It had been three years since I had been and the last time Avery and I went by ourselves but met up with Charlie and Jennie. We got caught in traffic which took us close to two hours to get home. She was sound asleep by the time we got home. I just remember thinking I hope she doesn't have to go potty because we are in real trouble if that happens. Thankfully that did not happen. I guess that is just a mom thing!

Thank you all for stopping by to check in. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of those parents that have lost children. Please pray for all of the children that are still fighting especially pray for Aaron, Bayleigh, Janna, Kristen, Libba and all of those either on treatment or not that live each day hoping and praying for a cure. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . . . Gene Ann

July 2, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Please be in prayer for Aaron Bell and his family. Aaron has relapsed and is undergoing treatment at St. Jude. Aaron is an amazing young man with an incredible attitude and an even better golf score. His website link is on the front of Avery's site under friends.

Wow, has it been busy around here. We have had workers here almost every day this week getting things taken care of that needed repair before the warranty runs out. Thank goodness David was off this week!

Saturday I am attempting to keep four of the five grandchildren. They are coming around noon and will stay until sometime on Sunday morning. David will be working nights so yes I will be without any back-up. I think I can keep them all pretty well entertained but I am so not use to little boys! Yes, three little boys ages 3,4 and 5 and one little girl age 4. The most challenging part will be keeping them quiet while David sleeps when they first get here. I have been thinking on this and have a plan or two so hopefully one will work.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of those parents that have lost little ones. Please pray for Aaron, Jana, Libba, Bayleigh, Molly and all of our little friends. Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . . Gene Ann

July 1, 2010

Hello Everybody,

The baby shower was "perfecct!" We all had a wonderful time. Natileigh got tons of stuff for baby Brileigh. We ended up afterwords having a big cookout at Grandmother and Granddaddy's. David and Dad cooked for that and called it a cook-off. It was fun and the food was delicious.

We enjoyed our weekend in Jasper. After eating on Saturday night we stayed up very late playing Mexican train dominoes. This time we put a spin on playing so there would be a prize for the winner. David beat us all and won the prize. It was a great weekend.

I realized shortly after arriving at the church to set up for the baby shower that the last time I was there was for Natileigh and Britton's wedding. I can't begin to tell you how difficult at times it was thinking the last time I was here Avery was with me. She was on chemo that weekend and insisted on wearing her nightgown under her dresses but that didn't matter to me at all. She had so much fun and was the best flower girl ever. Since the weekend I have dreamed about Avery every night. It is almost like she is trying to tell me something. But for the life of me I can't figure it out this time. Oh how I miss her!

July is going to be a very busy month. I will update on our crazy busy schedule soon. I have many dates to tell you all about! Thanks so much for stopping by to check in. Please continue praying for us all! Please pray for all of those that have lost children. Please pray for all of those battling this dreaded disease. Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . .Gene Ann

June 25, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Wow! I honestly do not know how I ever had time to work. My days have been filled to max capacity lately. I keep thinking that I will slow down one day but we all know that is not going to happen.

This is an exciting time for us all. Natileigh and Britton's baby will be here soon. She is due in early August. David and I are heading to Jasper today to help prepare for a big baby shower. The baby shower is tomorrow. It is going to be wonderful! Grandmother and I have been preparing for weeks for this event. Of course we are fixing all of Natileigh's favorites.

This past Sunday we had a house full for Father's day. David's girls, son in law and all five grandchildren were over for lunch. It was very entertaining and exhausting. They all seemed to have a good time playing and eating. I made a special dessert for the occassion using ice cream sandwiches. All of the kids big and small seemed to enjoy that.

There is so much going on around here. I am trying to get a Toastmaster club started in Prattville once again. That takes up most of my Thursdays. I have been asked to join a sorority Beta Sigma Phi. I will be joining soon and look forward to all of the many activities they do. I have been helping the American Cancer Society make calls getting teams fired up about Relay and seeing how we can raise more funds to keep our funding for Autauga County in place without having to cut any programs. SCORE is keeping me busy with counseling sessions, newsletters and scheduling. I am done with Clinique until August then it will be non stop until the end of the year.

David has been working tons of overtime lately with hardly any off time. There were several days we passed in the door and that was it until the next day. I can honestly say that there is never a dull minute around here. David thought that he would see more of me when I quit work but he has now realized that is not going to happen. We had a lesson the other day in how to say "NO" but we all know I failed that test. It is not in my vocabulary.

There is still not a day that goes by that I don't think of Avery. I miss her so very much. The other day I was trying to re-organize some book shelves in the office when I came to a stack of pictures. They were all Avery at various stages of her life. When I came to her last birthday party pictures I lost it. But then I quickly regained myself realizing how happy she was, how much she experienced in her short life and how loved she was. I know she is not suffering any more and of course no more noodles, needles or bandaids!

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of those that have lost their children. Please pray for all of those children still fighting the fight. Until Next Time . . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

June 15, 2010

Hello Everybody,

I am starting to wonder how I ever time to work! It is hard to believe that I have been gone from Belk for over two months now. Wow! The time has flown by and I am of course busier than I have ever been. There is never a dull minute around here.

Last week was Vacation Bible School at our church. I am going to try to explain how the production goes. It is from 5:15 until 8:30 Sunday through Thursday night. We start by feeding the kids dinner then the rotations begin. This year I decided to help in the kitchen with Adult/volunteer snacks. So I baked, cooked and fixed treats all week long. Right up my alley! This was the first time I have helped out since Avery passed away. I must say it was difficult at times but most things still are. Oh how I miss her!

Four of David's five grandchildren came to Bible school each night. I got so very tickled a time or two at little 3 year old Jackson who would say "Hey Gememan. . . . where's pawpaw? whatcha doin Gememan?" He is just precious! They all are but just listening to him melts my heart! It is always fun when we get to see them.

I have been working some for Clinique the past week as well. Dillard's is having a gift with visit event. It has been great being able to go in and do what I do without the pressure and stress of running the counter. I love just walking in working then leaving. It has been wonderful! David has been working so much lately with vacations and surgeries he has been working extra shifts almost weekly.

It is so hard to believe that next weekend I will celebrate being in this house for one year. The past year has been so very incredible. I still sometimes pinch myself to make sure I am not dreaming. I have not laughed this much in so many years.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in. Please continue to pray for us all especially those parents that have lost children. Please pray for all of those children that are fighting the beast we call cancer. Please help us to find a cure! Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . . . Gene Ann

May 20, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Wow, has the time gotten away from me lately! I have been so busy that I just realized that I have neglected updating again. Hopefully now that I am settled this will not happen again. So now let me update on everything that has happened over the past few weeks. I hope that I don't leave anything out!

First of all the wedding was PERFECT! It was so much fun. We had a great time and enjoyed seeing everyone that was there. I hope to put a link soon to pictures. As I was out running errands the day of the wedding I found several signs from Avery. She was with me the entire day. I found several shiny new pennies throughout the day. I would stop laugh and say to her "no Avery I haven't forgotten you!" She would have loved every minute of the day most especially the cake, dj and cookies!

The day after the wedding it was very special having all of my Mom's family at church with us. It was very special seeing how it had been over 30 years since they had all taken communion together. We all had lunch together then parted ways. This is when David and I began moving his belongings into the house. It was a very busy day!

On Monday we had a list a mile long to accomplish. We got it all done. Believe me he doesn't procrastinate when it comes to taking care of things. We started out getting the marriage license filed, drivers license changed from there to the base id card made, then to the insurance office to have me added, then social security office, then shopping for our trip! Whew, we were both exhuasted by the time we got back home. Of course there were many other stops along the way but you get the idea of it was a taking care of things kind of day. This way when we got back from our trip it was all done! Once back home we packed for our trip.

We left early Tuesday morning heading to New Orleans. We stopped a few times along the way. I introduced David to the way I travel meaning we stopped in Mississippi at the outlet to exercise:) Ok, I shopped but I also did a little walking at the same time. I was so fixated on getting to the outlet that we missed our lunch spot. But that is ok because we were neither one ready to eat at that point anyway. We decided to wait and eat when we got to NOLA. We stayed at a bed and breakfast in the Garden District. It was perfect and ended up being a block from one of my favorite Po Boy shops. So off to Parasols for lunch it was. Later that evening we decided to walk to the French quarter. Ok so it was over 20 blocks each way but we managed just fine. We figured out later that we walked at least 7 miles. But we had such a great time taking in all of the sites, making a plan for the next day and just being able to relax.

The rest of our time in NOLA consisted of eating, eating and eating! We did not have a bad meal the entire time. We saw the sights, toured the quarter, shopped a little, ventured out to the Naval base; we covered the area. On Friday we got up early and headed down south. We were in Cut-Off by lunch time. We toured the area found our hotel and decided to get a car wash. While in the car wash I received a phone call from Francine. She was not able to attend the golf tournament this year due to her husband Jeff being in the hospital. He has been very sick but they finally found out what was wrong and were treating it. How sad we would not get to see her. David missed out this trip which means we have to go back so he can meet the famous Ms. Francine (Avery's Ms. Francine). Of course dinner on Friday night was at the Balcony!

The tournament was wonderful as always. The food was incredible but the fellowship just can't be beaten anywhere. We had so much fun! We left the tournament around 2:00 and went back to the hotel to nap. We had planned to get up super early on Sunday morning and head back so we would be home in time for Jackson's birthday party (David's grandson). Well, when we both woke up it was 5:00 and we both agreed that it would be easier to just head back then so we packed up and started home. We managed to stop at the original lunch spot we missed on the way down for dinner that night. It was such a great trip! We can't wait to go back! We need to diet for a few months first though. Oh my I have run out of room for this update! Please continue to pray for all of the children that are battling the beast we call cancer. Please pray for the parents that have lost their children. Thank you so much for stopping by to check in I will try to do a better job of updating! Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery so very much. . . . . .Gene Ann

April 24, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Relay was amazing! Even if they had to cut it short due to bad weather the time we had was incredible. I would like to thank everyone that came out and supported Avery's Army. I of course did not get to spend very much time at our tent but enjoyed every minute that I did get to spend. Hopefully the money will continue to come in and we will make our goal!

Granddaddy and David were awesome getting everything set up then helping to sell chances on the gift basket from A Touch of New York. A good time was held by all.

Now that Relay is over it is time to focus on the big event next weekend. I am very excited and can't believe it is finally here. I just have a few things left to do but for the most part everything is done! By this time next week I will be Mrs. David Mullins. I am really looking for a few days away! We are going to have so much fun.

This weekend is a tough one. I can't believe that Avery has been gone almost two years now. I can't believe all that has happened in those two years. There is not a day that passes that I don't think of her. Some of those days are easier than others but her memory is so alive here. I know she is looking down and smiling at everything that is going on around here. She would have had so much fun last night at relay. Monday will be a difficult day but I plan to make the most of it doing some of Avery's favorite things.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in. Thank you most especially for your prayers. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of the children out there are undergoing treatment right now. Please pray for Jaydee and Alyssa (Avery's little friend two weeks older than Avery had surgery a few weeks to remove her tumor and has left her visually impaired). Also, pray for all of those that have lost loved ones. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy . . . . . . Gene Ann

April 12, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Ok, for those that missed the Shrek'n for a Cure shirts last year here is your chance. This years shirts are black with Shrek on the front wearing sunglasses with the reflection of Far Far Away in them. The team name is on back in silver. The cost is $12 for small - Xlarge, $13 for XXlarge and $14 for XXXlarge. I have to have my order in by Thursday. If you want one just email me at alabamasoupgirl@aol.com. We can work out the logistics of everything after the order is placed. I think this is going to be super cute! I can't wait to get mine.

Hope all is going well for everyone. Things are still crazy busy around here. I know I am not working but still the hours of each day are filled with so much to do. The last few days I have began cleaning out the office. This has been hard because so many of the things I am dealing with are Avery's. I have to do a little then put it aside and then start back again. It is taking longer than I wanted it to but it has been more difficult than I thought it would be. I miss her so very much!

I am looking forward to spending the weekend with Grandmother and Granddaddy. I have to pick up my dress on Friday so I am going to make a weekend out of it! I will probably be in T-town at some point during the weekend (Sunday or Monday) to visit with Natileigh. It is A-Day weekend so that is still up in the air. I will post more on that later.

Thank you all for stopping by to check in and most especially thank you all for your prayers. Please continue to pray for all of those children out there are fighting the beast we call cancer. Please pray for Natileigh's mom Cindy. She is fighting melanoma right now and is having a difficult time. Please for her and her family. Please pray for my friends nephew Jaydee (newly diagnosed Medullablastoma). His last results were that it is in the spine. Please pray for him and his family as they begin this new journey into the world of childhood cancer. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . . . Gene Ann

April 9, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Wow, where does the time go? My time with Belk ended up being extended until Tuesday the 6th. My first two days off were so packed full of going and doing that I forgot to eat! I finally had a snack or two toward the end of the day both days. Belk asked me to work a special event on Thursday night catering. I hardly pass up those opportunities most of the time they are easy and the pay is good. It has been amazing being off and able to get things done. I jokingly said yesterday "when did I ever have time to work?"

Ok so in my slacking these days I have forgotten to update on Pilot. We tried several times to merge our new family of chihuahua dogs. David having two males and then Pilot. All attempts failed miserably! Pilot being who Pilot is and Pacho being Pacho they would tie up and draw blood most every time. The last time did us in so we began to pray about things. After mentioning the situation to several people I received a phone call on my birthday February 14th. It was a girl from church that knew of a family (her neighbors) that really wanted a small house dog for their three little girls. After talking with the family I found myself packing Pilot up the next day and taking her to a new family. She is very happy with her new play mates and never is without attention seeing how the girls range in age from 6 years to 18 months. I get Pilot updates almost every week. This was a really hard decision to make but after praying and thinking for so long I realized that the promise I made to Avery was that I would take care of Pilot not that I would keep her forever. I gave Pilot away on Monday the 15th and then David began looking for a home for Pacho and Chico. He decided to run an ad in the Bulletin Board. The day before the ad broke Chico was hit by a car and had to be put to sleep. This left Pacho by himself. At first I thought we were going to have issuses because I could tell David did not want to give him away. Then the phone started ringing asking about the two dogs needing a home. This was really hard! Then one day he got a call and he just knew that was where he was suppose to go so he gave him away. We have been dogless for some time now. I must admit there are times I miss the crazy little dog but I know she is much happier where she is now. I could not deny her the opportunity of a lifetime just because she was Avery's dog. I must say the neighborhood is very quiet now.

Relay for Life is just around the corner. Relay will be Friday, April 23rd. Avery's Army will be there so if you are in the area drop by to visit for while. I have a few other stories to share but they will have to wait a day or two. I have rambled enough for now.

Thank you all for stopping by please continue to pray for those that have lost their little ones. Each day still has its challenges but your prayers help so very much. Please pray for all of those children undergoing treatment now. Don't forget the super tight extra long hugs. How about dessert first! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

March 29, 2010

Hello Everybody,

The countdown is on to my final day at Belk. Friday will be my last day! Today I was off and spent the entire day working on wedding invitations, grocery shopping and cooking. It was a great day! I can't believe all I accomplished. Everything is almost done and I am just waiting on the big day.

Avery's Birthday was a great day. We all met at the cemetery at 2:00 for a balloon release. We placed new flowers in her vase, released the balloons then headed to Applebee's for lunch. Lunch was great and filled with a good bit of laughter. A few Avery stories were shared. I love hearing and sharing her stories.

After lunch David and I went to visit with a friend that was having surgery. We spent several hours at the hospital. It was rather ironic that I was at Baptist south at the exact time Avery was born 7 years ago. It seemed a little weird at first but then it was fine. I needed to be there.

Saturday morning I received a phone call from Ms. Amy one of Avery's daycare teachers. She had a very sweet story to tell me. Avery's first ever friend Ivy remembered it was Avery's birthday on Friday. She told her mommy she wanted to send a balloon and birthday cake to heaven because it was Avery's birthday and she needed a balloon and cake. They sent up a balloon and a piece of cake. I think this is the sweetest story I have ever heard. I can't believe that she remembered it was Avery's birthday. How incredible.

Thank you all for stopping by and most especially thank you for your prayers. Please continue to pray for all of the children that are currently going through treatment. Continue to pray for all of those parents that have lost children. Now, don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. . . . Until Next Time . . . . . Missing Avery so much . . . . . Gene Ann . . . . BTW I had cake for breakfast Friday and Saturday (now back to the wedding diet).

March 26, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday sweet Princess Avery! I can only imagine what a wonderful birthday celebration you are going to have in heaven with Jesus and all of your angel friends. Today we will be celebrating you!

I've been thinking alot about Avery the last week. More than usual that is. I have so many wonderful memories! I thought of so many stories, had a few laughs, shared a few tears and even found a few things of hers I have been looking for. This time of year she would always get so excited when planning her birthday party. I thought back to all of the themes we came up with. I think my favorite party was the Princess party when she wanted mexican food so we had a Royal Fiesta. I just remember her asking for a Princess party and when I asked her what kind of food would she want at a princess party and she said "you know mommy rice and beans. . . . . mexican food mommy!" I was like oh ok thinking now how do these two things go together. Well we put it all together and had the most amazing time that night. She loved every minute of her party! She loved a party.

Today we are going to the cemetery to release balloons, then to Applebee's and then winding up at the house for birthday cake. It will be a wonderful day of celebrating the sweetest princess ever!

Thank you all for checking in and most especially thank you for your prayers. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for those children undergoing treatment right now. Please pray for all of those that have lost their children especially for those that have anniversaries this week the Hill family and the Roderick family. Now, never ever forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

March 24, 2010

Hello Everybody,

I have so much to update that I just don't know where to start. Hang on because here we go! First of all Avery's Birthday is Friday. We are planning to release balloons at the cemetery sometime. Grandmother, Granddaddy, David and myself will be going. We just have not got our final game plan together right now. Of course a trip to Applebee's for lunch or dinner will follow. I'm still debating the birthday cake or not. I am off for the next two days with Relay for Life stuff, wedding stuff and of course Avery's birthday. I will update as we decide what we are doing.

I guess the biggest news of all is that I am leaving Belk. I turned in my notice on Monday and Good Friday, April 2nd will be my last day. I will still be working for Clinique but on the promotional team just doing events. This is kind of like substitute teaching because you work when you can and as much as you like while events are happening. I will be staying home and devoting my time to some of my volunteer efforts. Of course after May 1st I will be devoting my time to my new life and wonderful new husband.

Tomorrow night is the Shrek'n for a cure silent auction. It will be at First United Methodist Church at 5:30. I am looking forward to speaking and hopefully raising tons of money for Relay for Life. I just keep thinking of my little Princess Fiona and how much she loved Shrek. Every day of mine is filled with so many wonderful memories of my time with Avery. I was so very blessed to have that time with her.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in and for all of your prayers. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of those children that are fighting the beast we call cancer. There is a newly diagnosed brain tumor patient at Children's. His name is Jaydee Smith he was diagnosed a few weeks ago and will begin treatment soon. Please keep him and his family in your prayers. I will update more on Jaydee as I find out information. He is the nephew of a co-worker of mine. Please remember the Roderick family this week. Now, never ever forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . Gene Ann

March 14, 2010

Hello Everybody,

I know I feel so bad about not updating sooner. I have really been busy but that is really no excuse. I will try to update you all on everything that has happened since my last posting.

February was a super busy month. Of course work wise the Clinique counter was in Gift with Purchase which means we do about three times the amount of business in three weeks that we usually do in four weeks. I was working about 50 hours a week with little off time.

I was asked to speak at a press conference for the kick-off for "Buy Alabama's Best Program." This is a program that supports Children's hospital oncology clinic by donating proceeds from the sale of Alabama manufactured products. I was asked to tell Avery's story and share of our experiences at Children's. The week before that I was asked to speak at the Radiothon for Children's Miracle Network. I will do anything to raise awareness of childhood cancer and to advocate Children's Hospital.

Now, I have been so busy that I just realized that I have not told the biggest news of all! Natileigh and Britton are expecting in August. Last week they found out they are having a girl. They are planning to name her Brileigh Ann. I can't believe I have not shared that information!

Wedding plans are coming together. The dress has been purchased and is currently being altered. The menu is planned, flowers and decorating mapped out, all major decisions have been nailed down. Now, if May 1st would just hurry up and get here!

I did manage to take off six days the first week of March. During that time I managed to accomplish a few things. With David's help we finally got the garage cleaned out. The boxes are gone! There are only a few more in the office closet and the other two bedrooms but I can finally see an end to the boxes. Maybe by the time May 1 gets here they will all be gone!

Important events to remember! There will be an auction for Shrekin for a cure (Avery's mothers day out group) on Thursday, March 25th at 5:30. I will be there and speaking that night. There will be some great items up for bid! Avery's birthday is coming up on March 26th. I haven't decided what I am going to do for that yet but will post when I do. Ok, I have rambled long enough besides I am out of room. Thank you all for stopping by to check in and I will try to update sooner. Please continue to pray for all of the children out there that are fighting the beast we call cancer. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones. Now, never forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . . Gene Ann

February 12, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Oh my goodness I have been slacking again. I have so much to share I just don't know where to start. The last month and a half have been so very busy. I know I stay busy but really busier than usual.

First of all let me start back in September when I met a wonderful man at church. We began hanging out together and soon started dating steadily. It has grown into a wonderful relationship. David has asked me to marry him and we will be married on May 1st. Goodness, I have a lot to do before then. But things are coming together already.

Next relay for life is just around the corner. I guess I am totally crazy but it is the weekend before the wedding. I will be doing the accounting again this year. It keeps me busy! Our church will have a team again this year "Avery's Army." I will keep you all posted as fundraisers are decided and announced. I am currently looking for someone to take over as team captain. I just can't do both accounting and team captain. I tried last year and it just wasn't good for me.

The next few months are going to be busy. I have been asked to speak something very special this month. When I get more information I will let everyone know. As you can see it has been very busy. Avery has been busy sending messages lately. I'm sure she is just delighted that mommy is marrying someone named "David." Oh and Francine he is a BAMA fan! Yeah! We had a great time watching most of the games together. Avery has really been into moving pictures lately. I know I straighten her picture at least twice a week. We even used the level last time and well today there it was uneven again! Now, we just laugh! I can just hear her giggling as we are trying to get the pictures straight. Today as the snow continues to come down I thought about her last January here. It snowed right before she got too sick to go outside. She bundled up and went outside with Daddy to make a "no man." She came back in the house with a "no ball." Which the no ball melted before she could find me. She was so proud of her "no man." Little did we know she was a sick as she was at the time. We made the most of everyday.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in. Please continue to pray for all of those children out there that are fighting the beast we call cancer. Please pray for Conner, Janna, Libba, Bayleigh, Molly, Aaron and Nicholas. I am so sorry if I left anyone out but please pray for those in treatment and those that are out of treatment but still face the dreaded scans each year. Please pray for those that have lost loved ones. There are many anniversaries coming up and we all need prayers of strength. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . .Gene Ann

January 10, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Ok, so I'm already slacking this year. Things are so busy around here. Work is crazy! Clinique Bonus starts on February 2nd! I am in the middle of presell for this event. If you need anything let me know and I will work you up a presell. I will even deliver for those in the area will mail for those out of the area. Relay for Life for Autauga County will kick-off next Saturday, January 16th with a pancake breakfast at Beef O'Brady's in Prattville. The breakfast will be from 7:30 until 10 am. The cost is $5 and proceeds will go to Relay for Life teams. I have tickets for Avery's Army if anyone needs any please let me know.

I will update other fundraisers for Relay as soon as I get them. I am hoping to hand off the resposibility of Team Captain for Avery's Army to Rachel at church. She and the youth will hopefully take the team to a new level this year. This is still in the works for now. Last year was very difficult doing accounting and being team captain.

I have not had a weekend off since the first weekend of October. I found out this week it will be the first weekend of March before that can happen. I will be taking off to work on finishing my boxes and organizing the house a little better. I keep thinking I will slow down and take some time to do nothing! Not going to happen any time soon. But I don't think I could stand not having more to do than is possible to do.

Thank you all for checking in! Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of the children that are fighting the good fight. Please pray for all of those parents that have lost their children. Please pray for a cure! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

January 1, 2010

Hello Everybody,

Happy New Year! I hope everyone had a great night last night. I had a very quiet night except for Pilot barking at the fireworks. She was quite the crazy dog but I think that is normal for her.

Have been thinking so much about new years resolutions but really don't have any good ones this year. I want to run two half marathons this year. Finding time to train should be very interesting. I think that this year will be the year of organizing. I am in the house but things are not totally organized yet. So, that is about all I am going to tackle this year.

Happy New Year make this a great year by making wonderful memories with your children. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery so very much. . . . . .Gene Ann

December 31, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Just sitting here reflecting on the past year. So many changes, so much sadness, so little time for anything other than work. The first part of the year was tough but as the year went on things have gotten easier. I must say that the last three months of the year have been wonderful. 2010 will be an incredible year filled with many wonderful blessings.

Today I was getting ready for work when I saw a lady bug on the window seal. I had to stop and first think of Avery (my little lady bug), then I thought how this had to be a sign of good things to come. Lady bugs are lucky so I thought hey maybe my luck is changing. I know though that GOD is in control and HE will take care of everything.

I hope that everyone will have a wonderful and happy new year. Please continue to pray for all of those children that are fighting the beast we call cancer. Let's pray that this is the year that a cure is found. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . .Gene Ann

December 25, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Merry Christmas! I hope the day has been filled with many wonderful blessings. I also hope that everyone has made many wonderful memories to keep forever. I know that day has been incredible.

I visited with Avery for a while today. That was the most difficult part of the day but once I was there I really did not want to leave. Later I enjoyed a family gathering with a friend of mine. It was so nice to be included. It was a very special day.

I am going to enjoy the night because it is back to work tomorrow. UGGGH! I already dread the alarm clock chirping at 4:15 tomorrow morning. I better rest now!

Thank you so much for stopping by. Please continue to pray for all of our special friends! Don't forget the super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

December 24, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Well, as you can see I am slacking once again. There really have not been enough hours in the day this month. I had so many wonderful things to share but the time just has gotten away from me. I am hoping to do better in 2010.

This holiday season has been wonderful! It has been filled with so many wonderful blessings. I have filled all of my extra time baking red velvet cakes. I have one more order to fill tomorrow then I can take a break until next year. It has been nice having the extra money. But at the same time it has been a back breaking job. I plan on sleeping all day tomorrow.

Tonights candle light service at church was beautiful. I can't think of a better place to have been. I was so thankful that I was able to get off of work in time to attend. It was wonderful!

I hope that everyone has a very blessed Christmas. I know Avery is going to the ultimate birthday party tomorrow. Oh to see her! I know she will be one of the party planners and first in line for cake!

Thank you all for checking in on me. Please continue to keep us all in your prayers. Please pray for all of those children fighting the beast we call cancer. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

December 6, 2009

Hello Everybody,

First of all Roll Tide! What a game! I am still in shock that Bama won. I had to call when I got off work to make sure the score was correct. My blackberry said 9 to 0 but I thought this can't be right. Sure enough it was correct and only got better.

I was out sick Friday for the first time since going to work for Belk. I ended up at the doctors office and it is the dreaded sinus infection. I have been so run down lately. Let me see working at least 38 hours a week. Singing in choir and doing all of my volunteer stuff. This week was elite shopping night so I was asked to cater the event. I had to get Grandmother to come help me because I had to leave the event and go to choir practice then come back to break it all down. Busy! Busy! Busy! The event went wonderfully but now everyone at work is hounding me for recipes. I might just have to do a cookbook soon. For now that is just a thought I'm too busy to even think about that.

Tonight is the Christmas musical at church. We are having a dinner theater with proceeds going to the youth mission team. This should be quite fun. Good thing I still have my voice. Not sure if I will after the tonight though.

Elf tip six is simple. Be sure to tuck your elf in each night and sprinkle the magic snowflakes that santa sent you over him or her. This should make them sleep all night and dream of the north pole. However, if you forget check the refrigerator in the morning because they might be sleeping there to stay good and cold. You never know with these silly elves what they are going to do!

Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . Gene Ann

December 5, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Granddaddy! I hope you have a wonderful day filled with all good things and a SEC championship win for the tide to go along too!

Elf tip five! Don't forget to feed your elf every night. The only thing they can have is crackers and water. The crackers are crunchy and remind them of the snow and the water reminds them of melted snow. Don't deviate from this or your could have trouble when you get up tomorrow morning. Never ever give an elf sugar! If you do look first on the ceiling fan tomorrow morning and there is no telling what they will take up there with them.

Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . Gene Ann

December 4, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Elf tip four is pretty simple. Put away all small electric appliances. I heard of one elf that liked making grilled cheese sandwhiches with the iron on the ironing board. Good in theory but a huge yucky mess! Be careful these elves can be tricky.

Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! How about building that gingerbread house tonight! Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

December 3, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Elf tip three is tricky! Elves love toilet paper. So, don't forget to close the bathroom doors. If you forget and leave one open you might just find your tree redecorated with toilet paper. Now, if you recall from two years ago this is when Avery said "Tiffany you silly elf we don't waste toilet paper!" Now, I wonder where she heard that?

Try making reindeer cookies while listening to Christmas music or watching a good Christmas movie. I think I am going to dig out my favorite this weekend "The Polar Express." So far Tiffany has been pretty good this year it is Pilot I can't seem to control! Oh but you should all see her in her new pink sweater. If she will just keep it on long enough for a picture we could all see how cute she can sometimes be. Don't forget the super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery terribly. . . . .Gene Ann

December 2, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Elf tip two is very important! Never leave your wrapping supplies unattended at night. You must put away the scissors. Elves love to make snowflakes, paper dolls and other stuff with scissors. The only problem is you never know what they are going to cut up to make them. I use to love that table cloth that Tiffany decided would make beautiful snowflakes! Be careful those elves can make big messes if not properly attended too.

I will update more later. It has started out being a very busy December. I hope to slow down soon! Now, don't forget to make cookies with sprinkles and lots of icing soon. Don't forget the super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . . Gene Ann

December 1, 2009

Hello Everybody,

It is elf tip time! The main rule you must never ever forget when housing a north pole elf is to never ever leave sugar of any kind where they can find it! Put all cookies, sugar, candy away in a dark place (Elves are afraid of the dark). If you forget you might wake up to a huge a mess and an elf with a tummy ache!

Thanks for checking in on me. Things are going great right now. Please continue to pray for all of us. Please pray for those children that are still fighting the fight. Please pray for all of those that have lost their loved ones. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Now, how about hot chocolate with marshmallows tonight! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . Gene Ann

November 26, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Thanksgiving to all! I hope that the day is filled with many wonderful blessings for everyone. I know that as I sit and reflect on the past year I feel so very blessed. First I am blessed to have such a wonderful family and such fantastic friends. The support you all have given me over the last year has been a huge blessing to me. Thank you all for being such a meaningful part of my life.

The past week has been difficult in part. Several things such as "Thanks and Giving" for Saint Jude's, the children being out of school rushing to mall to see Santa; I could go on and on but I think you all get the picture. I realized that these feelings will never go away and this is something that I will deal with the rest of my life. You can try to avoid these things but they are always going to be there. You can try to turn off your emotions but at some point your going to break.

Now on to brighter news. The tree is up (not decorated but up). It still needs some tweaking before decorating. It is beautiful in the new house and fills the breakfast nook. I plan on having it all done by December 1st. December is looking to be a busy month. Between work and everything else it is going to be a go, go, run, run kind of month. But I think that is the norm for me. One day I am going to slow down:)

Plans for now do include a visit to the camp SAM Christmas party. I have several things planned that day so I am hoping that it all works out. Elf tips will begin in just a few days. You know that starting after Thanksgiving if you leave a glass of water and saltine crackers by the fire place Santa will send you an elf to keep until Christmas eve. I think there might be a little more to it but I will let you know in plenty of time. I hear that Mrs. Francine has requested a special elf for her daycare. I can't wait to hear what all her special friend does. I think Tiffany might be coming to visit this year as well. Oh my I can't imagine how messy this could get.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check on me. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of those children out there fighting the beast we call cancer. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Did you remember to make turkey cookies this Thanksgiving? Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . . Gene Ann

November 19, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I have just a minute before I get ready for work and decided to post a quick update. Work is getting busy with the holidays looming around the corner. Everything is decorated and holiday music fills the air of the mall. I am reminded everyday of Avery and how much she loved the holidays. If she were still here I am sure we would already have the tree up!

I missed a toastmaster meeting on Saturday due to a busy work day. I was volunteered to host the Holiday meeting next month by not attending. Lesson learned never miss another meeting:) Funny! Now, I have to get a few things done around here so maybe that is the kick I need to get it done. Thank goodness it is a breakfast meeting so that is super easy!

I now have office furniture. I just have to get the boxes unboxed and filed. I can't wait! I just now need 3 or 4 days off to get it all done.

Thanks so much for checking in on me. I so appreciate all of your prayers. Please continue to pray for us all as each day without Avery is still difficult. Please pray for all of those children out there fighting the beast we call cancer. Please pray for all of those parents that have lost children. Now, don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. How about dessert first tonight! Until Next Time. . . . .Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

November 11, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Natileigh and Mrs. Pam! I hope that you both had wonderful days today filled with many blessings. Please remember to eat dessert first:) You both are very special!

Everything has been crazy around here as usual. Clinique is still in event and we have been for a week now. The hours have been long but we have been rocking so I haven't minded one bit. You all know how I love to be busy.

I did it again today! Went to the middle of the mall without realizing it was filled with small children. As I turned the corner I could hear the bell and knew that the train was up and running. The children were laughing and the parents were standing watching, snapping pictures and waving as the train would pass by. The memories came flooding back to me. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry. I guess I could avoid the center court of the mall for a while but that would be very difficult. I am hoping that it gets easier as the holidays get closer.

Things are going great right now! I am still having fun and enjoying everything that I am doing. Work has gotten better with the new store manager on board. I actually got four boxes unpacked this week. Wow, now I only have about 10 left! Things are finally coming together.

Thank you all so much for checking in on me. I so appreciate your thoughts, prayers and messages. Please continue to pray as the holidays draw closer we will all need your prayers. Please pray for those children that are still fighting the beast we call cancer. Please pray for those parents that have lost children. Now, don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . . . Gene Ann

October 31, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I know, I know. . . .I'm a huge slacker! I can't believe how long it has been since my last update. I will try to do better.

Work has been very busy. Well I have been busy preparing for upcoming events. I went to Birmingham for my accreditation exam a couple of weeks ago I passed so now I am an accredited consultant. It just means they think I know what I am doing. I am still the only one on my line due to sickness and laziness. My full time girl is very sick and my part time girl just doesn't want to work. I am trying to work all I can but I can't be there everyday. Hopefully I will get some help soon.

Monday night I spoke in Fort Deposit at awomens Bible study group. It was so amazing. I had the best time and feel so very blessed to have shared our journey. I find this so healing and enjoy sharing Avery stories to anyone that will listen.

Life is great! I am having fun and enjoying everything I do. There are still those times that I have to remember to stop and breathe but I think those will never go away. Those times have gotten easier. I find myself laughing more now than before. I will try to do a better job of updating. The holidays are coming and I have so many new elf tips as well as holiday tips.

Thanks so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of those children out there that are still fighting the fight. Please pray for all of those parents that have lost children. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. I'm thinking ice cream cones for breakfast tomorrow. Until Next Time. . . . . .Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

October 14, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Wow, I can't believe what a slacker I have become in updating. So much has been going on that there are just not enough hours in the day. I hope to not leave anything out!

I have been working very odd shifts lately because I have been the only full time at the counter. One of my girls has been out sick and on vacation. The other part timer doesn't really want to work and only wants certain shifts so I have handled the bulk of the load lately (4 weeks now). I have also been juggling other responsibilities at work and my volunteer schedule as well.

Today I was off but my day was planned from start to finish. The day started with a conference call for work, then a chiropractor appointment (started a new therapy that is working wonders on my back), lunch then I helped cook dinner for church, worked a shift a the pumpkin patch doing science and math experiments with the kids, then served dinner at church from there it was choir practice. Whew, I have to get back to work tomorrow to get a break. The day was amazing!

Ok, so while at choir tonight we were practicing a Christmas song "Rigging up the lights," I didn't know whether to cry or laugh. The song is comical but reminded me so much of Avery. I remembered her last Christmas and how she was in the back seat saying "pretty, pretty. . . . not pretty, not pretty. . . . . pretty. . . . . mommy our house is not pretty . . . . did you hear me mommy our house is not pretty!" She was referring to the Christmas lights and then asked me why everybody didn't put out lights and decorations. I remembered her calling Dan and telling him "Daddy our house is not pretty. . . . what are you going to do about it daddy?" Of course he thought I put her up to calling but I didn't. She just always came up with this stuff on her own. The song was just what I needed, it brought back happy memories of my special times with Avery.

Several events coming up that I am excited about. Next weekend there is a Toastmaster conference in Prattville. I will be doing the decorating but will not be attending the conference due to work and a wedding or two that I will be attending. Next Thursday I will be going to Birmingham to take my test to become an accredited consultant. Part of it is actual show them what I know and the other is written. I have been studying.The last Monday of the month I will be going to Fort Deposit to speak to a Bible study group. I am looking so forward to meeting some of Avery's prayer warriors and sharing our story. It has been and continues to be a very busy month.

Thank you all for checking in. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of the children that are battling the beast we call cancer. Please pray for a new friend Sterling as he had his first brain surgery in Birmingham this week. Please pray that the results on pathology are good and everything goes well. Please pray for all of those that have lost loved ones especially those that have lost children. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . . Gene Ann

October 6, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Shelby! I hope you have a wonderful day today and a year ahead filled with many wonderful blessings. Eat your cake first today and think of Avery. I am very proud of you!

It's back to work today. I'm not thrilled but you have to do what you have to do sometimes. I will update more later. Thanks for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of those out there fighting the beast. Also, pray for those that have lost loved ones recently. Pray for my choir friend Reggie as he is fighting a bad case of bronchitis along with his other lung problems. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time . . . . . Missing Avery more than ever . . . . . Gene Ann

October 3, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Not much really going on around here. Busy as usual. This week I was in Birmingham for counter manager leadership conference on Tuesday. The rest of time it has been work, work, work. This has been my last weekend off until after inventory in January. YUCK!

Grandmother and Granddaddy have been visiting for a couple of days. I had planned to run the Montgomery half marathon thinking that it was in November but it was today so I didn't make it to run. I probably could have done it but didn't want to risk injury seeing how it has been two months since I have been able to walk or run. The LPGA is in town for Navistar Classic and Granddaddy came to go to that with Charlie on Friday. We went today and might go back tomorrow depending on the weather. It was fun getting out.

I have so much to get done before going back to work on Tuesday. Hopefully I will have a very productive day tomorrow and Monday.

Thank you all so much for checking in on us. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for those that are fighting the beast. Please pray for all of those parents that have lost their little ones. Don't forget those super tight extra tight hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . Gene Ann

September 24, 2009

Hello Everybody,

First of all thank you to all that have sent messages of encouragement along with your prayers after last nights post. You all are awesome! I am feeling much better but have realized that I have to make a change possibly a job move for my sanity. I have really been praying about this and have received several signs that seem to be pointing me in what I believe is the right direction.

It has been nice the past few days having Grandmother and Granddaddy here. I don't know what I would do without them.

It is really late and I am waiting on a chocolate sheet cake to cool so I can wrap it and head to bed. We are having a surprise birthday luncheon for one of the alterations ladies that doesn't have any family. I work with some great people that are always thinking of others.

Thank you all for checking in and most especially thank you for your prayers. Please continue to pray for us all as we still continue to heal. Please pray for all of those that are going through treatment right now. Please pray for those parents that have lost their children. Don't forget the super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . Forever missing Avery. . . . . Gene Ann

September 23, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I'm just now catching up from being off for five days. I've been trying to update but just haven't had the energy or heart to put into updating. This past week has been a rough one. So much has happened my emotions have been on over drive so I thought it best to hold off on updating until I settled down a bit.

I wasn't ready to go back to work from my short vacation but managed to go with a smile on my face. I prayed all the way to work then once there had the most amazing day. The first day since my vacation that the counter made goal. This happened Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. Great, I thought! Then Friday they called us all back one at a time and cut our pay.. I just have to pray harder I thought! Ok now I am thinking that praying for another job would be the best thing right now. I love Clinique! This has been one of the most fun jobs I have ever had but the Belk world isn't where I want to be right now. I am ready to do something to make a difference.

So I was asked to cater an event at work that was tonight. I thought great! The event was great and with Grandmother and Granddaddy's help went off without a hitch. But doing these things still gets me nowhere with this company. It is all about sales per hour end of story. I will say that I was so busy today that I almost forgot what today was. Today would have been mine and Dan's nine year wedding anniversary.

I have been very sad this past week. I miss Avery more than words can ever describe. I thought of her on Sunday as I was trying to get rid of the ants that managed to migrate in during the storm. I remembered the summer that we went to see "The Ant Bully." I laughed thinking to myself that I was the ant bully. Then later that night I had a dream about the movie and woke up looking for Avery. I just really miss her. Today I could hear her saying "mommy where is my seat. . . . .I want to help you and Grandmother. . . . . mommy can I have a brownie bite. . . . . mommy what is that." Oh I miss that sweet little voice. I miss our family meals, I miss our family game nights, I miss being a mommy, and I miss being a wife. Life has just seemed so unfair lately. I just know that I have to pray harder and focus now on the future and what it holds.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for all of those that undergoing treatment right now. Please pray for Bayleigh as she is in Hawaii and has the flu. Please pray especially for all of the parents out there that have lost their little ones. Don't forget the super tight extra long hugs! Until Next Time. . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . Gene Ann

September 16, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Happy Birthday Dan, Janna, Miller, Mary Harbin and Caden. I hope you all have a wonderful day filled with tons of surprises. Eat cake first today and think of Avery.

More later. . . . .Missing Avery like crazy today. . . . . . Gene Ann

September 14, 2009

Hello Everybody,

Vacation is almost over:( I'm not ready to go back to work. I still have stuff to do. Oh, well just a few more weeks and I'll be off for four days again. I have been busy!

Thursday I got a few things done around the house. I finally had time to look for some things I have not been able to find. Found most of them. Thursday night was the Relay for Life committee meeting. This went well and next years Relay is going to be incredible. The Relay Chairs have been working hard to map out a wonderful event. I will be chairing accounting again. This year I have a few people that are going to help so this should make it super easy. They are all working hard to make it easy, fun and a super fundraiser.

Friday morning I drove to Birmingham to meet Grandmother and pick up a few things that a friend needed to borrow for a special event. We did some looking around but really were not in shopping moods. I rushed home to get Angie the stuff she needed. Then it was time to grocery shop. The rest of the day I spent cooking. Something I have not done much of lately. I made up for it in one day. I was ready for some real food.

Saturday morning Angie brought back the stuff she had borrowed so we loaded my car to the top. I dropped Pilot off at the doggy resort for the weekend. I headed to Jasper for Caden's second birthday party. He will be two on the 16th. It was fun watching him and the little ones at his party. From Caden's party Grandmother and I headed for Sammy and Sherri to watch the game. We again had too much food. I took the chocolate cake I had baked the night before. Lydie came and got me and said "I want another brownie. . . . I really like your brownies!" This reminded me of Avery because she never turned down anything that had chocolate and looked like a brownie. The game was great! ROLL TIDE! Of course I had a toastmaster conference call right at kick off. Good thing I was able to mute myself.

Sunday started very early. We used my cell phone number for a letter that went out for an event at work. Some lady called before 6:30 to RSVP for the event thinking it was just a voice mail extension. I think I will re-think that next time. Oh well I needed to be up anyway to get ready for Ride for Kids. The ride was incredible. Last year I rode for my first time with Gwen and Molly. This year I rode on the back without a side car. It was a beautiful ride. The weather could not have been more perfect. I was very happy that I took my jacket because it got chilly a time or two. The best part of the ride was making two laps around the track at Barber Motor Sports Museum. Although we wanted to go faster but the bike in front of us kept slowing down. Let's just say it gave me a good idea of what I should do for my 40th birthday and I have a little over a year to save for the event. It was great seeing Molly (and family), Bayleigh (and family), Karissa (and family), Nena, Jim the Ride for Kids task force (Bill, Joyce, Anita, Roy, Stacey). What an event! Wonderful as always. From Ride for Kids Grandmother, Granddaddy and myself went and grabbed some lunch. I then went to GiGi's for a few hours to wait for time for Kandles for Kids. Kandles was very touching as always. I really enjoyed seeing Nurse Kelly, Mrs. Rhonda, Paul, Mr. Richard and everyone that was there. It was so good to see some of Avery's little friends that I have not seen in quite a while. The day was filled with emotion but was such a wonderful day of remembering those little ones that lost their battles. It was a day of honoring those that still fight and celebrating those that have won. I will do everything I possibly can from now on to make sure more win than loose. With enough focus we can win the war!

Now, on my last day of vacation I am frantically trying to get done the things I have put off that need to be done before returning to work tomorrow morning. I just picked up Pilot from the doggy resort to find out she didn't do very well in group play. She does not play well with others. What am I going to do with her. I guess Hand in Paw is out for her.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check up on what has been going on. Please continue to pray for us all. Please pray for a cure. Please pray for all of those out there that are fighting the beast. Remember to pray for Molly, Krissy, Bayleigh, Matt and all of the others. Please pray for those parents that have lost their little ones. Now, don't forget the super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . Missing Avery more than ever. . . . . . .Gene Ann

September 9, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I'm slacking again. There just don't seem to be enough hours in the day for me. I go, go, go until I just fall over. Things have been quite crazy but that is the norm for me. However maybe I can get caught up while on vacation this week. Yes, that is right I started vacation tonight after I finished my shift. I don't have to be back until Tuesday the 15th.

Work is good but draining. I was named Charity Day co captain last week. This just means more that I have to pack into my days. But the busier the better. Life is good! I am having some fun and getting out more. Pilot seems to be adjusting. She is for the most part a good lap dog (when inside). As for the rest of the time she is still a very spunky, overly active, very loud little dog. But I love her anyway.

I have to give a big "ROLL TIDE!" for Avery. What a game. I think they showed Big Al more than ever during the game. Back when Avery was fascinated with Big Al we would watch for him and it seemed they never showed him. Just about every commercial break they showed him last weekend. I would just laugh and say "there's Big AL!" I would think of Avery every time. Well, the new house has been broken in with its first tailgating event. It was quite fun of course winning always makes a get together better. The food was incredible and as always much more than was needed but for those that know me know simple is not in my vocabulary.

Tomorrow night I have a committee meeting for Relay for Life. I will probably take a friend to the doctor tomorrow day. Saturday I will be going to Jasper for a birthday party and to watch the game. Sunday is Ride for Kids:) I think I will probably be riding with Gwen again this year. I can't wait to see Molly and family! Grandmother and Granddaddy are going with me this year. Last year I went by myself I think it was the hardest thing I have ever done. It was so painful. This year is going to be different though I see a happy day a day of celebrating and remembering Avery.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in on what's happening in my world. Thank you all most especially for your prayers. Please keep praying for us all. Please pray for all of the children out there are fighting the beast. Please pray for all of those that have lost their children. Don't forget the super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . . Missing Avery so very much . . . . . . Gene Ann

September 1, 2009

Hello Everybody,

I'm back up and running:) I would like to thank Dan for getting my blog back up and running. Due to technical difficulties he had to make me a new blog page because the old journal is damaged. Oh well I'll take anything I can get at this point.

Work is good. Since gift with purchase is over things have really slowed down. This just gives me more time to do the little things I have been putting off for some time now. I'm hoping to get back to running/walking in the next week or so. There is going to be a half marathon in Montgomery sometime in November and I have to get ready!

I am excited about football season! I can't wait to watch the tide on Saturday. I really have been missing Avery and all of her antics with Big Al and David. She loved Big Al and yelling "Roll Tide!" I was thinking back to the first game two years ago when she had left Big Al in Tuscaloosa at Natileigh's house. She had to call him on the phone and tell him "Big Al you better get to the game. . . . get out of the sprinklers and get to the game NOW!" She was so funny! Oh how I miss that.

Thank you all so much for stopping by to check in. Thank you for your prayers and keep praying for us all. Please pray for all of those children out there that are still fighting the fight. Please pray for all of those that have lost their children. Don't forget those super tight extra long hugs. Until Next Time. . . . . . . Missing Avery like crazy. . . . . . Gene Ann